Ya la! Isn't that very stressful? My husband travels all the time. Sometimes he has to work late. There was even periods of time that we didn't live in the same country. So like that how? Call check all the time. I trust my husband and he appreciates that trust. He informs me ahead that he'll be traveling with his female colleagues too. And when my husband is away, I sometimes have meals with my male friends alone. The trust is mutual.I was wondering the same thing as Noelsmum. If you are not the kind to trust your partner, then what do you do? Check emails and SMSes? Follow hubby around? Or be suspicious at their every move?