See a a lawyer to seek advice.
Also sort out the baby stuff first and do not drag any longer.
There are many issues on hand now to resolve, do the one that is most urgent and followed with the rest.
If you feel that's no need to talk to him anymore, just proceed once you have made up your mind.
I seriously do not see any future of you going back to him and I am fearful he and his parents may have 'something on their mind' by not doing anything now.
Jia You!
Also sort out the baby stuff first and do not drag any longer.
There are many issues on hand now to resolve, do the one that is most urgent and followed with the rest.
If you feel that's no need to talk to him anymore, just proceed once you have made up your mind.
I seriously do not see any future of you going back to him and I am fearful he and his parents may have 'something on their mind' by not doing anything now.
Jia You!