was thinking....wad will it be if...

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zaries

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hi all single mummies...those who have a shared custody...

what if one day u found ur Mr right and u wanted to start a new family...
have kids, have own house..

then what will happen in everything..the kids in ur previous marriage...and ur ex...

welc ome to comment :)

what do u think?
 
mag_huiling

mag_huiling

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Most of divorced cases with kids, the custody is shared.

If you wanted to start a new family, your kids from your previous marriage can remain the same, their father can still visit them, they still get maintainence from their father (until they are 21). OR. you and your future husband can opt for adoption.

It always depends on what you want, how you want it to go and find a suitable solution to it.
 
faithster

faithster

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Hi, Was wondering if u r divorce and ur future partner wants ur kid to change their surname to theirs? Is this possible?
 
mag_huiling

mag_huiling

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faithster said:
Hi, Was wondering if u r divorce and ur future partner wants ur kid to change their surname to theirs? Is this possible?
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Can. Go for adoption. But long and expensive process. Plus approval required from biological father (if father's particulars is included in BC).
 
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zaries

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Den the kids frm e pre marriage will address uncle to my current dh n if got kids nxt time both kids will address differently...
Is there a way to make things less akward??:) *wonder*
 
mag_huiling

mag_huiling

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Erm.... Well, Then in that case no choice. Can only have one daddy, unless you dont find it weird. But what if your ds is saying about "daddy", how do you know which daddy he is refering to? Hahaha....
 
Ting

Ting

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since your son is still seeing his father on a weekly basis,then just let him call your future husband uncle or papa? it all depends on your comfort level.
 
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zaries

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mag_huiling said:
Erm.... Well, Then in that case no choice. Can only have one daddy, unless you dont find it weird. But what if your ds is saying about "daddy", how do you know which daddy he is refering to? Hahaha....
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Lol yea so if shared Custody a lil headache... Present ds will call uncle but in future if gt kids den will call daddy both call diff hais
 
Ting

Ting

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zaries said:
Hv to b at ds comfort zone.. :)
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as he is still young, he might not understand this type of feeling yet, as in whether he is comfy or not. so it is up to u to guide him into it. if he doesnt like to call ur future husb papa, then let him call him uncle.
 
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