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[SunShine07]

my #1 is only 3 years old this year...
dont think old enuff?

hmmm..get him to tok uh?
the PI i contacted say if caught them hold hands, kiss, hugs would be good enuff ...
tok about this
they did all these in full view of my #1 !!!
i truly hate them to the core!

izzit an offence to give out pamphlets about their adultry in their office??

Oh love, never do that, they can sue you........

u dun have to do this......just stay calm now.......

I am also very angry, they did these in front of you kid??!!!! give that slut 2 blardy tight slap on her face! what a shame woman.!!! and what a sick bastard man doing this in front of his own kid!!!! :wong11:

Make his life miserable and squezze all the money, see if that gal still wanna be with him!!! :bmad:

 

[love]

oops...ya u better dun reveal too much info here!
actually my gf say she got a woman lawyer who specialized in Divorce cases
& she believes in fighting for woman's rights
but i'm not sure how much are her charges
let me know if u interested
i should be able to get her contact from my gf

hmmm...i think this woman had been splurging $$$ on him
cuz i think he's resentful that i brought so much financial burden for him
so now with that woman no headache & $$ worries!

but that's wat he thinks leh
cuz a bigger bomb is coming his way!

yah, i also want to fight for all cash profit if possible......

becos the lawyer that i am seeing said about the HDB like must follow the rules and regulations.....like evreythign also cannot, then never even bother to call or update me, i fed up i 'fire' him!

My husband swallow a lot of my money .....now i want to get back all and pay for my damage that had been done to me all these years!

i better dont tallk too much here, in case he can see what i write, cos he knows i am always in this forum.........

yah, you must be careful of that woman, maybe she also want $$$ from the HDB.....you never know how ugly a person can be.....never trust anyone now, except yourself

 

[SunShine07]

Hi shi san yee
all mothers are the same..

i got hint to my mom i want a divorce & all she can reply was that my kids will be without a father!!
ask me close one eye as long as he comes home end of the day!!!

traditional thinking i guess...
that's y i very Pei Fu women from my mom's time
they really can go through all kinds of hardships!

what if the kids follow his father footstep? is it healthy to stay in such environment?

last time woman think that way because they depends on man....and i have friends who were brought up in such environment, in the end they either feel vey in secure or they do end up like them........

My hb is a good example! his father abuse his mother, he saw what his father do to his mother, and now he is also like this........i dun want my son to be like him!:nah:

 

[SunShine07]

oops...ya you better dont reveal too much info here!
actually my gf say she got a woman lawyer who specialized in Divorce cases
& she believes in fighting for woman's rights
but i'm not sure how much are her charges
let me know if you interested
i should be able to get her contact from my gf

hmmm...i think this woman had been splurging $$$ on him
cuz i think he's resentful that i brought so much financial burden for him
so now with that woman no headache & $$ worries!

but that's what he thinks
cuz a bigger bomb is coming his way!

yah, give him a big atomi bomb right at his face with his gf!!!

they forgot that woman can be even more ruthless!

oh, lady lawyer, hmmm......i was actaully looking for it......can pm me her contacts!

 

[love]

i'm trying to stay calm now..

yup they did all these infront of my kid!!!!!!!!
i checked with my kid (must ask specific qns) & he gave me positive replies
lucky they nv nap with him on my bed!
but who knows..they could use the bed for anything they want!
better dun let me know she's been using my things too!!
i'll sure give her hell in watever ways i possibly can!

Oh love, never do that, they can sue you........

you dont have to do this......just stay calm now.......

I am also very angry, they did these in front of you kid??!!!! give that slut 2 blardy tight slap on her face! what a shame woman.!!! and what a sick bastard man doing this in front of his own kid!!!! :wong11:

Make his life miserable and squezze all the money, see if that gal still wanna be with him!!! :bmad:

 

[Ting]

I feel heartache for you......

I believe it is not easy for you both to thru all these.......

just shut your ears at this moment, i believe, like Ting said, time will heal all these.....

thanks dear, im ok now, alr been 3 yrs since..
i believe all r worth it.

 

[Ting]

i think the older gens, their thinking is more traditional.
they still think a gd environment means having a dad n mum living tgt.
they dun understand that sometimes really cant take it lying down!

 

[shi_san_yee]

Hi shi san yee
all mothers are the same..

i got hint to my mom i want a divorce & all she can reply was that my kids will be without a father!!
ask me close one eye as long as he comes home end of the day!!!

traditional thinking i guess...
that's y i very Pei Fu women from my mom's time
they really can go through all kinds of hardships!

yeah i know what u mean. very stressful lor... but i see kids from complete families dont necessarily turn out better than kids from divorce/single parent homes also.haizz

 

[love]

u know that's great to know that kids from incomplete families do grow up stronger, more independent than those from complete families

yeah i know what you mean. very stressful ... but i see kids from complete families dont necessarily turn out better than kids from divorce/single parent homes also.haizz

 

[Ting]

yeah i know what you mean. very stressful ... but i see kids from complete families dont necessarily turn out better than kids from divorce/single parent homes also.haizz

yes thats true.
i feel that pin has more love n concern than many kids out there.
my parents plus my sisters, my elder sis current bf/fiance (not tt idiot ex bf), n also my current bf/fiance.
love from 6 ppl! not to mention my bf's mum n sis too!
n my cousins also adore her!
i nvr once felt she received too little love, in fact,haha she's being over loaded!
whats the use of having a father who doesnt know how to love n care for his own child?
my current bf, loves n care for her more than that idiot!

 

[love]

Ting
so glad for u that u found a soul mate

yes thats true.
i feel that pin has more love n concern than many kids out there.
my parents plus my sisters, my elder sis current bf/fiance (not that idiot ex bf), n also my current bf/fiance.
love from 6 ppl! not to mention my bf's mum n sis too!
n my cousins also adore her!
i never once felt she received too little love, in fact,haha she's being over loaded!
whats the use of having a father who doesnt know how to love n care for his own child?
my current bf, loves n care for her more than that idiot!

 

[Ting]

Ting
so glad for you that you found a soul mate

thanks dear, dont be despair, u will too.
fate i guess..
took me almost 2 yrs then found the right one.. (from the day i left that idiot!)
but in btw met alot of lousy guys n well, not so suitable guys.

but b4 i met my current bf, i also nvr thought of settling down n stuff.my mum also told me to think carefully (though she loves my bf to bits) cos im still young, take some time to consider.

 

[SunShine07]

i'm trying to stay calm now..

yup they did all these infront of my kid!!!!!!!!
i checked with my kid (must ask specific qns) & he gave me positive replies
lucky they never nap with him on my bed!
but who knows..they could use the bed for anything they want!
better dont let me know she's been using my things too!!
i'll sure give her hell in watever ways i possibly can!

PiangZ! how come got such person living in this world manz. shamless!!!
that gal must be too itch, that she is so desperate to get married man?!!!

sorry, if i get nasty! i really hate this kind of slut who destroyed ppl's family!!!

 

[love]

ya i also hope to find my soul mate too...if possible
hope i dun get too many craps!
haha

thanks dear, dont be despair, you will too.
fate i guess..
took me almost 2 yrs then found the right one.. (from the day i left that idiot!)
but in btw met alot of lousy guys n well, not so suitable guys.

but before i met my current bf, i also never thought of settling down n stuff.my mum also told me to think carefully (though she loves my bf to bits) cos im still young, take some time to consider.

 

[love]

ya from wat i know she's a desperate case...older than me not married & got cheated many times
she's willing to splurge on men too & behave like a little woman
& even said she won't destroy ppl's family
all bull-shit!
wait till i get my hands on her!!!

i am same as u!
hate sluts who destroy ppl's family
i strongly believed in retributions!

PiangZ! how come got such person living in this world manz. shamless!!!
that gal must be too itch, that she is so desperate to get married man?!!!

sorry, if i get nasty! i really hate this kind of slut who destroyed ppl's family!!!

 

[Ting]

ya i also hope to find my soul mate too...if possible
hope i dont get too many craps!
haha

haha! i hope so too!!!!

:wong19::wong19::wong19:

 

[SunShine07]

ya from what i know she's a desperate case...older than me not married & got cheated many times
she's willing to splurge on men too & behave like a little woman
& even said she won't destroy ppl's family
all bull-shit!
wait till i get my hands on her!!!

i am same as you!
hate sluts who destroy ppl's family
i strongly believed in retributions!

aiyoh.......what a desperate woman! HOw old liao?

what bullshit, isn't she doing it now?!

 

[SunShine07]

between how did you know that she had been cheated by many men?

 

[little_rabbit]

Waaah gals... i was only gone for a day and missed so much action here in the forum. had to read thru 2 pages siah.. :err:

Its good to know that we are all fighting for our rights and our children happiness.. although the road is tough and hard.. "jia you" & believe in yourself!!

End of the day, whether people say the decision we make is right or wrong, whether our past was a stupid mistake or a blessing in disguise, whether you want to get revenge or let go, just take a moment, close your eyes and take a deep breathe... and ask yourself what can you do NOW to make life better for yourself & your children.

The past is no longer there.
The future is not here yet.
There is only one moment in which life is available and that is the present moment. Make the best out of it. :001_302:

 

[kinberuri]

Hi All,

Uncle is finally back!

Just a few words for unwed mummies here:

I just love to quote from Amulet's blog about what is Father is -

"What makes a father is not the one which contributed a sperm or half DNA.. What makes a man a real father is the effort he put in to nurture, love, care, and protects a child.."

I'll just be very blunt here and tell you what most guys think:

"Unwed mothers are easy marks because they lack confidence, self esteem and they are 'easy'."

I have personally seen too many cases in which this hold true and the vicious cycle continues; we are here to help you, but it requires that you decide for yourself that enough is enough, and that you stretch out your hand in return.

I like to ask a question that I would like all mummies here to think about and perhaps answer:

To You, what is Love?

Uncle u MIA very long liao lo.