nope i dont think its normal.If my hubby were to do tht i wld be whacking him with the frying pan!!
is that ur hubby or ur fren's one? i feel that the hubby abit too over! and how can he determine a 2mth old bb is being spoilt? they cry for many reasons! instead of blaming the baby, he shd find out the reason. the more he vent his anger on the baby, the baby will be frightened and cry even more!Recently the father has been shouting at the baby. Not everyday, but i just dont find it normal. Will a 2mths old baby be overly pampered or spoiled? He claims that his baby is spoiled, and bad temper, so he just lets him cry until saliva is choking him, and when his wife asks him why would you want to do that to the baby, he can says things like, "let him cry. let him cry until he die i also wont feel a thing."
i suspect is post natal depression. but he wont listen to anyone, and always insist his points are right. and he is angry that why nobody understands him? -.-"'
in that case the wife should handle the baby alone, becoz no point the daddy handles the baby like that and there is no way he can coax the baby from wad i see it, it only makes things worst. Not every1 is born an expert in babies, some daddies are very bad at this. Reason can be as simple as they cannot stand cranky baby crying or they are not ready mentally to be a daddy as yet, give him some time to adapt to the changing lifestyle.Recently the father has been shouting at the baby. Not everyday, but i just dont find it normal. Will a 2mths old baby be overly pampered or spoiled? He claims that his baby is spoiled, and bad temper, so he just lets him cry until saliva is choking him, and when his wife asks him why would you want to do that to the baby, he can says things like, "let him cry. let him cry until he die i also wont feel a thing."
i suspect is post natal depression. but he wont listen to anyone, and always insist his points are right. and he is angry that why nobody understands him? -.-"'
he needs to read up more on babycare books..Recently the father has been shouting at the baby. Not everyday, but i just dont find it normal. Will a 2mths old baby be overly pampered or spoiled? He claims that his baby is spoiled, and bad temper, so he just lets him cry until saliva is choking him, and when his wife asks him why would you want to do that to the baby, he can says things like, "let him cry. let him cry until he die i also wont feel a thing."
i suspect is post natal depression. but he wont listen to anyone, and always insist his points are right. and he is angry that why nobody understands him? -.-"'
for crying out method to work, beforehand he mus understand baby is not crying due to distress, sickness, hunger, discomfort or fear. IF baby is crying out of comfort zone leavin him to cry out loud will not work.He actually asked us to let the baby cry. Just let him cry until he is tired he will sleep. but to me, it really depends on what kind of crying. Its a horror to see the father doing nothing when the baby is crying until choking and he still shout at him. Worse is he thinks everyone is going against him. Any suggestions on how to talk to post natal depression male?