my hubby looks like have change after our baby is born

quincy1986

Active Member
from how i see it, now u still dont know what he is doing, why do you say it will affect his mind and future?
 

quincy1986

Active Member
for me i will tell my hb if it is wrong or right if i know what is happening.
i will only feel it is weird that we do not know what each other is doing or thinking.
 

Triple

Alpha Male
TS,
I think u really need to ponder over the following questions.
Do you think you own him?
Does he owe you?
Is he is accountable to you? Must explain everything to you?

Do you treat your frens the same way?
If u are treating him worse than u treat your friends, is that being fair to him?
 

mike1982

New Member
hi fellow mummies/daddies

not sure I may seek the opinion/advice.

since giving birth to our first child in 2014, seems like I am struggling to meet the expectations/performance standards that my wife has when it comes to looking after our daughter.when I ask her to clarify some instructions by asking (e.g.when preparing the porridge feed, feeding, trying to help to clean bb up), seems like I making her more jaded. at some pt, I haf doubts abt my ability to help out...sometimes even scare to ask her more questions if nt get a ticking off..or what she would term it my lack of space to multitasking and at times being impatient.

advice much appreciated, thanks!
 
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