Hi all,
I chanced upon this forum and thought it might be a good idea to seek other single parents for some advice.
Currently, my boy, who's 3 yrs of age, stays half the time with me and the other half with his mother. We're still in the mids of trashing out his arrangement and hopefully when that ends, he will spend every night with me while staying over with his mother on alternate weekends.
Something that has been bugging me is that whenever my boy comes over to my place, he doesn't mention anything about his mother or her parents on what they do. When I talk to him about going to Disneyland, he would tell me the people who can go together would be myself, my parents, my sister and her husband. I'm always wondering to myself if it is possible for a kid that young to develop such a personality whereby he knows what to say in front of which parent? Because his mother and myself aren't on talking terms, it is impossible to find out how he behaves over at her place.
I would hope to hear from parents that might have faced similar situations with their kids and if possible, any advice I should heed. Thanks very much!
I chanced upon this forum and thought it might be a good idea to seek other single parents for some advice.
Currently, my boy, who's 3 yrs of age, stays half the time with me and the other half with his mother. We're still in the mids of trashing out his arrangement and hopefully when that ends, he will spend every night with me while staying over with his mother on alternate weekends.
Something that has been bugging me is that whenever my boy comes over to my place, he doesn't mention anything about his mother or her parents on what they do. When I talk to him about going to Disneyland, he would tell me the people who can go together would be myself, my parents, my sister and her husband. I'm always wondering to myself if it is possible for a kid that young to develop such a personality whereby he knows what to say in front of which parent? Because his mother and myself aren't on talking terms, it is impossible to find out how he behaves over at her place.
I would hope to hear from parents that might have faced similar situations with their kids and if possible, any advice I should heed. Thanks very much!