Hi Fluttershy...be strong together ..i also just did my separate letter with him .....I am staying Sengkang ..how abt u ?Hi all, I am a single mummy living in the East, with two children (boy age 9 going 10 and girl age 7). Would love to meet some new friends here for emotional support. I just filed divorce after having discovered that my husband had affair with 2 girls at the same time. So whilst he was having his tryst overseas and once i got the information from the PI, i changed the locks and locked him out of the house. So everything happened really fast. Divorce proceedings at this juncture are rather acrimonious now so it's causing me alot of pain although the children bring me alot of joy. Still working full time, can't afford to give up my job but at the same time, would love to know more people here, for support.