I will miss my son ...

CynCyn

CynCyn

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After being a full time mother for 11months I decided to embark my journey in my career and finally got a job .
My Ds will be in the care of a nanny but 1 thing is I will miss my son . And I won't have much time to spend with him except for after work and weekends . Right at the thought of me going to wrk and my son in other ppl's care , i just don't bear . But you can never have the best of two worlds .

So how do you Full time working mums cope with this emotionally ? :embarrassed:
 
Celina

Celina

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CynCyn said:
After being a full time mother for 11months I decided to embark my journey in my career and finally got a job .
My Ds will be in the care of a nanny but 1 thing is I will miss my son . And I won't have much time to spend with him except for after work and weekends . Right at the thought of me going to wrk and my son in other ppl's care , i just don't bear . But you can never have the best of two worlds .

So how do you Full time working mums cope with this emotionally ? :embarrassed:
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im sure u can cope with everything, i cant comment cos im a full time home maker @ the moment.
 
xiaodaisy

xiaodaisy

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actually for mi unless is someone i know i den fang xin to go work like last time my mother look after for mi den i go work all along until recently den never work nia.. but after time goes can slowy get used to it.. since office work should have more time, i work tat time oni spend less den 2hrs wif my kids .. cos long hrs n oni 1 off day for 2 wks
 
babypris86

babypris86

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Cyn, i also have this problem... especially after the 3 months maternity leave... even till now i still think of my DS.. and i will try to rush home after work to see him and play with him... some times when i miss him i will just look at the videos and photos of him in my hp hehe hehe
 
LoVeS

LoVeS

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CynCyn said:
After being a full time mother for 11months I decided to embark my journey in my career and finally got a job .
My Ds will be in the care of a nanny but 1 thing is I will miss my son . And I won't have much time to spend with him except for after work and weekends . Right at the thought of me going to wrk and my son in other ppl's care , i just don't bear . But you can never have the best of two worlds .

So how do you Full time working mums cope with this emotionally ? :embarrassed:
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Cyn when ur works get really bz u wont b so emotionally liao. Although i am a SAHM but when last time at wrk gets really bz u wont even haf the time to miss or tink of sum1 dearest to u. The only thing u can do is make sure he is in great care.:001_302:
 
Leanne

Leanne

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I just started few days ago.

On the 1st day, i went back to my mom's place cus i really miss leroy a lot. Upon seeing him, i cried immediately.

I really do miss him :(

Now, i've learn to treasure more time with him.
 
Joylucas

Joylucas

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Back to work for more than 5 mths, i still misses my ds alot .. Sigh!

Everyday i will rush home to him & when he smile at me it really melts my heart and i forget all my stress at work liao!

:Dancing_wub:
 
rjj

rjj

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if u dun miss your children, den something must be wrong....

But if we hv no choice but to work and help support the family... just 'ren' lor... what to do... after work then kiss kiss more lor... hehe ....
 
michelle

michelle

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My hus help to bring kids go sch and deal with them after sch too..

And my boi seem to not as close to me le...

But.. bo mian de.. work liao, got $$ can bring them out or buy them lots of thing that they wan.. Then they would be happy de....

Indeed.. i do miss them too...
 
CynCyn

CynCyn

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rjj said:
if u dun miss your children, den something must be wrong....

But if we hv no choice but to work and help support the family... just 'ren' lor... what to do... after work then kiss kiss more lor... hehe ....
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Hahaha ! The way u phrase it out is so cute : after work then kiss kiss more lor ... :tlaugh:
But I've friends who's working but after work she don't rush back to see her kids instead she heads else where be it off days . Ironic eh ?
 
CynCyn

CynCyn

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I will be starting work on Monday . Few more days left as a SAHM to accompany my son . Haiz . :embarrassed:
 
Mrs Xie

Mrs Xie

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Understand your feeling.... what we can do is to spend quality time with our little ones..... cherish the moments together with them..... :tlaugh:
 
CanCanMum

CanCanMum

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CynCyn said:
After being a full time mother for 11months I decided to embark my journey in my career and finally got a job .
My Ds will be in the care of a nanny but 1 thing is I will miss my son . And I won't have much time to spend with him except for after work and weekends . Right at the thought of me going to wrk and my son in other ppl's care , i just don't bear . But you can never have the best of two worlds .

So how do you Full time working mums cope with this emotionally ? :embarrassed:
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spend all your time with your son after work....after he is asleep, wake up to do laundry....weekends stay home with son or bring him for outing.:tlaugh:
 
Frenchkitty

Frenchkitty

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I just started my ML only and the thought of going back to work makes me miss my son already!
I cant bear to leave him and not care for him for so many hours!
Cos from his birth until now, I been the one who is caring for him... feeding, cleaning up, changing nappies etc.
My MIL is only helping me with the laundry and cooking. All chores related to DS I am doing myself so I feel very close to him.

I really cant bear to leave him to go back to work. SIGH
 
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stonston

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honestly, i dun realli miss my boy alot at work cos i'm so busy at work. it's onli during break time then will start to miss him.

if he's home, i'll call home to chat with him or log onto the internet cam to see wot he's doing. if he's at school, i jus look at the timetable n wonder wot he's doing :p

but recently he suddenly very sticky to me n want me alot, so will try to finish my work early n go home earlier to play with him :p
 
jojoki

jojoki

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me just quit my job to take care of bb... we are financially quite drain after a sudden paycut on myside after i got pregnant.. n hospital billl bb stuffs... but i'm very determined to be with baby for her first year minimum...even if tht means i;m gonna live on bread n water... sometimes i feel bad cos i wont be able to get her flashy toys... but I will make sure I will be her best toy ever. I seriously cant bear to leave her not even one hour.... no matter how drained i am. haha 1st child after 2 miscarriage and 2 years of non ovulation... wat to do... seriously addicted to her!
 
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Beautifulmom

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jojoki said:
me just quit my job to take care of bb... we are financially quite drain after a sudden paycut on myside after i got pregnant.. n hospital billl bb stuffs... but i'm very determined to be with baby for her first year minimum...even if tht means i;m gonna live on bread n water... sometimes i feel bad cos i wont be able to get her flashy toys... but I will make sure I will be her best toy ever. I seriously cant bear to leave her not even one hour.... no matter how drained i am. haha 1st child after 2 miscarriage and 2 years of non ovulation... wat to do... seriously addicted to her!
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nrl

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help

Any mom has vacancy for jobs that dont require too much ot? Really cant bear the guilt feeling doing ot..., my employer dont seems to understand..
 
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