although there r nagging feelings sometimes (as i'm quite not very confident in myself) and especially as i've been through the trauma before (my ex of 7 years cheated on me). i'm now happily married to my husband and i trust my husband. of course there are always highs n lows in our mood, i have to keep reminding myself that although he is a man, i cannot link him with my past negative experiences.
its also important to learn from our past experiences so that we wont fall into the same old cycle. ie: ex bf strayed because i was too controlling, tries to know his every movement and suspect too much even when he hasn't stray yet. quarrel for small issues to make it a big one etc..
i dunno how true it is, but if we keep thinking tat our partner strays and keep suspecting him, he will tend to make it true.. at least it was true for my ex bf, so i wont risk tat thought now.
its also important to learn from our past experiences so that we wont fall into the same old cycle. ie: ex bf strayed because i was too controlling, tries to know his every movement and suspect too much even when he hasn't stray yet. quarrel for small issues to make it a big one etc..
i dunno how true it is, but if we keep thinking tat our partner strays and keep suspecting him, he will tend to make it true.. at least it was true for my ex bf, so i wont risk tat thought now.