Sounds like someone who takes marriage like a game. Referring to him. So cannot communicate & some problems need to divorce. When problem no more, want to reconcile again?
Sorry but it just doesn't sounds right.
Scarlet, well, i dont know if u married (initially) for the right reasons, or divorced for the right reasons... but to reconcile with someone whom u separated with due to communication problems just for the "sake" of giving ur child a happy future, i believe are the wrong reasons..
what makes u think that a "whole" family is the key a child's happiness?? 2 wrongs doesnt make 1 right.
IMO, even if u n ur hub might not be tgt anymore, it doesnt mean ur child is receiving less love from both of u. the both of u can still care and stay in contact for you child but not necessarily reconcile...
im not saying u cannot reconcile, but since u guys parted b4 due to communication break down, what r the chances of the same thing happening again after being back tgt? take your time n dont rush.. if he is sincere in being with u again, he will be patient n wait for u to be ready.. or rather, wait for both of u to be ready to start anew the r/s.
parting n reconciling n then parting again will not any gd to your child, in fact, it will confuse her further n might affect her emotions.