Relationship problems with my hubby.

[Lyn Ng]

hello, everybody, need your advice on my relationship problems with my hubby.

I'm 32 years old. married 8 years +++, my 2 daughter, 5 years old & 3 years old.

I feel like our relationship & communication not as before after my 2nd daughter is born.

we not sleeping together for sometimes already, he sleep next room, I sleep with my 2 daughters.

even we stay together in the same house, we seldom talk much.

got ask him before, is there any wrong between us, he say, nothing wrong with us.

need your advice from you all, what should I do to safe my marriage.

 

[Dorothy Williams]

I suggest that you start sleeping in the same bedroom again. even if you already have kids, you should be intimate with each other. also, find time to go out with. have a date night once in a while to rekindle the feelings.

 

[ahden04]

yes I agree Dorothy, as mother, we often pay a lot of attention to our children thinking sleeping with the kids are more important than with husband since they are still young. But actually bonding between husband and wife starts from sleeping on the same bed.

 

[jesslee]

Agree with both. Bonding with kids is important, so as to bonding with partner.
Probably try asking why he want to zz in other room and not with you?