Relationship Issues - I'm in my early 3rd trimester period,

[Yvonne Cheong]

mummies, I'm in my early 3rd trimester period, currently working as hairstylist.

my working hours is from 10.30 am to 8.00 pm, off day no fix but cannot off weekend & Public Holidays. after work need to do housework, sometime I do Freelance during my off day, even at my condition now.

lately I feel like both of us are having some relationship issues. easy get tired, no mood for anythings else, all I wanted is sleep. both of us seldom have a good communications too.

mummies, need your advice. TIA.

 

[jesslee]

No matter what, communication is still very important in a relationship, or even marriage.
Can understand both are fighting in the work force, to keep the family on going... However, some basic communication can be done as well. Like chat during lunch time... Or after work.. Spent that 30 mins to have some chat about work etc.. It's a good bonding also

 

[snowy_white]

I can feel you... I'm in the similar situation as you as well... In 3rd trimester... Diff is that I'm not working though... I'm a full time mummy...

Even with maid around, I tends to get tired, and have not much mood for anything else... Just want to laze there and pray hard that baby can come out fast =P But still, communication is quite important in a marriage especially. No matter how tired both are, need to spend some time together, for some communication. It can be a mere 5 mins communication... Jiayou...

 

[Yvonne Cheong]

hi Jess Lee & Snowy White, thanks & noted with your advice.

yes, I understand, communication is very important but sometimes, hard to say, when both of is working, after work come back, both of us just need a good rest & sleep.

even our sex life getting lesser & lesser too, like last Sunday, both of us don't really feel like having sex, but still we go ahead have sex, he just bang bang bang, I just lie on the bed for him, shoot already, that's it, time to sleep.

 

[jesslee]

Hi Yvonne,

I can understand that. Am too in a similar way... After back from work, we both were so tired, that just want to rest... However, we still make up some time for some little communication. Like watching tv together, or even bath together etc. Or even just ask each other about the work.