try use a beansprout pillow... it should works the same...ya, actually i stopped swaddling him since he's about 3 or 4wks cos he also wriggled himself out. but recently he couldn't sleep tight after i bounced him in the bouncer (day time) - i realised he gets startled easily and his hands trying to grab the air - one day I hold his hand and use the diaper cloth to cover him and fold the excess cloth behind him so tightening his hands to prevent him from grabbing the air and he slept better. so since then, i started to lay the diaper cloth on the bouncer and after he slept, i swaddle his hands and he managed to sleep better - His legs are not swaddled inside like what was done in hospital though. i did not't wanna cover him with the cloth tug behind him like what i did before cos, i noticed that when he tried to wriggle himself out, his hands will make the cloth cover his face and that is scary.
But I noticed that he seems to be outgrowing the diaper cloth soon, so checking out here is there bigger cloth that i can use, or any other options i can explore. Mothercare is selling the swaddling me, or something like that... anyone uses that before?
Nite time, i didn't swaddle him cos i put him on his side on his cot.
i use swaddle me type of swaddle since birth n now sometimes when she gets very disturbed with her sleep. i bouht the NB size but quickly realized it can be used for bigger babies ( think they go by weight). it's easy to use with velcros in place..
But I noticed that he seems to be outgrowing the diaper cloth soon, so checking out here is there bigger cloth that i can use, or any other options i can explore. Mothercare is selling the swaddling me, or something like that... anyone uses that before?
Nite time, i didn't swaddle him cos i put him on his side on his cot.
LOuis also don't like to be swaddle.. can only swaddle after he's asleep so his hands won't anyhow fly and wake up.. as for sleeping on tummy, his face will be flat on the mattress and he doesn't know how to turn and then will become pek chek and cry loudly.. haiz.. will train him on that and see how.. thanks..You can also let baby sleep on his tummy.
My baby has been sleeping on his tummy since birth. He didn't like to be swaddled.
Woofy, sorry, I can't answer in detail this time round.sigh.. i tried not swaddling him today.. and give him the beansprout bolster for him to hug... within an hour.. he wake up soo many times.. problem is every 3hrs past super fast every day!!! after feeding louis, settling him to rest/sleep... left only about an hour to his next feed.. then within that hour.. he can wake up soooooo many times... no time to pump milk... no time to wash his bottles (oredi accumlate 3 feeds!!!) ... no time to prepare lunch.. lunch must be prepared in different sections... like this msg.. i've been on it since noon time.. ^.^"' ... sometimes i feel soooooooooo tired. when i read posts like your baby can play and doze off on their own.. i am sooooo envious.. i just wonder what went wrong. cos i dont't know how to "discipline" louis? i feel so lousy at times when l couldn't settle his cries... i know every baby is different.. sometimes i feel like dumping him outside the house... but whenever i see his big round eyes looking at me (when he's not crying) and cooing... i feel so blessed and he can just melt me as instantly as he can make me mad.
Now, another big problem is... my milk supply seems to be dropping drastically!! I am thinking since i got no time to pump... i latch him - but he can sometimes take 1 over hour, kept dozing off.. and when i sit him up, he'll cry cos hungry mah... but latch him again.. he zzz again... aiyoh... i'm really going crazy... then in the end... i still have to top him up with formula.. so now the feeding time also go haywired.. eg. if his feeding time is 2pm.. i latch him until 3+... then formula feed him.. he finish his milk say 3.30pm... if 3hrs interval.. i would assume his next feed is about 6pm.. and not 5pm (where i start latching him) - dont know.. see when my "alarm clock" wake up.
then sometimes my parents misses him... wants to bring louis over... but i think to bring him there for whole day is more then fighting a war... gotta bring sooooo many things!!! His 6 sterilized bottles, his rocker, car seat cos my dad come and pick us, diaper bag.. "and go there already.. i also can't let go... so i'll still stay around and "help".. then evening time my hubby come and pick us... bring the soooo many things back again, wash him up to prepare for bed... and he not necessary will sleep... dont know will do untl what time... by the time his last feed... i am totally exhausted, and he dont know why... at nite.. sleep.. can make so much noise... uncomfy.. so 1 nite also gota dont know pick him up to burp how many times... then perhaps 4hrs + later (which after settling him, left me about 2-3hrs), he will wake up for his next feed..
ahhhh... motherhood... it's a love/hate feeling!!!! I'm tired... and it's just only coming to 2nd month... and this is 1st time hubby handle a baby - though he trying to take over so i can rest - when louis is fussy and crying.. he'll be lost and stress ... so I gotta take over again... sigh... i'm so exhausted... :'( ..
sorry - this post suddenly became a ranting session...