Insider Truths About SG Sex Industry In Singapore By A Social Escort Of 6 Years

1. Escorting pays more than sugar babying



Before she was an escort, Ashley was a sugar baby for 6 months. To her, sugar babies are a type of sex worker. However, Ashley gives this analogy: if escorting was a full-time job, then being a sugar baby is like having a part-time job.



From her experience, Ashley realised sugar daddies view their sugar babies as more of a friend than a lover. That means that there is more emotional work invested in sugar relationships. She explains that when you are a sugar baby, you have to commit exclusively to a select few men without being guaranteed the stability of a relationship.



Another drawback of being a sugar baby is that it pays less than escorting. Currently, Ashley’s basic rate through her agent is $500 to $700 for 2 hours. As Ashley puts it, you “have to decide what [you] want to get out of a life of sugar-babying.” As a sugar baby, your sugar parent will take you out in exchange for gifts, meals, jewellery and/or holidays. As an escort, Ashley was able to “track [her] finances better and make more money in the long run.”



2. There are different tiers of social escorts

Ashley describes herself as a ‘mid-tier escort’. Her reasoning for categorising herself this way is because she comes across as the approachable, girl-next-door type.



Top-tier girls are akin to socialites: in her words, “there’s a certain layer of pretentiousness”. To be a top-tier girl, “you need to be more hypocritical, a bit more greedy, and pursue more materialistic stuff”.



As the clients they serve live in a “different world”, top-tier girls also need a specialised set of skills. On top of being fluent in the carnal arts, these girls need to be able to appreciate wine, talk about fine dining, play piano and/or golf.



The ‘low-tier’ girls are those who are just starting out. They’re figuring out how to set emotional boundaries with clients and read their moods. Developing these skills are necessary to properly seduce those they sleep with.


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