Pls help me

[apollo]

ya i think shd let ur mum noe since u have no money to go to a gynae and have seems a few GP but not recovering. just tell her dont go n spread ard. i think now most imptly is to get the pro solved.

 

[gumbokins]

Dear, it's nothing to be embarassed about. If you are not comfy approaching your mum, maybe a cousin or good friend?

 

[angelatan81]

I suggest you go to your mum to, she the most reliable help beside you now.

 

[lyra]

My mom too is the kind who will tell the world abt my personal things if she gets a chance to! Empathize with u. But when I tell her very seriously that this is strictly confidential, she will take it to heart n consciously try to refrain from talking abt it. Try that, gal. With limited finances n a prob that has bothered u for so long, seeking ur mom's help to finance a gynae visit is the best option.

 

[Rainieng]

Hi all! Remeber I tok ur guys that that I have went to 2 GP and was tok that I have crack/cut below my clitoris but above the ureatha that cannot heal and skin there is always red and raw and feel pain if it is touch dry?

I finally when to see Dr Geraldine Tan @ Thomson women clinic. She check my there and say there is cut there. She then prescribe me a cream and told me not to worry too much as I told her I am very worry abt it. She told me it's nothing serious. I ask her "what if I apply the cream and still it didnt recover?". She told me it's ok if it didnt heal as she see not infection there.

Should I trust her??

 

[ihmdweh]

Hi all! Remeber I tok ur guys that that I have went to 2 GP and was tok that I have crack/cut below my clitoris but above the ureatha that cannot heal and skin there is always red and raw and feel pain if it is touch dry?

I finally when to see Dr Geraldine Tan @ Thomson women clinic. She check my there and say there is cut there. She then prescribe me a cream and told me not to worry too much as I told her I am very worry abt it. She told me it's nothing serious. I ask her "what if I apply the cream and still it didnt recover?". She told me it's ok if it didnt heal as she see not infection there.

Should I trust her??

Mmm i don't know who u can trust if you do not trust a GP and a Specialist with the same diagnosis. But i guess the cut happened for a reason. Cuts can be from the edges of pads / pantyliners or even "toys". Maybe you can determine the reason for the cuts and prevent it in future.

 

[rabbitmummy]

i do find it hard to talk to my mom about things

i come from very traditional family and mom will talk to her sisters n relatives that make me keep things to myself..

as i grow older now with a kid coming along the way.. sometimes she is still the best person to go too.. its not easy to accept that fact but family still a family..

if you cant trust your mom about it, going to the gyne should be able to help your condition. you went through so much and whether anot to trust her is up to yourself how comfortable you are..

since she gave you a cream and it should be help but if doesnt, then there is something else that cant be seen by a "naked" eye

of coz is worrying but what you can do is apply the cream as instructed and let it heal
by itself..

wound takes time to heal..

hope everything will be fine...

 

[Jofeny]

Hi girl, have u recovered already?

A crack or cut might occur because of excessive spraying of water/cleaning (your fingernails might cut it).

The flesh there is v sensitive n hence it can tear easily. You can try wearing loose bottoms to encourage more "air" n hopefully it will heal faster.