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CanCanMum

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Posted by one of our members here, i have copied into the main forum so tat more pple can read and advice or offer help to her:

my son says he wants to kill him self - Singapore Motherhood and Parenting Forum

hello all my name is Bea
I have a 14 year old son he is very nice to all in school and here at home too he always do as i ask he sometimes get mad and i just leave him alone when that happends then he come out of his room and he is ok i seen him angry at his sister she is 11 and he says she bothers him all I though this was normal. The day before yesturday he got angry because i ask him to stop playing his xbox when i went to his room he was sitting on his bed writing something .when he finish i ask him if hewas ok he say no . "no mom am very angry and i dont't know why i get like that sometimes and i dont't know why.I been sad and mad and even my teacher say i look mad and sad " he say then he starded to cry what I have not't seen since he was smaller i dont't even remeber when it was the last time i saw him crying. I cry with him and I told him how much I love him then the worst pat come. he say Mom sometimes i want to kill my self this bring so much pain into my chest I told him that if he dies i will die whit him that i can't live with out him . i been searching for help i got an appoiment for tursday but it seem so long then i find this site and am not sure if someone can help me or if someone has had the same problem i need somebody to tell me if i should wait 2 more days or take him to a hospital?/ what do i do? please help me
 

CanCanMum

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i think she booked appointment already but when she posted was helpless and sad.......

i dunnO why it happens too............
 

apollo

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the best way is to seek for a psychiatrist's help! ASAP! cos when one has the tot of dying, anything can happen ANYTIME! a paychiatrist not only can find out the pro by toking to the boy, at the same time he/she will also prescribe some suitable medi for him to calm him down 1st. trust me, it HELPS!

and i personally suggest the mother to bring his son to govt psychiatrist and not private one. cos i personally have very bad experience with private psychiatrist.
 

apollo

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btw when i was at sec sch, i seen a VERY good govt psychiatrist, if the mother need the name of him, can just PM me anytime.. he is specialist on seeing/treating teenagers with any emotions pro. but currently i dun hav his contact alrdy, only have his name =)
 

Ting

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oh my, so worrying!!
i hope he can rcv some good emotional help soon!
maybe he just cant control his emotions when it gets too over whelming for him.
 
feel sad read that .. kids cannot express what they want, and we also human, cannot read what they want... this kid, everything he keep inside his heart.
the only way is must talk much to him, find out what he feel and what he want... only patience and pray can solve this..... let say even yrself cannot tahan and really cannot work then must go to psychiatic... but i think, that is the last option lor.

this is the difficult part become a parent .... we must train our patience, and sometimes we also lhuman can lost our patience. ... hiazzz... :embarrassed:

GBU
 

apollo

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feel sad read that .. kids cannot express what they want, and we also human, cannot read what they want... this kid, everything he keep inside his heart.
the only way is must talk much to him, find out what he feel and what he want... only patience and pray can solve this..... let say even yrself cannot tahan and really cannot work then must go to psychiatic... but i think, that is the last option .

this is the difficult part become a parent .... we must train our patience, and sometimes we also lhuman can lost our patience. ... hiazzz... :embarrassed:

GBU
honestly speaking, i feel that if one alrdy has the tot of dying, shd seek for pofessional help IMMEDIATELY. cos his parents/relatives/frens are not well-trained to counsel ppl who hav emotions pro. better to seek help from pofessional than taking the risk. =)
 
honestly speaking, i feel that if one alrdy has the thought of dying, should seek for pofessional help IMMEDIATELY. cos his parents/relatives/friends are not well-trained to counsel ppl who hav emotions pro. better to seek help from pofessional than taking the risk. =)
true also lor... must see how serious the thread from the child. if really seriuos then must seek for prof help.

just sharing story of my auntie, she have 2 son, the younger one always jealous with the elder one, and he also thread want to kill himself.
that time my auntie very scared, but with her patience she talk to the boy and now my cousin never give such thread anymore.

just my 2 cents lor.. sorry if not suitable. :001_302:
 
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