What do you do when you miscarry at the toilet bowl?

dwarfs8

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haha by then hubby dont want no 3 anym cause he say he be too old already :( lolxxx ... Thanks Daisy Catch (Babydusts ) :D !! hopefully as i been eating lots of supplement , tonic to booast up my body now , even rest at home hope can help :) .. if not think going to be something wrong already ... :(
angel, did you go gynae have some test? the best i read from many articles online is to have sex every 2 days, especially for people with irregular menses like us.. Also, try elevating urself after the deed's done and stay there for 15-30mins.

that's what i did for my first lost pregnancy
 

angelababi

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i guess ur hubby age differ by u not much right?

my hubby is damn old but still he still say go lor if u wan somemore , but most likely i will stop at 4 cos 5th baby got no baby bonus HAHA !! i guess my hubby have to work until 60 to feed our daughter up haha !

just be in no stress is the best , i guess sometimes the more we want , the more baby dont wanna come

after my 2nd boy , i tried for 4yrs !! with ovulation strips everytime , dont have means dont have until i pekche give up , i told myself since my boys grow up i should perish my tots of having a girl to doll up liao ..

by the time my girl come out , my boys will be P4 & P2 le , see the big age gap *faint*

got time meet me often bah !! touch my tummy more so the dust will go to u LOL !!
lolxxx you r very cute ley daisy !! hahahha.... my hubby said he want to stop after he turn 40 , so we need to rush rush rush if want no 3 ... need to rush 3 babies in his 6yr lor as he 34 now ... yes i also worried abt kids age gap so everythings seems not on smoothly for me too as no 1 haven come yet .... then i dont want snake yr baby and he dont want horse yr baby wor .. sign think of this will be very stress and worried ..
 

xiaodaisy

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lolxxx you r very cute ley daisy !! hahahha.... my hubby said he want to stop after he turn 40 , so we need to rush rush rush if want no 3 ... need to rush 3 babies in his 6yr lor as he 34 now ... yes i also worried abt kids age gap so everythings seems not on smoothly for me too as no 1 haven come yet .... then i dont want snake yr baby and he dont want horse yr baby wor .. sign think of this will be very stress and worried ..
my ideal number of kids is 2 boys , 2 girls so they can accompany each other to play cars or to play barbie dolls haha !! but i find now really not easy to have so many cos prices of things have go up more n more higher den before lol

so every 1 yr 1 baby or every 2 yr 1 baby? LOL !! get 4 la .. shuang shuan dui dui haha !

why u dont want snake and why he dont wan horse? LOL ! ok la , get dragon baby ok , triplets nice for u ? haha ! 1 time go , ho sey !

see , must keep urself fm stress , be cheerful and positive on thinking , baby will come , sometimes not our problem , sometimes might be hubby's sperms bo enuff power , we nvr know ..

last time i cant pregnant , i always blame my hubby HAHA !! i say all bcos he's lao kok kok liao so bo lat liao haha , so we can be stress-less !! =)
 

angelababi

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angel, did you go gynae have some test? the best i read from many articles online is to have sex every 2 days, especially for people with irregular menses like us.. Also, try elevating urself after the deed's done and stay there for 15-30mins.

that's what i did for my first lost pregnancy
frankly speaking .. we done everything.. except haven go see gynae yet .. cause hubby said he stress too ... everytime ml he seems very stress as he want baby badly after waitin for so long... so we want to keep tryin after finish using the ovalution strip see can strike one ... if not by then go see TCM and gynae ......
 

angelababi

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my ideal number of kids is 2 boys , 2 girls so they can accompany each other to play cars or to play barbie dolls haha !! but i find now really not easy to have so many cos prices of things have go up more n more higher den before lol

so every 1 yr 1 baby or every 2 yr 1 baby? LOL !! get 4 la .. shuang shuan dui dui haha !

why u dont want snake and why he dont wan horse? LOL ! ok la , get dragon baby ok , triplets nice for u ? haha ! 1 time go , ho sey !

see , must keep urself fm stress , be cheerful and positive on thinking , baby will come , sometimes not our problem , sometimes might be hubby's sperms bo enuff power , we nvr know ..

last time i cant pregnant , i always blame my hubby HAHA !! i say all bcos he's lao kok kok liao so bo lat liao haha , so we can be stress-less !! =)
hahaha LOlxxxx daisy like that also can ar you hahahaha ...... :D cause he want 2 boy and i want 1 gal ... im afraid of snake so i dont want snake yr baby hahaha ... werid right hahaha ... and he "pan dang " so he dont want horse yr baby LOL ... sign i only know im getting older and fatter befor my baby come find me LOLxxx
 

xiaodaisy

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hahaha LOlxxxx daisy like that also can ar you hahahaha ...... :D cause he want 2 boy and i want 1 gal ... im afraid of snake so i dont want snake yr baby hahaha ... werid right hahaha ... and he "pan dang " so he dont want horse yr baby LOL ... sign i only know im getting older and fatter befor my baby come find me LOLxxx
LOL !! horse yr got wat pan dang?

must keep ourself everyday stress free !! wont la , 29 is still young ! age is not a matter , there is always good points and bad points of having a baby in a early age or in a later age ..

if u wanna see chinese sinseh , u better start going now , cos chinese sinseh takes a long time to 'tiao' ur body , shortest maybe 6mths - 1yrs + like tat ..
 

angelababi

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LOL !! horse yr got wat pan dang?

must keep ourself everyday stress free !! wont la , 29 is still young ! age is not a matter , there is always good points and bad points of having a baby in a early age or in a later age ..

if u wanna see chinese sinseh , u better start going now , cos chinese sinseh takes a long time to 'tiao' ur body , shortest maybe 6mths - 1yrs + like tat ..
LOL he supersitious on his things hahaha ... think he also going to become an uncle soon LOLxxx arhahaha ...
Ya i everyday keep myself stress free by playing game , see drama , go shopping etc ..... hahaha erm seems lazy hahaha ... LOL
ya the TCM i know have do research .. waiting him only ... haha
 

xiaodaisy

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LOL he supersitious on his things hahaha ... think he also going to become an uncle soon LOLxxx arhahaha ...
Ya i everyday keep myself stress free by playing game , see drama , go shopping etc ..... hahaha erm seems lazy hahaha ... LOL
ya the TCM i know have do research .. waiting him only ... haha
actually guys are ok on age bah .. my hubby is already over 40 , i still laugh at him for having his first daughter at such a old age LOL

nvm ,i doing the same thing too !! i'm lazy also hahahaha !! discuss with him lor if not if both of u dont want to snake and horse will have to delay another 2 yrs

its better for woman to pregnant earlier , the previous pregnancy and my current was a total big different , i felt old (no offence to u girls) when i had my current girl now cos its like a big different of yrs after i got pregnant and i felt so restless and weak in body =(
 

angelababi

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actually guys are ok on age bah .. my hubby is already over 40 , i still laugh at him for having his first daughter at such a old age LOL

nvm ,i doing the same thing too !! i'm lazy also hahahaha !! discuss with him lor if not if both of u dont want to snake and horse will have to delay another 2 yrs

its better for woman to pregnant earlier , the previous pregnancy and my current was a total big different , i felt old (no offence to u girls) when i had my current girl now cos its like a big different of yrs after i got pregnant and i felt so restless and weak in body =(
I think that depends on the guy ... my guy dont want to had any after he turn 40 cause he said worried his age gap be too much with kids .....
ya i agreed theres difference on woman age on pregg .. thats what me and him worried too ... imagin planning for 3 babies me and him r getting not young anym.... if this yr still dont hav think will really *faint .....
 

xiaodaisy

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I think that depends on the guy ... my guy dont want to had any after he turn 40 cause he said worried his age gap be too much with kids .....
ya i agreed theres difference on woman age on pregg .. thats what me and him worried too ... imagin planning for 3 babies me and him r getting not young anym.... if this yr still dont hav think will really *faint .....
oh ! maybe bah , my hubby feels as long i got no age gap will do ..

try for dragon baby den !! =) jiayou k

adding on , girls with more age will tend to have more to worry during pregnancy , unless can keep a very positive mindset .. else whole pregnancy will be a stress , must work hard !! mon - fri LOL !! sat & sun off haha !
 

Gem2505

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hmm.. i had irregular menses. usually, was once a month. but after i got married, become once every 2 months. i didnt try for kid, so the first time when the first month missed, i didnt panic ( i was taking part time degree course, so i didnt want to be preg n studying at the same time ). but let it be, then the 2nd month, menses came, 3rd month miss again. den 4th month came. so i went to see gynae at KKH to do scanning or whatever test, to see if im alright. but everything shows fine. so.. maybe.. stress? so i hack care and gynae gave me hormone pills ( also used as contraceptive pill ) . took it. and menses became regularly after that. on the last day of my exam, i pop the last pill and stopped taking it. coz i think, its time i should try for baby coz i wanted a bunny girl n its time to start..

so, dunno heng or what, i found out im preg when i wanted to take the nx month's contraceptive pill from doc coz im going Hokkaido for my honeymoon n i dont wanna have menses during the trip. luckily the doc insist that i do a urine test b4 i can purchase the pill. so i did n found out im PREG!!! i screamed in the toilet, LOL. n arranged for gynae appt on the day im flying off to Japan.

i didnt use any ovulation strip etc but did use the iphone apps to track my menses coz i always dont rem when was my last menses ( not to track if im preg, more like tracking how long have i missed my menses on health monitoring ).
oh yes, i did use the pillow to put under my butt after "things done" on the first month i tried for bb. n i found out im preg the following month.

sometimes, this kind of thing, luck also. if needed, consult TCM doc or gynae for check up all that. althou i didnt had any disappointment for trying for bb, but i can feel the "pain and sian-ness" if i have to go thru that, just like we anticipate something, but didnt get it. ouch and sadness.

eat healthy food, exercise well, rest well and relax yourself. im sure, as long as we preserve, we will suceed. jia yous too all!
 
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