My IVF Success Story

Kokura

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6 top tips to boost sperm health

In my last blog post I focused on 10 ways women can improve the quality of their eggs. In this post I turn my attention to the men.
Over the past few years, we have seen more and more men with sperm issues. It’s a known fact that around 50% of fertility is down to male factors and yet still we focus so much on the woman. The male partner has an equally crucial role to play at conception in providing the healthiest sperm he can for the future health of the child.
Here are my top six tips to boost sperm health:



1. Sex, sex and more sex! There are so many myths around sex when trying for a baby, and the most common questions we’re asked are about how often to have it and whether it’s better to save the sperm up. Firstly, you should be having sex as much as possible, at least three times a week. The idea of saving sperm is a myth as it will die after a few days. Research shows that the more fresh sperm there is, the better the quality.

2. Passion – Testosterone is the hormone of desire. Sex can become an issue between partners when they’re trying for a baby or if they’ve done endless rounds of IVF, and it’s easy to see why sex becomes mechanical. Focusing on getting a good sex life back is key to sperm health. Arousal is important as it affects the amount of sperm you will produce and you’re not helping yourself by having mechanical, passionless sex.

3. Pressure – Take the pressure off one another when it comes to wanting a baby. Pressure causes performance anxieties in men. A man doesn’t need to know everything that’s going on in a woman’s body to be ready for sex. He doesn’t need to know when she’s ovulating and he doesn’t need the pressure to perform.

4. Relationship – So often we see that the relationship is tense due to trying for a baby, which makes it harder to have sex. Sex can become a subconscious currency between couples. Trying for a baby and going through IVF challenges any relationship and that is why, as part of our holistic approach to fertility, we offer fertility counselling to help couples better understand themselves and each other and support each other through the pressures and challenges of trying for and having a baby.

5. Lifestyle – Make sure you get a sexual health screen. It’s well-documented that alcohol, cigarettes and recreational drugs affect sperm health and increase free radical damage, which affects the DNA of the sperm. Being overweight or underweight can also affect fertility, so it would really help to take a good look at your exercise regime and your diet.

6. Nutrition – Recent research has found that men need to focus on their diet just as much as women when it comes to creating a healthy baby. Nutrients such as Vitamin B9 (folate), carnitine, Omega 3 and Vitamin D can all help in creating and maintaining healthy sperm. Look out for my next blog post that will talk about Sperm building foods.
If you are trying for a baby and would like any advice or guidance on increasing your chances of having a baby naturally then contact our clinic for a confidential and highly personalised consultation and a detailed action plan.
We have a range of supplements that can support male nutritional intake such as Vitamen, Vitamen Boost, Vital DHA and Vitamin D Spray



Taken from Zita West Fertility Clinic website. IVF Clinic | Fertility Clinic | The Zita West Clinic London
 
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Kokura

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Taken from Zita West Fertility Clinic website. IVF Clinic | Fertility Clinic | The Zita West Clinic London
So many women considering IVF for the first time feel as though they are standing at the bottom of Everest looking up to the top.

It seems like a huge, frightening process that could take years to work and then there are all the misconceptions and scare stories that abound about IVF, such as it will turn you into a hormonal wreck, be incredibly painful and will take up all your time.

IVF is more straightforward than you might think

In reality, IVF is far more straightforward and less scary than some may think and who better to ask to dispel the myths than our clinic manager Anita O’Niell?

We gave her just 90 seconds to break down some of the myths about the IVF process, and give you the answers that you need:
 
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Kokura

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Dear trying to concieve ladies,



Do you sometimes feel alone on your fertility journey, and have questions that need answering but dont’t have anyone to ask for expert advice?

If so you’re not alone on this.

In the UK there are over 3 million people currently struggling with fertility issues, and almost all of them have constant questions that need answering, and nobody to ask!

To help support you I’m dedicating this months’ Fertility Question Time to a Q&A only session, to offer you and my other listeners some free expert guidance and support.

I’m going to spend 60-90 minutes answering as many questions as I can on any fertility related topic. This means I should get through 4-5 times the amount of questions that I usually answer at FQT, giving you and the other listeners 4-5 times the amount of support and information!

Register now to guarantee your place and to send in your questions.
CLICK HERE NOW TO REGISTER YOUR FREE PLACE


l’ll be answering your questions, so please send in any questions by clicking the link above and registering for the live event.

Once you’re registered I'll remind you of the event as we get nearer to it, but here are the details in advance:

** EVENT DETAILS **

Next Event:
Thursday 24th March 2015, 8pm UK time (timezone converter here)

Topic:
Special Question and Answer Session


Speakers:
Andrew Loosely - Chinese Medicine Fertility Expert & Herbalist

Access: Free access by web or local number rate by phone

Registration: Once you register you will receive login details to attend the event.


CLICK HERE NOW TO REGISTER YOUR FREE PLACE

I'll be in touch again to remind you about the event, as we get closer to it.











Best wishes



Andrew Loosely | Chinese Medicine Fertility Expert, Author and Speaker

Lic.OHM, DCHAc, Dip.CH, MURHP, MCMIR
Creator of The Baby Creating Plan - The 3 Step Formula to Having Your Baby
www.NaturalFertilityExpert.com

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Kokura

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It’s becoming more common that some people just aren’t able to get pregnant exactly when they want to. I know that it can be one of the hardest things to go through in life. The uncertainty and lack of control can be so frustrating! You’ve had all the tests, maybe some fertility treatment but there's still no baby, month after month.
The good news is that women and couples wanting to have a baby can actually use this time in their lives as a catalyst to create an amazing life NOW not only for themselves, but for their future baby. By doing so they’ll actually increase their chances of conceiving naturally and in some cases, sooner.
What if there was a way to connect with an unexplored part of yourself that will bring to life everything you have ever dreamed of, including that beautiful baby?
Would you be interested in that?
I’d like to invite to you to a special online event happening this week - the Before Baby Revolution Summit giving you the opportunity to truly grow and create your best life NOW in ALL aspects.. baby included.

It's the vision of Spenser Brassard, who is also on her journey to motherhood, and is a truly special and enlightening event for all future parents who are struggling to find peace and happiness in their journey to have a baby.
I was thrilled to be invited to speak myself at such a unique and important event, and I was even more excited to be opening the event today - April 4th! I would love you to join us...
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Kokura

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Your Embarrassing Sex Questions Answered
Hi

In my clinic every day I get asked a lot of questions about sex, and very often couples are very embarrassed to ask about sex. At the clinic, we encourage openness and talking about sex. When you’re trying to conceive, sex is obviously key, but it tends to become more stressful than enjoyable, and so being in the know can definitely help take some of that pressure off.

Take a look at my video, as I answer some of the most common questions I get asked by couples about sex:
Got an Embarrassing Sex Question?



Visit my blog post for a Cheat Sheet on some of the most common questions we get asked.


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NEWS about fertility support with Sarah Holland!



Have you got to a place on your fertility journey where you're ready for something... different?

A different mindset...

A different perspective...

A different way of dealing with stress. ..

A different approach to resolving your fertility issues and conceiving your baby..?


If you're at the point of wanting - or indeed needing - emotional support and transformation for both you and your fertility, then Sarah is pleased to announce that her diary is now OPEN to new clients. :)
She only has a few spaces available, and once they are gone it's unlikely that she'll be accepting new clients again until September 2016.






How Support with Sarah works..



Wherever in the world you are, you can meet her in private, one-to-one consultations over the phone or Skype where you will be welcomed into a safe and confidential space.

She’ll take time to listen to exactly what is important to you on your fertility journey, then guide you through a simple but effective technique called EFT to reduce stress and address any emotional issues relating to your own unique situation.
You’ll leave her sessions feeling uplifted and positive, ready to take on challenges and feeling connected to your inner strength.
Having faced her own fertility challenges before becoming a mum to two boys, she knows what it’s like to be where you are now. Within your sessions you will feel reassured by her empathy and understanding, and she will hold a space for the healing and transformation that she knows is possible for you.
>> You can read more about her personal support package and your investment here. <<
If you'd like to be one of her new fertility support clients and let's begin with a free initial consultation. Complete the short intake form on the support page she'll be in touch to arrange a time to talk. :)


 
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Kokura

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Russell Davis, a fertility Cognitive Hypnotherapist from UK, will be organizing a FREE webinar for all women who are struggling to conceive. It is all right if you cannot attend it LIVE as you will get a recording. He believes in rendering his help to as many women as possible! He can help you to achieve a better psychological mindset on this highly stressful & emotional fertility journey. He has posted an online newsletter & I am reproducing it here. Read on to find out more!






Welcome to this weeks newsletter. I was talking to a client recently about how things can creep up on us and we can veer away from innate happy self and before we know it are some way from being OK most days.

The Human Givens approach to therapy is based on a list of 'givens' or emotional needs of humans. It's basis is that if any of these needs are not met then it could impact our emotional wellbeing and can lead to stress, anxiety and disharmony in our life.

When you look at these needs I think it highlights why infertility can be so stressful, lonely and such an emotionally exhausting journey.

The emotional needs audit rates how well your emotional needs are being met in your life right now, on a scale of one to seven (where 1 means not met at all and 7 means being very well met):

Do you feel secure in all major areas of your life? For instance, in your home life, work life or environment?
Do you feel you receive enough attention?
Do you think you give other people enough attention?
Do you feel in control of your life most of the time?
Do you feel part of the wider community?
Can you obtain privacy when you need to?
Do you have at least one close friend?
Do you have an intimate relationship in you life? (i.e. you are totally accepted physically and emotionally accepted for who you are by at least one person?)
Do you feel an emotional connection to others?
Do you have a status in life (whatever it may be) that you value and that is acknowledged?
Are you achieving things in your life that you are proud of?
Do you feel competent in at least one major area of you life?
Are you mentally and/or physically stretched in ways which give you a sense of meaning and purpose?

If you scored any need 3 or less, it is likely to be a major cause of stress in your life. If your experience is anything like my experience of infertility, you may have scored pretty low in a number of them! I know I can look back on our fertility journey and see how these needs were not being met in me.

I will be exploring ways you can increase your scores in this webinar I am doing later this month. Grab your spot (free) by clicking this link. Whether you can make the live webinar or not those that register get the recording.
http://app.webinarjam.net/register/499/00bc601ef1


Unique Fertility Event in London and Birmingham
The wonderful Jessica Hepburn, author of The Pursuit of Motherhood and an avid commenter and campaigner for fertility has put together this unique event. It is a new a new play and festival about fertility, infertility and IVF is on in Birmingham on Saturday 28th May and London on Saturday 11th June. It is a day of wonderful talks from amazing experts across the UK and then a performance of the play. A unique mix of medicine and art. See the website for more details:
www.fertilityfest.com


With love,

Russell x

Feel free to email me directly at [russell@thefertilemind.net].

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Russell Davis, fertility Cognitive Hypnotherapist ,Coach, writer and speaker, believes you can find a sense of peace and control over your fertility. Whether natural or assisted conception, Russell has helped hundreds of couples all over the world move from despair to hope to success.

Russell, the Fertility Specialist Advisor to The National Council of Hypnotherapy, founded The Fertile Mind fertility mind-body programs and coaching based on he and his wife's 10-year double infertility journey which resulted in the natural conception of their son.

Russell's experience echoes his belief that too many couples go through fertility treatment unnecessarily and that the success rate of treatment is unnecessarily low.

Find out more about Russell and his work at www.thefertilemind.net. [http://www.thefertilemind.net]

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Kokura

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Andrew Loosely, a UK based Chinese Medicine Fertility Expert, Author and Speaker, is organizing a FREE fertility talk for women over 40! Read on to find out more.







One of the most frequent questions that people ask is:

"I'm over 40 and I've been told I have a really low chance of pregnancy success, is this true and is there anything I can do to conceive?"

The idea that fertility is lower when you're over 40 is to some degree correct, but it's not as extreme as the media and IVF clinics would have you believe.

Age is an important factor, but for most women it's not the determining factor: Your health is.

If your body is healthy and working well, then you should be able to naturally conceive at 40 and over, and actually all the way to menopause.

Join Andrew Loosely at the next Fertility Question Time, where he'll be discussing this topic with you, and taking your live questions.

CLICK HERE TO REGISTER YOUR FREE PLACE NOW


Join him as he discusses: Fertility Over 40 - Is there hope and what are the options?

He'll be discussing:

• How to build hope and conceive in your 40’s
• Whether you should use natural or conventional medicine approaches, and the differences between them
• Some real life stories of clients in their 40’s that have worked with him, and created the families they dreamed of

CLICK HERE TO REGISTER YOUR FREE PLACE NOW

He'll be answering lots of questions too.
Click the link above and send your questions in now, and then make sure you join him live!

** EVENT DETAILS **

Next Event:
Thursday 26th May 2016, 8pm UK time (timezone converter here)

Topic:
Fertility Over 40 - Is there hope and what are the options?

Speakers:
Andrew Loosely – Chinese Medicine Fertility Expert, Author and Speaker

Access: Free access by web or local number rate by phone.

CLICK HERE TO REGISTER YOUR FREE PLACE NOW


'See' you there!




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Kokura

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I did my IVF at KK Clinic D. It was heavily subsidised as my partner & I are Singaporean citizens. Through anecdotal evidence, I learned that it is not so much the doctor who is doing your embryo retrieval or embryo transfer that matters, rather it is all the little action we take to improve our chances of a successful IVF that matters.
 

sharkles

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since my last post, this was what happened. I have seen a gynae, was on one cycle of medication to make me ovulate - took bloody test, was told the count is low, gotta go for IVF.

Seek second opinion with Dr SF Loh at TFC, was one another cycle of medication, this time is Metfomin and Clomid. Likewise, did not ovulate. At the same time, husband did the sperm analysis and the results were low. Dr SF Loh suggested IVF.

I am scheduled to see the famous traditional chinese medicine Dr Tan Siew Buoy in August. I have another review with Dr SF Loh, mainly is to see my husband's blood test results and his sperm analysis after taking medication.

So now it seems like IVF is the only option and i have several queries

1) I was told by Dr Loh SF that if i were to go to Kandang Kerbau Hospital for IVF (where i can enjoy subsidy) i will be rejected because i am overweight. I need to lose weight and be in the normal weight. The problem is, it is difficult to lose weight with PCOS. If i go the IVF with him, i dont get subsidy =X

2) Should i still proceed with my traditional chinese medicine treatment even if i am considering going for IVF?

3) I have an appt with Dr Sadhana (Kandang Kerbau Hospital just assigned her to me), is she good? Or should i make appt with Dr Tan HH? I heard he is super busy and even with appointment i have to wait up to 4hours sometimes?

Anyone with PCOS, who is overweight, has successfully done IVF at Kandang Kerbau Hospital? I am feeling quite demoralised and lousy :( Husband really want kids and he was so affected when he found out that his sperm analysis report wasnt great as well.
 

Kokura

Member
Hi Sharkles, from TCM point of view, excess weight is said to be a sign of some"imbalances in the body" due to factors such as unhealthy lifestyle, diet & ageing, which interrupt the "qi" (the "vital; energy" of the body) & lead to the build-up of toxins. Overweight patients tend to have sluggish metabolism due to their sedentary & lifestyles, lack of adequate sleep & poor diet- factors also known to cause weight gain according to western medicine. (Source: Today, 27 July)
I got a subsidy because my hubby & I are Singaporeans. I dare say the subsidy helped us greatly; otherwise you will have to pay a BIG bomb! My hubby is not a high income earner. Are you open to the option of using herbs & acupuncture to slim down before going for IVF? A healthy weight will ensure you of little or no complications during pregnancy.

Like I said earlier, it does not really matter who you get because I feel it is more of a mental battle with yourself. "Am i going to succeed?" "What if I don't have any eggs retrieved???" "What if my egg failed to fertilized???" "What if my egg failed to implant???"" Blah blah blah. Another reason why it does not really matter which doctor you get is because it is a TEAM of specialists attending to you, not just one person. In fact, during my actual IVF treatment, I hardly saw my doctor. I only saw him once during my embryo retrieval before I was knocked out, if I remember correctly.

To prepare yourself mentally, you may like to try hypnosis programmes from a UK based cognitive hypnotherapist who specializes in fertility. I will write about him later.
 

Kokura

Member
Here is an e-mail from Russell Davis, a UK based fertility Cognitive Hypnotherapist, writer and speaker.





Well summer arrived in the UK last week and promptly left again. It's very wet and grey outside as I write this!


So I decided I needed to create sunshine. Be a creator and not a victim. What bring sunshine to me is seeing sunshine in others. I've never done this before but I felt inspired to and I think inspired action is good! So my sunshine to you is 50% off my fertility hypnosis programmes and online mind-body programme for the rest of July, so until the end of the weekend. I hope it brings sunshine in to your life and who know's what else it may bring!

Hypnosis Programmes:
Products Archive - The Fertile Mind Fertility Hypnosis

Online Mind-Body Programme (that includes the hypnosis programmes). Spaces on this are limited to 10 as I like to be able to provide email support to participants:
Fertility Mind Body Programme

Keep shining!

Russell x

Feel free to email me directly at [russell@thefertilemind.net].

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Russell Davis, fertility Cognitive Hypnotherapist, writer and speaker, believes you can find a sense of peace and control over your fertility. Whether natural or assisted conception, Russell has helped hundreds of couples all over the world move from despair to hope to success.

Russell, the Fertility Specialist Advisor to The National Council of Hypnotherapy, founded The Fertile Mind fertility mind-body programs and coaching based on he and his wife's 10-year double infertility journey which resulted in the natural conception of their son.

Russell's experience echoes his belief that too many couples go through fertility treatment unnecessarily and that the success rate of treatment is unnecessarily low.

Find out more about Russell and his work at www.thefertilemind.net. [http://www.thefertilemind.net]

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Kokura

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Hope & Our Fertility Journey

We use the word hope a lot, I hear it a lot when speaking to women and couples on this journey.


But what is hope?

Is it a good thing? Surely having hope is a good thing.

Hope helps you stay positive, doesn't it?

Hope keeps away despair and fear, doesn't it?

Hope is thinking, thinking about the future.

And nothing can predict the future, not even our thinking.

I would say hope can often be fuelled by fear.

Fearful thinking that something won't (or will) happen.

Hope can go beyond wanting towards longing, needing – which can be fuelled by fear and perhaps even desperation.

Hope and fear – two sides of the same coin?

Just like you can't have anger without love – you can't be angry with someone you don't care about. The opposite of love is not anger, it's in-difference.

The opposite of fear is not hope or belief, it's acceptance.

Acceptance doesn't mean giving up. You know you can continue your journey without fear or desperation because when we're in the here and now we recognise we have everything we need. We come into the world without needing anything to have a sense of being OK, we have innate well-being.

Hope is future thinking. Any thinking that is not in the present moment is fantasy. The future does not exist except in our thinking.

I can remember all too well wishing and hoping things were different on our journey. Longing for things to be different. Until I found peace and acceptance. A place of peace without giving up (it does exist, trust me!)

I could then continue our journey, still wanting to have a baby but without the fear of it not happening. Because you don't need hope when in the here and now. You tune into your innate well-being.

You don't need hope because everything is OK, you have everything you need in the here and now.

When was the last time you looked at a baby and thought they weren't complete? Thought they needed something. We come into the world in tune to our sense of innate well-being. As we grow up, particularly during childhood, we get more tuned into our thinking that tells us our well-being; sense of being OK, is dependent on external things.

For example 'I'm OK if people think well of me' or whatever it may be. However, our thinking is not truth. When we let go of these stories, our thinking tells us we return to our default setting of peace of mind, acceptance of the present moment, knowing that we are absolutely OK in this present moment.

When you see they are just that, stories, we automatically come back to our innate wellbeing, without us doing anything because it is within us, it's who we are. You can then continue your journey with peace of mind without the need for hope.

What stories are you telling yourself?

Hypnosis programmes to help you find that peace of mind and hardness the mind-body link:
Products Archive - The Fertile Mind Fertility Hypnosis


Reminder.
Watch my interview on the Fuel Your Fertility Summit along with 20 other interviews from top natural fertility experts on how you can take action on your own health and start boosting your fertility right away. The summit starts tomorrow and is free with this link:
Fuel Your Fertility FREE Online Summit



With love,

Russell x

Feel free to email me directly at [russell@thefertilemind.net].

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Russell Davis, fertility Cognitive Hypnotherapist, writer and speaker, believes you can find a sense of peace and control over your fertility. Whether natural or assisted conception, Russell has helped hundreds of couples all over the world move from despair to hope to success.

Russell, the Fertility Specialist Advisor to The National Council of Hypnotherapy, founded The Fertile Mind fertility mind-body programs and coaching based on he and his wife's 10-year double infertility journey which resulted in the natural conception of their son.

Russell's experience echoes his belief that too many couples go through fertility treatment unnecessarily and that the success rate of treatment is unnecessarily low.

Find out more about Russell and his work at www.thefertilemind.net. [http://www.thefertilemind.net]

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Kokura

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I just watched the "Dreams Come True" video (https://youtu.be/Ea-6DwCEIW8) again & it never fails to bring tears to my eyes as I recall how very fortunate I am to be able to conceive my daughter successfully with my first round of IVF.

I like to share something that I saw last year at Clinic D. On a christmas tree hung a very poignant message written by one couple seeking to become parents for the first time. It went something like this "It does not matter whether our baby is a boy or girl, as long as he/she is healthy & strong, we will be very happy". I was tearing as I read it because it echoes my sentiment not too long ago when I was struggling with that "I" word. Yes, you got it. Infertility!

For infertile couples, very often what we are thinking of is completely different from fertile couples. A fertile couple goes something like this "We hope that our first baby will be a gal so that she can help us to take care of our second borne" Or "We hope that we will have a boy because our first one was a gal".
An infertile couple will go something like this "It does not matter whether our baby is a boy or girl, as long as he/she is healthy & strong, we will be very happy".

If you are reading this post, chances are, you belong to the latter, just like me. And probably you are thinking "these fertile people are so fortunate! What a luxury it is to be thinking about having a second baby!" Yes yes yes, I am nodding in agreement. And one of the worse thing you can face is to have someone in a forum tell you "My hubby runs marathons & ultra-marathons you know. So I am sure you know his sperm is exceptionally good, & that is how we conceived in less than a year". What a thing to say to an infertile couple! Grrr.... How insensitive some women can be! Tsk!


I have a testimonial from a UK woman who faced secondary infertility & who conceived naturally after turning to cognitive hypnotherapy. In her words, Hypnotherapy gave me a baby". She was a chocoholic & an obsessive worrier & thinker, and according to TCM principles, thinking too much is no good as you are using up vital energy. Read on to find out more about Leah's success.
http://www.thefertilemind.net/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Leah.pdf
 

Kokura

Member
Your fertility & diet are so closely interlinked; good nutrition means good quality eggs. If you can, do try to cook during weekends & public holidays rather than eat outside food. Again. I was told food like yong tau foo, which many people think is healthy, is actually not so healthy as it contains MSG. So if you were to multiply 6 pieces of that with MSG AND drink the sometimes MSG-laden soup, that's quite an amount of MSG you are consuming! Yes, I know the soup is made from soy beans but there are unscrupulous vendors who add MSG to make the soup taste 'sweeter'.




Here is a FREE event from Andrew Loosely,Chinese Medicine Fertility Expert, Author and Speaker.




Are you overwhelmed at times about what you can and can’t eat for your fertility health?

Over 50% of people on a fertility journey are trying to eat their way to better health and want more information, according to our survey this year.

With so many options available and different people frequently telling you opposing things, it can be really difficult to know what’s best.

Join me at Fertility Question Time this month as I talk about Creating Your Fertility Diet – Part 1 - Forming the Foundations

CLICK HERE TO REGISTER YOUR FREE PLACE NOW

In this session you’ll discover:

  • The 2 key principles for changing your diet
  • The food groups to avoid and to eat
  • How to create a balanced diet and construct your meals for maximum nutrition
I’ll also be answering as many questions as I can, so send them in now for me!


Once you click the link above you'll be taken to the events page where there is a Q+A box at the bottom.




** EVENT DETAILS **

Next Event:

Thursday 25th August 2016, 8pm UK time

Topic:

Creating Your Fertility Diet – Discover how to structure your diet to make eating healthily easier, and ensure you’re getting the most nutrients for your fertility health

Speakers:

Andrew Loosely- Chinese Medicine Fertility Expert, Author & Public Speaker


CLICK HERE TO REGISTER YOUR FREE PLACE NOW


Hope you can make it!








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Kokura

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Russell Davis, a Fertility Cognitive Hypnotherapist, Writer and Speaker, will be holding a FREE webinar Thurs 8 Sep at UK time 8pm. You can get the recording if you sign up. I know 8pm UK time is SG time 3am!!! You can always listen to the recording at your own convenience. :) And the title is "Give birth to a life you love now!"

Here is the latest e-mail from him.




Hi, I hope you are well, welcome to this weeks newsletter and welcome to any new subscribers.


I have decided to do a monthly webinar so I can support and engage with you in a more personal way and I want to share with you how you can get access to the first one on the 8th September!

I have just had some time off and it was lovely to get out and enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful countryside we live in. Since spring I have been wanting to get out and kayak on the beautiful river that runs from our village down to the sea. It is on our doorstep, our friends have a kayak we can use any time, I had no excuses not to do it, I wanted to do it but why wasn't I doing it?

I felt scared. Scared of all sorts of things like navigating the tides, using a different type of kayak I've never used before etc. etc. My thinking tells me 'I am not a water-sports person' but my soul was calling me out on to the water. I love being on and in the water even though I am a novice having lived in a city all my life.

On Sunday I did it. It was an awesome. It was peaceful, beautiful and fun. For me this is a small example where our soul calls us to do something/be someone but our habitual thinking/fears/beliefs over-rules and we get stuck in a rut.

This feeling of being stuck stops our systems flow. Including our reproductive system.

'Follow your bliss' became my mantra on my journey to discovering who I really was and what inspires me in life. It became the oil that helped get my cogs moving.

If you were to follow your bliss what would you do more of/start doing?


I am passionate about helping people get unstuck. To feel flow in their lives. To give birth to a live they love, even ahead of having a baby. For me this can actually speed up the journey to getting pregnant.

I am doing a webinar on this to dive in to what I learnt on our journey from where I went from feeling stuck and unhappy in life to waking up and getting paid to be 'me'. Oh, and along the way my fertility going from disastrous to near normal without me trying (after trying everything without any success).

Register your place for the live webinar and the recording if you cannot make the live webinar here:
https://app.webinarjam.net/register/499/f9fcf225d0

Send any questions/topics you want to cover on this subject to me by replying to this email.

Looking forward to connecting soon.

Enjoy following your bliss, because you are worth it.

With love,

Russell x

Feel free to email me directly at [russell@thefertilemind.net].

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Russell Davis, fertility Cognitive Hypnotherapist, writer and speaker, believes you can find a sense of peace and control over your fertility. Whether natural or assisted conception, Russell has helped hundreds of couples all over the world move from despair to hope to success.

Russell, the Fertility Specialist Advisor to The National Council of Hypnotherapy, founded The Fertile Mind fertility mind-body programs and coaching based on he and his wife's 10-year double infertility journey which resulted in the natural conception of their son.

Russell's experience echoes his belief that too many couples go through fertility treatment unnecessarily and that the success rate of treatment is unnecessarily low.

Find out more about Russell and his work at www.thefertilemind.net. [http://www.thefertilemind.net]

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Kokura

Member
This is an e-mail from Russell Davis on the linkages between our emotional needs & fertility.





Hi, I hope you are well! It feels like Autumn is fast approaching here in the UK although it is lovely and sunny today.



This week I want to share something that has helped me over the years. The Human Givens approach to therapy is based on a list of 'givens' or emotional needs of humans. Its basis is that if any of these needs are not met, then it could impact our emotional well-being and can lead to stress, anxiety and disharmony in our life.

When you look at these needs I think it highlights why infertility can be so stressful, lonely and such an emotionally exhausting journey.
The emotional needs audit rates how well your emotional needs are being met in your life right now, on a scale of one to seven (where 1 means not met at all and 7 means being very well met).





The 'needs' are:


Do you feel secure in all major areas of your life? For instance, in your home life, work life or environment?

Do you feel you receive enough attention?
Do you think you give other people enough attention?
Do you feel in control of your life most of the time?
Do you feel part of the wider community?
Can you obtain privacy when you need to?
Do you have at least one close friend?
Do you have an intimate relationship in you life? (i.e. you are totally accepted physically and emotionally accepted for who you are by at least one person?)
Do you feel an emotional connection to others?
Do you have a status in life (whatever it may be) that you value and that is acknowledged?
Are you achieving things in your life that you are proud of?
Do you feel competent in at least one major area of you life?
Are you mentally and/or physically stretched in ways which give you a sense of meaning and purpose?

If you scored any need 3 or less, it is likely to be a major cause of stress in your life. If your experience is anything like my experience of infertility, you may have scored pretty low in a number of them! I know I can look back on our fertility journey and see how these needs were not being met in me.

Spend a moment now going through them and filling in the last column, asking yourself what you could do to change it, even just one number higher.

Looking forward to connecting with many of you!



With love,


Russell x

Feel free to email me directly at [russell@thefertilemind.net].

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Russell Davis, fertility Cognitive Hypnotherapist, writer and speaker, believes you can find a sense of peace and control over your fertility. Whether natural or assisted conception, Russell has helped hundreds of couples all over the world move from despair to hope to success.

Russell, the Fertility Specialist Advisor to The National Council of Hypnotherapy, founded The Fertile Mind fertility mind-body programs and coaching based on he and his wife's 10-year double infertility journey which resulted in the natural conception of their son.

Russell's experience echoes his belief that too many couples go through fertility treatment unnecessarily and that the success rate of treatment is unnecessarily low.

Find out more about Russell and his work at www.thefertilemind.net. [http://www.thefertilemind.net]

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