What was your dream wedding??

[-SRI-]

Yalor Loves...i oso find it simple... hmmm.. haiz... actually the "hantaran" $4k given to the bride, is up to the bride side wat to do it wit lor.. they hv no right to interfere... of course i noe whether he can afford or nt.. n of course i noe hw to spent the $4k wisely.. come on man.. for goodness sake.. i learn accounting.. Eventhough I'm younger than them, I hv the basic knowledge the importance of savings.. I even every mth save some $$ aside for my niece which actually none of my biz ..haha.. do tt cz i noe sis n the HB nvr hv any savings for her n futhermore i regard her as my daughter since the day she's in my sis tummy... wat is long term n short term goal ... Expenses n income... Liabilites n Assets... I'm juz a minimum accounting holder.. juz an ITE student.. His wife is A level student working as Finance officer but still my guy complains she being spendthrift... duh!!! Slapped my forehead hard sia... His sis keep saying I'm materialistic(psst..tt y i understand hw u feel).. but she herself nvr reflect herself in the mirror... Her OWN bro tell me she luvs to job hopping.. come on la..she's 23 sia (btw she proud tt she's older than me..so wat??)..1yr older than me... graduate at the age of 16yrs old (N level only in religious sch) still behave like tt n schooling in a religious sch but her mouth ar so evil...call ppl names.. I expect her to be smart n talk wisely lor... me after graduate straight find job...stick to it...She still need her parents n my guy to support one.. so nw who's immatured?? me or her?? haiz........ dunno wat the hell these ppl are thinking... Fainted........:elvis:

 

[BornFree]

U should speak b4 u knw the actual facts !!

1stly DO U knw the meaning of DREAM wedding or watever things? IT IS NT realistic FYI coz it is a DREAM thing.

2ndly I DUN TINK HAVING A BALLROOM will cost MORE coz it base on per TABLE for wedding dinner IN SINGAPORE n having a BALLROOM u need to haf MIN requirement of TABLES requested WHICH alot of places do offer ballrooms for 35 tables WHILE WE did haf the min requirement of TABLES. It juz tat alot of places r fully booked of their ballrooms.

3rdly, TAT restaurant tt we held our wedding dinner doesnt haf much wedding decorations which seem more like going to normal restaurant to eat than a wedding dinner.

4th, HOW expensive can it b to haf bubbles n roses by the side of the path of march in? FYI my husband family insist on church rom n they decorate the side wif flowers too SO is tt nt within wat he can afford? BUBBLE GUNS can b bought frm shops which is even below $20 each wif refilled SO how expensive is tt? WE did buy bubble guns but those who r in charge of spraying the bubbles gave the guns away to kids.

Lastly, go ask ard the mummies here for wat i stated is it anything GRAND in SINGAPORE tt only RICH MAN can afford??

IF THE THINGS I STATED ISNT ONLY RICH MAN CAN AFFORD BUT RATHER MOST PPL CAN AFFORD THEN WAT MAKES U THINK TT U HAF THE RIGHT TO CALL ME MATERIALIST WHEN I AM NT EVEN ONE?! IF U DUNO WAT IS GOING ON OR FACTS THEN SHUT UR MOUTH UP B4 CALLING PPL MATERIALIST N SAY SHOULD FIND SUM1 WHO HAF THE MEANS TO PAY FOR SUCH GRAND WEDDING !! IT NOT AS IF I ASK FOR 5 STARS HOTELS or SUMTHING GRAND !! IT IS WITHIN THE MEANS OF MOST PPL CAN DO IN SINGAPORE SO DUN ACT SMART IF UR NOT SMART BY CALLING PPL NAMES FOR NOTHING!!

Wow, I had a really hard time trying to make sense of what you're trying to say, cause of the really bad spelling and grammar, but here's what I've gathered from your ranting post:


1. Your husband and family have spent a significant amount of money on your wedding (35 x $700 = $24,500), and yet you're not satisfied. I know of people who got married with little more than half a grand, and they're the happiest couple I've ever seen. You, on the other hand, had a grand wedding dinner at a swanky restaurant and yet you have "regrets that will always stay at a small corner of your heart". Obviously when you exchanged vows with your husband, you left out the "for better, for worse, for richer for poorer" part.

2. "3rdly, TAT restaurant tt we held our wedding dinner doesnt haf much wedding decorations which seem more like going to normal restaurant to eat than a wedding dinner."

Seems like you were more interested in scrutinizing the decorations than you were revelling in the joy of union with your husband.

3. "HOW expensive can it b to haf bubbles n roses by the side of the path of march in? FYI my husband family insist on church rom n they decorate the side wif flowers too SO is tt nt within wat he can afford? BUBBLE GUNS can b bought frm shops which is even below $20 each wif refilled SO how expensive is tt? WE did buy bubble guns but those who r in charge of spraying the bubbles gave the guns away to kids."

Once again, the bubbles of love are replaced by bubbles of want and greed.

4. "IF THE THINGS I STATED ISNT ONLY RICH MAN CAN AFFORD BUT RATHER MOST PPL CAN AFFORD THEN WAT MAKES U THINK TT U HAF THE RIGHT TO CALL ME MATERIALIST WHEN I AM NT EVEN ONE?! IF U DUNO WAT IS GOING ON OR FACTS THEN SHUT UR MOUTH UP B4 CALLING PPL MATERIALIST N SAY SHOULD FIND SUM1 WHO HAF THE MEANS TO PAY FOR SUCH GRAND WEDDING !! IT NOT AS IF I ASK FOR 5 STARS HOTELS or SUMTHING GRAND !! IT IS WITHIN THE MEANS OF MOST PPL CAN DO IN SINGAPORE SO DUN ACT SMART IF UR NOT SMART BY CALLING PPL NAMES FOR NOTHING!!"

It seems to me that you're not even mature enough to be an adult, much less a wife and a parent.

Getting married is not about the fanciful wedding cake, it is not about the bubbles, neither is it about the rose petals that rain down on you while you're walking down the isle. It is about the single most joyous moment in a person's life, when he puts on that ring for you (no matter how cheap it may be) and vow to love you for the rest of his life, in sickness and in health, in wealth or poverty, till death do us part.

The greatest love stories are never about the grand ballrooms and the expensive weddings. They never last. The greatest love story is told by the elderly man who sits by his bed and caresses his dead wife's blouse, telling her that he misses her.

Till death do us part.

You, madame, do not understand the meaning of true love.

 

[LoVeS]

Wow, I had a really hard time trying to make sense of what you're trying to say, cause of the really bad spelling and grammar, but here's what I've gathered from your ranting post:

Nowadays ppl use short form of spelling instead of FULL spelling of it so it got nothing to do wif bad spelling or wat.

1. Your husband and family have spent a significant amount of money on your wedding (35 x $700 = $24,500), and yet you're not satisfied. I know of people who got married with little more than half a grand, and they're the happiest couple I've ever seen. You, on the other hand, had a grand wedding dinner at a swanky restaurant and yet you have "regrets that will always stay at a small corner of your heart". Obviously when you exchanged vows with your husband, you left out the "for better, for worse, for richer for poorer" part.

Yes my husband n family spend an amount of money on wedding BUT it is OUR wedding NOT juz mine, when we knw tt if the SAME amount of money can haf a better environment for wedding WHICH person wont wan it? It not as if i am asking my husband to pay more so tt i can haf a better wedding environment WHICH is nothing wrong wif tat.

Another thing is tat most of the 35 tables is for my husband family's frds n relatives whereby my family only took 2 tables SO spending how much WAT DOES IT GOT TO DO WIF ME?! It not as if i ask them to invite so many ppl but rather they r the one insisted on inviting the guests which end up having so many tables.

For ur understanding, wedding dinner in SG is not cheap at all which can b more or less DEPENDING on how many tables u haf. I didnt ask for so many tables BUT it my in laws who need it.

How much my husband spent it nt as if i can ask my in laws dun get so many tables for their family. The wedding dinner where we held haf discount as my in laws are members of the country club so we spent ard 17K n EVEN the cheapest wedding dinner in SG wif 35 tables aso need to spend 14k for $400 per tables which hasnt include GST n service charges.

IT DOESNT mean tt my husband need to pay 17k DO U KNW TAT?! After deducting the red packets from the guests, my husband only need to fork out 5K n by rite we dun need to FORK OUT MONEY AT ALL but bcoz of sum guests gave us lesser amount of money than STANDARD AMOUNT in their RED PACKETS which is why my husband need to pay 5K!

Even wif the bonus things i wanted, IT WONT EVEN COST more than $800 OK!If it out of my husband's budget then by all means i dun mind forking out my own $$ for the things i wanted. I am wondering did u held any wedding dinner in SG b4?

Wedding is once in a lifetime thing obviously every woman will wan to haf a wonderful wedding n within their budget. Since i can haf a wedding tat i wan n it within the budget of wat my husband is going to pay the restaurant then WHY is wrong wif having a wedding tat i wan?

FOR THIS, MAN will nv understand coz woman n man ARE DIFF in term of mentality. It same like woman are always more sensitive than man.

Another thing is NO ONE is asking for ur opinion regarding my wedding WHO R U to comment abt my wedding N ur post is NOT related to the TOPIC at all. If u haf no idea the meaning of DREAM WEDDING then too bad for ya OK?

DO U really knw me? U dun even knw me SO how r u going to understand if i haf left out the "for better, for worse, for richer for poorer" part? U dun even knw me yet tok so much craps wif me. Be it his frds or his family didnt even tink of me such way, in fact they knw i am always saving money for him so dun ASSUME things juz like ur previous post!!

2. "3rdly, TAT restaurant tt we held our wedding dinner doesnt haf much wedding decorations which seem more like going to normal restaurant to eat than a wedding dinner."

Seems like you were more interested in scrutinizing the decorations than you were revelling in the joy of union with your husband.

The wedding dinner is paid already n decorations are suppose to b within wat we paid BUT it is not wat i wanted so wat does it got to do wif my joy union wif my husband? WHO in the earth told u i am not joy of the union wif my husband? See it seem like u enjoy ASSUMING things on ur own n tink tt ur rite.

3. "HOW expensive can it b to haf bubbles n roses by the side of the path of march in? FYI my husband family insist on church rom n they decorate the side wif flowers too SO is tt nt within wat he can afford? BUBBLE GUNS can b bought frm shops which is even below $20 each wif refilled SO how expensive is tt? WE did buy bubble guns but those who r in charge of spraying the bubbles gave the guns away to kids."

Once again, the bubbles of love are replaced by bubbles of want and greed.

FYI those bubbles guns are paid with my own $$ ok so wat does it got to do wif greed? What do u knw abt the love between my husband n me? DO u knw us? U dun even knw us so wat make u haf the rite to comment anything abt it?

4. "IF THE THINGS I STATED ISNT ONLY RICH MAN CAN AFFORD BUT RATHER MOST PPL CAN AFFORD THEN WAT MAKES U THINK TT U HAF THE RIGHT TO CALL ME MATERIALIST WHEN I AM NT EVEN ONE?! IF U DUNO WAT IS GOING ON OR FACTS THEN SHUT UR MOUTH UP B4 CALLING PPL MATERIALIST N SAY SHOULD FIND SUM1 WHO HAF THE MEANS TO PAY FOR SUCH GRAND WEDDING !! IT NOT AS IF I ASK FOR 5 STARS HOTELS or SUMTHING GRAND !! IT IS WITHIN THE MEANS OF MOST PPL CAN DO IN SINGAPORE SO DUN ACT SMART IF UR NOT SMART BY CALLING PPL NAMES FOR NOTHING!!"

It seems to me that you're not even mature enough to be an adult, much less a wife and a parent.

U dun sound mature enuff to me too who keep assuming n always think urself is rite. I dun wan to repeat myself again tt U DUN KNW US AT ALL!!

Getting married is not about the fanciful wedding cake, it is not about the bubbles, neither is it about the rose petals that rain down on you while you're walking down the isle. It is about the single most joyous moment in a person's life, when he puts on that ring for you (no matter how cheap it may be) and vow to love you for the rest of his life, in sickness and in health, in wealth or poverty, till death do us part.

Who told u abt fanciful wedding cake? Who cares abt wedding cakes? Bubbles n flowers r juz BONUS which even the church ROM his mom INSISTED on having flowers on the side. So am i the 1 who requested for flowers? It seem like u haf no idea at all that even couples wif grand wedding OR DUN HAF which they can still love each other n for the VOWS my husband n me took is taken at ROM church nt the march in for the wedding dinner.

Wedding dinner is a chinese traditional thing tat elders want n it nt as if I ASKED for a wedding dinner. U keep assuming things again n again BUT do u really knw wat is going on? NO u duno yet keep on assume n insist ur rite yet still calling ppl names !!

U are RUDE n no manners at all !! If u haf nothing to share on the topic THEN DUN post !! Go read on the forum RULES b4 u continue to post !

The greatest love stories are never about the grand ballrooms and the expensive weddings. They never last. The greatest love story is told by the elderly man who sits by his bed and caresses his dead wife's blouse, telling her that he misses her.

Till death do us part.

You, madame, do not understand the meaning of true love.

Whether i understand or not, i dun need u to justify if i really understand the meaning of true love or not BUT rather my own husband !! Do continue assuming things by urself if it makes u so happy.

 

[-SRI-]

Nowadays ppl use short form of spelling instead of FULL spelling of it so it got nothing to do wif bad spelling or wat.

U are RUDE n no manners at all !! If u haf nothing to share on the topic THEN DUN post !! Go read on the forum RULES b4 u continue to post !

Loves, my English is the worst.. Hahaha.. Nt very gd in grammar.. 'N' Level gt band 4 whereas 'O' Level gt D7...:shyxxx:Sometimes use all the Singlish.. :001_302: I only do very well in Effective communication & Effective writing.. :tlaugh:...

Very paiseh... But need to ask... B4 i kena bombarded...I better read the rules 1st... Whr's is the rules?? I nvr read it lei ever since i been to tis forum... Izzit tis? I only find tis in the Annoucements Forum segment.. Correct me if I'm wrg ok.. I'm quite newbie ma.. :embarrassed: Thank u.. Some of the words are so chim..hehehe.. told u my Eng is poor.. muz check in the dictionary.. Hv to broaden up my Vocab...:001_302:

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[BornFree]

Wow, I had a really hard time trying to make sense of what you're trying to say, cause of the really bad spelling and grammar, but here's what I've gathered from your ranting post:

Nowadays ppl use short form of spelling instead of FULL spelling of it so it got nothing to do wif bad spelling or wat.

1. Your husband and family have spent a significant amount of money on your wedding (35 x $700 = $24,500), and yet you're not satisfied. I know of people who got married with little more than half a grand, and they're the happiest couple I've ever seen. You, on the other hand, had a grand wedding dinner at a swanky restaurant and yet you have "regrets that will always stay at a small corner of your heart". Obviously when you exchanged vows with your husband, you left out the "for better, for worse, for richer for poorer" part.

Yes my husband n family spend an amount of money on wedding BUT it is OUR wedding NOT juz mine, when we knw tt if the SAME amount of money can haf a better environment for wedding WHICH person wont wan it? It not as if i am asking my husband to pay more so tt i can haf a better wedding environment WHICH is nothing wrong wif tat. Another thing is most of the tables are for my husband family whereby my family only took 2 tables SO spending how much WAT DOES IT GOT TO DO WIF ME?! It not as if i ask them to invite so many ppl but rather they r the one insisted on inviting the guests which end up having so many tables. Wedding is once in a lifetime thing obviously every woman will wan to haf a wonderful wedding n within their budget. FOR THIS, MAN will nv understand coz woman n man ARE DIFF in term of mentality. It same like woman are always more sensitive than man.

Another thing is NO ONE is asking for ur opinion regarding my wedding WHO R U to comment abt my wedding N ur post is NOT related to the TOPIC at all. If u haf no idea the meaning of DREAM WEDDING then too bad for ya OK?

DO U really knw me? U dun even knw me SO how r u going to understand if i haf left out the "for better, for worse, for richer for poorer" part? U dun even knw me yet tok so much craps wif me. Be it his frds or his family didnt even tink of me such way, in fact they knw i am always saving money for him so dun ASSUME things juz like ur previous post!!

2. "3rdly, TAT restaurant tt we held our wedding dinner doesnt haf much wedding decorations which seem more like going to normal restaurant to eat than a wedding dinner."

Seems like you were more interested in scrutinizing the decorations than you were revelling in the joy of union with your husband.

The wedding dinner is paid already n decorations are suppose to b within wat we paid BUT it is not wat i wanted so wat does it got to do wif my joy union wif my husband? WHO in the earth told u i am not joy of the union wif my husband? See it seem like u enjoy ASSUMING things on ur own n tink tt ur rite.

3. "HOW expensive can it b to haf bubbles n roses by the side of the path of march in? FYI my husband family insist on church rom n they decorate the side wif flowers too SO is tt nt within wat he can afford? BUBBLE GUNS can b bought frm shops which is even below $20 each wif refilled SO how expensive is tt? WE did buy bubble guns but those who r in charge of spraying the bubbles gave the guns away to kids."

Once again, the bubbles of love are replaced by bubbles of want and greed.

FYI those bubbles guns are paid with my own $$ ok so wat does it got to do wif greed? What do u knw abt the love between my husband n me? DO u knw us? U dun even knw us so wat make u haf the rite to comment anything abt it?

4. "IF THE THINGS I STATED ISNT ONLY RICH MAN CAN AFFORD BUT RATHER MOST PPL CAN AFFORD THEN WAT MAKES U THINK TT U HAF THE RIGHT TO CALL ME MATERIALIST WHEN I AM NT EVEN ONE?! IF U DUNO WAT IS GOING ON OR FACTS THEN SHUT UR MOUTH UP B4 CALLING PPL MATERIALIST N SAY SHOULD FIND SUM1 WHO HAF THE MEANS TO PAY FOR SUCH GRAND WEDDING !! IT NOT AS IF I ASK FOR 5 STARS HOTELS or SUMTHING GRAND !! IT IS WITHIN THE MEANS OF MOST PPL CAN DO IN SINGAPORE SO DUN ACT SMART IF UR NOT SMART BY CALLING PPL NAMES FOR NOTHING!!"

It seems to me that you're not even mature enough to be an adult, much less a wife and a parent.

U dun sound mature enuff to me too who keep assuming n always think urself is rite. I dun wan to repeat myself again tt U DUN KNW US AT ALL!!

Getting married is not about the fanciful wedding cake, it is not about the bubbles, neither is it about the rose petals that rain down on you while you're walking down the isle. It is about the single most joyous moment in a person's life, when he puts on that ring for you (no matter how cheap it may be) and vow to love you for the rest of his life, in sickness and in health, in wealth or poverty, till death do us part.

Who told u abt fanciful wedding cake? Who cares abt wedding cakes? Bubbles n flowers r juz BONUS which even the church his mom INSISTED on having flowers on the side. So am i the 1 who requested for flowers? It seem like u haf no idea at all that even couples wif grand wedding or DUN HAF which they can still love each other n the VOWS r taken at ROM nt the march in for the wedding dinner. Wedding dinner is a chinese traditional thing tat elders want n it nt as if I ASKED for a wedding dinner. U keep assuming things again n again BUT do u really knw wat is going on? NO u duno yet keep on assume n insist ur rite yet still calling ppl names !!

U are RUDE n no manners at all !! If u haf nothing to share on the topic THEN DUN post !! Go read on the forum RULES b4 u continue to post !

The greatest love stories are never about the grand ballrooms and the expensive weddings. They never last. The greatest love story is told by the elderly man who sits by his bed and caresses his dead wife's blouse, telling her that he misses her.

Till death do us part.

You, madame, do not understand the meaning of true love.

For ur understanding, wedding dinner in SG is not cheap at all which can b more or less DEPENDING on how many tables u haf. I didnt ask of so many tables BUT it my in laws who need it. How much my husband spent it nt as if i can ask my in laws dun get so many tables for their family. The wedding dinner we had there are discount as my in laws are members of the country club so we spent ard 17k n EVEN the cheapest wedding dinner wif 35 tables aso need to spend 14k. Even wif the bonus things i wan WONT EVEN COST more than $800 OK!I am wondering did u held any wedding dinner in SG b4?

Whether i understand or not i dun need u to justify if i really understand the meaning of true love or not BUT rather my own husband !! Do continue assuming things by urself if it makes u so happy.

There's a really great book that you can buy at any bookshop or even borrow from the library, its called a DICTIONARY. Please get a copy and start using it before posting more "Singlish".

From your last post, it's pretty obvious that you're an extremely self-centered person. Let me ask you something. When you go out for meals with your husband/friends/whomever uneducated people come into contact with, do you usually end up eating at a place YOU prefer?

Yes, men (not man) are different from women, but what makes you think a man doesn't want to have a wonderful wedding? It happens once in a lifetime for a man as well, not just women.

Next point, if you're not going to accept constructive criticism, then don't post your thoughts online. If you're not willing to debate, don't open your mouth.

And then, talking about being rude. I wonder who's the rude one here. I'm not the one referring to what others say as "craps" or "shut ur mouth up" or talking in caps, which is akin to shouting.

The wedding dinner is paid already n decorations are suppose to b within wat we paid BUT it is not wat i wanted so wat does it got to do wif my joy union wif my husband?

Notice how the focus changes from "we" to "I"?

U dun sound mature enuff to me too who keep assuming n always think urself is rite. I dun wan to repeat myself again tt U DUN KNW US AT ALL!!

It's not a matter of whether I think I'm right or wrong, although I'm pretty sure I'm right in this case. It's a matter of my opinion. Why the defensiveness if you're not what I make you out to be? Unless you are but don't want others to know.

NO u duno yet keep on assume n insist ur rite yet still calling ppl names !!

I don't recall calling you names. Materialist is a term, not a name.

U are RUDE n no manners at all !! If u haf nothing to share on the topic THEN DUN post !! Go read on the forum RULES b4 u continue to post !

I am merely trying to make you see some light. A wedding is a beautiful thing. Why are you harbouring regret because of trivial matters like bubbles and decorations on the wall? These things won't last, but your marriage is for a lifetime.

For ur understanding, wedding dinner in SG is not cheap at all which can b more or less DEPENDING on how many tables u haf. I didnt ask of so many tables BUT it my in laws who need it. How much my husband spent it nt as if i can ask my in laws dun get so many tables for their family. The wedding dinner we had there are discount as my in laws are members of the country club so we spent ard 17k n EVEN the cheapest wedding dinner wif 35 tables aso need to spend 14k. Even wif the bonus things i wan WONT EVEN COST more than $800 OK!I am wondering did u held any wedding dinner in SG b4?

Again, missing my point entirely.

Whether i understand or not i dun need u to justify if i really understand the meaning of true love or not BUT rather my own husband !! Do continue assuming things by urself if it makes u so happy.

It does not make me happy, it makes me sad that someone can regret a wedding because the balloons were not the right colour, or the decorations were too colourful. I think you need to wisen up, be happy that you're married, be thankful for your husband, stop complaining about the things that went wrong during the wedding and move on. A wedding is a ceremony, meant to celebrate the main event - the marriage. Stop being so superficial and think deeper. I'm surprised you even managed to find someone to form a union with.

 

[LoVeS]

Loves, my English is the worst.. Hahaha.. Nt very gd in grammar.. 'N' Level gt band 4 whereas 'O' Level gt D7...:shyxxx:Sometimes use all the Singlish.. :001_302: I only do very well in Effective communication & Effective writing.. :tlaugh:...

Dun worry abt gd or bad english coz this is a forum, it nt as if competition on WHOSE english is gd or whose grammars r gd. In fact it got nothing to do wif the thread at all. If ppl dun understand short form spelling for english then too bad lor.

A forum is to share informations and where ppl tok abt the thread topics BUT not picking on ppl's post n insulting ppl w/o even posting ANYTHING related to the thread TOPIC at all. These ppl r juz trying to find troubles wif others for NOTHING. ESPECIALLY those who LOVE to assume things n keep thinking tat they r rite while others r wrong when they dun even knw ANYTHING yet continue to assume abt others.

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[-SRI-]

Hahaha...juz tell u my Eng is poor lor..Mly worst!! hehehe... Sis Zara even said I like blur blur sotong..cz when I chat wit her, I dun get wat she trying to say..muz translate in Eng den I'll understand.. Still remember my guy parents insulted me on my mly language lor..they even said ltr their grandchild dunno hw to communicate to them in mly as most of the time I been speaking Eng... Actually my mly gt A*...but since I in ITE all my closed frens is chi...no mly frens..i don mix wit them..as time passed, my mly language become poorer...n due to tt i understand mandarin abit..btw I don really watch Suria Channel.. hahaha..Mostly Channel 8...:001_302: I told my guy I want my child to learnt mandarin cz for her/his own benefit if wanna find a job... hahaha... my guy like pissed off..who cares.. u don want ur child wat..so i lead my child life la..u hv no say at all....

Ooo...tts the rules ar..ok..i'll take note..thks!! kk...i OT... sorry..

 

[LoVeS]

There's a really great book that you can buy at any bookshop or even borrow from the library, its called a DICTIONARY. Please get a copy and start using it before posting more "Singlish".

Why should i buy a dictionary when this is a forum which many ppl use singlish or even short form spelling JUZ for ppl like u who dun like it? U dun like it or watever tats ur own prob coz i dun need to do anything to please u when u r nt even sum1 i knw.

From your last post, it's pretty obvious that you're an extremely self-centered person. Let me ask you something. When you go out for meals with your husband/friends/whomever uneducated people come into contact with, do you usually end up eating at a place YOU prefer?

Nope, if we go in a grp of frds which we will go to place where major wanted to go N even i am wif my husband, we at times go to hawker centers or places where my husband wanted to go COZ he is fussy on foods where alot of foods he dun eat at all. Haf to go to places tat my husband do eat for meals since no pt going to places where there's nothing for him to eat at all.

See i told u, u love to assume things who tink tt if i am out wif my frds or husband for meals which will end up going to places where i PREFER BCOZ I AM SELF CENTERED PERSON. I am not wrong tat u like to assume n tink ur rite SO who is the ACTUAL person tat is SELF CENTERED? It IS U who keep thinking u r rite !! This is why i mentioned U knw NOTHING abt me at all so wat makes u haf the rite to comment abt me?

Yes, men (not man) are different from women, but what makes you think a man doesn't want to have a wonderful wedding? It happens once in a lifetime for a man as well, not just women.

i said woman n man r diff in term of mentality NOT men are diff from women. Did i mentioned tat a man doesnt wan to haf wonderful wedding? Dun put words in my mouth. Like i said woman n man r diff in term of mentality SO a man's mentality of a wonderful wedding is diff wif a woman's mentality of a wonderful wedding SO dun compare on it.

Next point, if you're not going to accept constructive criticism, then don't post your thoughts online. If you're not willing to debate, don't open your mouth.

In the 1st place no 1 is asking for criticism or opinion but rather sharing their own experiences NOT THOUGHTS BUT there u are picking on sum1's experience n insult the person SO how nice of U!! This is a forum NOT a place for u to debate n like i said READ the rules for this forum. So who is the 1 in fault?

And then, talking about being rude. I wonder who's the rude one here. I'm not the one referring to what others say as "craps" or "shut ur mouth up" or talking in caps, which is akin to shouting.

U assume things n insult ppl YET say tt ur not rude? Calling ppl materialist is nt consider as rude? In the 1st place do u knw wat is this thread for? It sharing experience which no1 is asking for ur opinion on ppl's post of experiences BUT asking u to share ur OWN experience OK? Wat is wrong wif u? 1st few post in this forum start to flame war wif ppl by insulting ppl?

The wedding dinner is paid already n decorations are suppose to b within wat we paid BUT it is not wat i wanted so wat does it got to do wif my joy union wif my husband?

Notice how the focus changes from "we" to "I"?

This is an individual opinion between my husband n me, so far thru out our wedding my husband didnt even went to research info abt wedding dinner or studios or even photographers coz he is cant b bother attitude type of person n dun haf views whether gd or bad EVEN if anyone asked him.

HE cant b bother DOES NOT MEAN tat i haf to b the same as him. If i were to b like him NOTHING can b DONE at all coz he always like to do things in a "other days" attitude. From my son is 2mths old we wanted to get insurance BUT till now my son is ALMOST 11mths yet he has not even start to compare which insurance is cheaper n better. If i were to behave like him THEN alot of things can nv b done.

U dun sound mature enuff to me too who keep assuming n always think urself is rite. I dun wan to repeat myself again tt U DUN KNW US AT ALL!!

It's not a matter of whether I think I'm right or wrong, although I'm pretty sure I'm right in this case. It's a matter of my opinion. Why the defensiveness if you're not what I make you out to be? Unless you are but don't want others to know.

Everyone will b defensive when they r wrongly accused which is normal reactions as i believe even SRI will agree wif me as she was wrongly accused by sum mummies abt her issue SO IT is not like wat u said "u r but dun wan others to knw"

NO u duno yet keep on assume n insist ur rite yet still calling ppl names !!

I don't recall calling you names. Materialist is a term, not a name.

U are RUDE n no manners at all !! If u haf nothing to share on the topic THEN DUN post !! Go read on the forum RULES b4 u continue to post !

I am merely trying to make you see some light. A wedding is a beautiful thing. Why are you harbouring regret because of trivial matters like bubbles and decorations on the wall? These things won't last, but your marriage is for a lifetime.

FYI it nt juz abt the wedding dinner tt cause my regrets but rather added up wif other things as well tat makes me feel regret. Why do u need to make me see some light when i am not even asking anyone to do so? Even by making me see some light which i dun tink u need to insult me by saying i am materialist n i should find sum1 who has the means to pay for such grand wedding when it is NT even a grand wedding.

I am not toking abt celebrities' weddings but rather normal couples' weddings. I didnt request for hotel to haf my wedding dinner as hotels r normally MUCH more expensive per tables BUT rather a ballroom will do which the country club we held do haf n it is the same amount of money we paid for our wedding dinner yet it is fully booked on the day. We can find other country clubs for the ballroom while it is within the actual budget for the one we held.

For ur understanding, wedding dinner in SG is not cheap at all which can b more or less DEPENDING on how many tables u haf. I didnt ask of so many tables BUT it my in laws who need it. How much my husband spent it nt as if i can ask my in laws dun get so many tables for their family. The wedding dinner we had there are discount as my in laws are members of the country club so we spent ard 17k n EVEN the cheapest wedding dinner wif 35 tables aso need to spend 14k. Even wif the bonus things i wan WONT EVEN COST more than $800 OK!I am wondering did u held any wedding dinner in SG b4?

Again, missing my point entirely.

U r the 1 who keep toking abt the money spent n say i am nt happy wif the amount of money tat was spent so here i am telling u how much money will b spent for a wedding dinner. U say i am greed which i xplain to u the money spent it not ME who cause the wedding dinner for tat amount as i didnt request for so many tables BUT rather my in laws SO why is it i am greed?

Like i mentioned on my post i am more than willing to fork out my own money to haf the bonus tat i am looking forward in my wedding dinner IF it is out of the budget. Spending my own money call greed?

Dun compare ur frd who didnt even spend half a grand on their wedding COZ diff human beings haf diff expectations n views of their wedding. After all ur frd n me r diff person n u cant expect me to b the same view or same expectation as ur frd so wats so gd to compare abt? If ur frd like his/her wedding n is happy THEN gd for them BUT dun expect me to think the same as them. Sum ppl like simple wedding while sum ppl like grand wedding BUT for me i wont like grand wedding coz too expensive i dun wan to hurt my husband pocket n if by adding things tat r nt expensive within my husband budget even if out of budget which i am willing to fork out the money yet can haf the wedding i wan so why not?

Whether i understand or not i dun need u to justify if i really understand the meaning of true love or not BUT rather my own husband !! Do continue assuming things by urself if it makes u so happy.

It does not make me happy, it makes me sad that someone can regret a wedding because the balloons were not the right colour, or the decorations were too colourful. I think you need to wisen up, be happy that you're married, be thankful for your husband, stop complaining about the things that went wrong during the wedding and move on. A wedding is a ceremony, meant to celebrate the main event - the marriage. Stop being so superficial and think deeper. I'm surprised you even managed to find someone to form a union with.

Nope it not tat the balloons were not right colours or the decorations were too colourful BUT rather almost like no decoration on the wedding dinner except for our names on the heart shape WHICH is why i said i dun feel like it is WEDDING but more like a normal restaurant dining. I wan my frds to feel the wedding atmosphere too while sharing the moment of my joys.

See u r insulting ppl all along. "i am surprised u even managed to find sum1 to form a union wif." this is WHY i say tt ur rude !! show ppl sum light doesnt mean tat u should insult ppl n even CAN insult ppl. This is call personal atk on other member.

If u read SRI post on the rules u will knw wat i mean "go read the forum rules b4 u post."

 

[BornFree]

Loves, my English is the worst.. Hahaha.. Nt very gd in grammar.. 'N' Level gt band 4 whereas 'O' Level gt D7...:shyxxx:Sometimes use all the Singlish.. :001_302: I only do very well in Effective communication & Effective writing.. :tlaugh:...

Dun worry abt gd or bad english coz this is a forum, it nt as if competition on WHOSE english is gd or whose grammars r gd. In fact it got nothing to do wif the thread at all. If ppl dun understand short form spelling for english then too bad lor.

A forum is to share informations and where ppl tok abt the thread topics BUT not picking on ppl's post n insulting ppl w/o even posting ANYTHING related to the thread TOPIC at all. These ppl r juz trying to find troubles wif others for NOTHING. ESPECIALLY those who LOVE to assume things n keep thinking tat they r rite while others r wrong when they dun even knw ANYTHING yet continue to assume abt others.

Very paiseh... But need to ask... B4 i kena bombarded...I better read the rules 1st... Whr's is the rules?? I nvr read it lei ever since i been to tis forum... Izzit tis? I only find tis in the Annoucements Forum segment.. Correct me if I'm wrg ok.. I'm quite newbie ma.. :embarrassed: Thank u.. Some of the words are so chim..hehehe.. told u my Eng is poor.. muz check in the dictionary.. Hv to broaden up my Vocab...:001_302:

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Yes this is the rules i am toking abt for this forum n it set by the admin of this forum. ESPECIALLY those in black n bold is wat i am trying to say.

Wow, the irony of it all.

 

[BornFree]

Nope it not tat the balloons were not right colours or the decorations were too colourful BUT rather almost like no decoration on the wedding dinner except for our names on the heart shape WHICH is why i said i dun feel like it is WEDDING but more like a normal restaurant dining. I wan my frds to feel the wedding atmosphere too while sharing the moment of my joys.


Again, not getting the point. Perhaps I'm bad at explanations, or you need a little time on the whetstone. Anyhow, I hope you get over not having a ballroom for your wedding and get on with your life. Harbouring regret over such petty issues is just plain childish.

And next time, get a wedding planner. It helps. :001_302:

 

[LoVeS]

Wow, the irony of it all.

U can tell the above sentence to edy the admin of this forum as it was set by him.

 

[-SRI-]

To my Dear Loves & BornFree ..

Can we end tis amicably? Since BornFree hv read the rules & Loves hv made her points.. Lets forget the previous post..Lets leave it all behind us.. Forgive & Forget/Forget or Forgive..:we2cool:Like nt shiok lei.. I mean it doesnt look gd if our newbie read it.. PEACE.. **Hugs** :wong24:

Anyone wanna share their dream wedding? :001_302:

My gf told me, recently she went to the Zoo n saw a couple having their wedding there.. The couple ride an Elephant.. Cool huh... :wesmile:

 

[LoVeS]

Nope it not tat the balloons were not right colours or the decorations were too colourful BUT rather almost like no decoration on the wedding dinner except for our names on the heart shape WHICH is why i said i dun feel like it is WEDDING but more like a normal restaurant dining. I wan my frds to feel the wedding atmosphere too while sharing the moment of my joys.


Again, not getting the point. Perhaps I'm bad at explanations, or you need a little time on the whetstone. Anyhow, I hope you get over not having a ballroom for your wedding and get on with your life. Harbouring regret over such petty issues is just plain childish.

And next time, get a wedding planner. It helps. :001_302:

If u think it as childish then so sorry alot of women r childish juz bcoz they haf regrets on certain things in their weddings. Having regrets doesnt mean tt ppl will make a big fuss or wat. Every single person haf their own regrets b it anything n if u see it as childish BUT doesnt mean tt it is childish to others.

Dun take ur own view as others views coz everyone is diff in term of views n opinions. I cant force others to haf same view or opinion as me n it the same tt no1 can force my views to b same as them.

Having regrets doesnt mean tt i cant move on wif my life or marriage. Life has to go on regardless having regrets or not.

The main point is the THREAD starter asked wat is our dream wedding n wat is the ACTUAL wedding. I am juz post as wat the thread starter asked so i really dun understand why u meddle n haf prob wif my experience shared wif the thread starter n other mummies.

U knw wat? Ur the only person who is so bo liao pick on ppl's experience n put personal atk wif words tt insults ppl. U dun contribute ur own experience for the thread topic it is fine BUT dun pick on sum1's post n insulting ppl to such extend coz on the 1st place the experiences we shared here r not asking for ppl's opinion of wat they tink it should b.

Even my husband who is sitting bside me aso find tat u r picking on sumthing out of NOTHING coz he said "i am her husband i dun find anything wrong or need to complain n fuss abt it so wat makes him haf the rite to say my wife till this extend?" He even said tt u r 莫名其妙(Mo Ming Qi Miao) for picking ppl experience to the extend insulting the person in every single posts u replied n the sentence u used to insult ppl r way too much.

Wat my husband said is rite, he is my husband n he dun find anything wrong or even complain NOT bcoz he is great man or dun wan cause trouble wif me BUT rather he knw wats going on n understand how a woman feel tats why he think is normal for me to feel tat way n having regrets. His rite tat he is my husband aso nv say anything so wat makes u think tat u can comment abt it n insult me? We r in this forum to share NOT coming for the purpose of insulting ppl as u haf NO RITE to do so.:nah:

 

[LoVeS]

To my Dear Loves & BornFree ..

Can we end tis amicably? Since BornFree hv read the rules & Loves hv made her points.. Lets forget the previous post..Lets leave it all behind us.. Forgive & Forget/Forget or Forgive..:we2cool:Like nt shiok lei.. I mean it doesnt look gd if our newbie read it.. PEACE.. **Hugs** :wong24:

Anyone wanna share their dream wedding? :001_302:

My gf told me, recently she went to the Zoo n saw a couple having their wedding there.. The couple ride an Elephant.. Cool huh... :wesmile:

Ger do u knw so far wat did he insult me?

Man, what a materialist. Maybe you should have chosen someone who had the means to pay for a grand wedding."

Obviously when you exchanged vows with your husband, you left out the "for better, for worse, for richer for poorer" part.

Once again, the bubbles of love are replaced by bubbles of want and greed.

It seems to me that you're not even mature enough to be an adult, much less a wife and a parent.

You, madame, do not understand the meaning of true love.

it's pretty obvious that you're an extremely self-centered person

I'm surprised you even managed to find someone to form a union with.

Harbouring regret over such petty issues is just plain childish.

All those above in red r wat he insulted me which he dun even feel sorry abt it when my husband didnt comment anything SO why should i get insulted till such extend by him for nothing when he dun even knw me at all? Do i OWED him? Given to anyone for been insulted by him wif those above how to forgive and forget when he is nt even feeling sorry for the insults he said which is WHY i am so pissed off. Ger do u like it if those above sum1 say it to u? U will calm n cool over it? If in the 1st place he didnt insult me on his 1st post on tis thread i would haf cool over this matter BUT he did n continue to do so.

I been in this forum for so long no one will behave the way he is n out of nothing tat is none of his concern yet insulting ppl until like tt. Even my dh is quite pissed off wif wat bornfree insulted me coz there's no need to do so n go insulting ppl watever he like or dislike. We come to forum to share info wif mummies who need help n i am more than willing to help ANYONE of them if it within things i knw BUT not to come forum bashing ppl wif words. So far did u see anyone do tat to others OR bashing me wif words? He is the only 1 n sumore haf joined not long wif less than 10 posts SO does it reflect gd on him?

 

[JiaMin]

To bornfree..


You claim that she is immature and childish i think you are far more childish and immature then anyone i have seen so far.. To think that you are such a person with such a foul mouth.. Furthermore not to add that you have such low EQ on the things you have said and the words you have spilled.. From the way you have replied makes people feel that what kind of self-centered and irrational human being you are like being insulting to people and criticizing their lives... If you say that what you say is who you are like 0% EQ and foul mouth etc, then so be it.. but please.. bring this to someone who love you dearly and treat you nicely and not to people who you do not know... you know why.. because only people who love you will oversee your shortcomings.. and why i say not here.. is because we DON"T LOVE and we DON"T ENTERTAIN foul mouthers like you...

Jealously is just a taste away from a tinge of sweetness.. GET IT??

Erm just wondering if someone who has a foul mouth like you can be in a business.. i wonder how good can it get.. but i guess you are simply another empty shell...

Before you rebuke on the things i have said.. please consider the amount of harm you have done to my friend.. The things you have said to her and the insults you have thrown over to her and her blog.. If you are going to get defensive and rebuke me with reasons and stuff.. please think before you say anything because whatever you are saying reflect on what kind of person you are.. and another plus point.. If you are going to say that i am insulting you or blah blah blah.. let me tell you something... I am NOT insulting.. I am STATING THE FACTS..

 

[Porukadotzu]

i wanted to walk down the aisle of church..but my dh buddhist leh..n celebrate on the sea..but i haf grandparents..so cant oso..:embarrassed:
celebrated my weddin dinner in a ballroom...but everythin was so rush...zzz

hi xue, you're quite the same as me :001_302:, my hb also non christ so need to respect his fam oso, so instead walk down the aisle of church we walk down the aisle of a small conference rm in hotel haha. half a song already reach the priest.. :tlaugh:

 

[Porukadotzu]

Man, what a materialist. Maybe you should have chosen someone who had the means to pay for a grand wedding.

sumtimes girls have such a over the top of their heads kinda dreams..but if compared to reality most of us can adjust well enough and found happiness thou maybe only 60 - 80% as close as the real one...and I think it's not a materialist thinking, its just a dream thou...

The main idea of this thread was, to remember and to cherish our childhood dreams about a wedding but compared to reality and condition now are we still feel happy about it??

 

[Porukadotzu]

To bornfree..


You claim that she is immature and childish i think you are far more childish and immature then anyone i have seen so far.. To think that you are such a person with such a foul mouth.. Furthermore not to add that you have such low EQ on the things you have said and the words you have spilled.. From the way you have replied makes people feel that what kind of self-centered and irrational human being you are like being insulting to people and criticizing their lives... If you say that what you say is who you are like 0% EQ and foul mouth etc, then so be it.. but please.. bring this to someone who love you dearly and treat you nicely and not to people who you do not know... you know why.. because only people who love you will oversee your shortcomings.. and why i say not here.. is because we DON"T LOVE and we DON"T ENTERTAIN foul mouthers like you...

Jealously is just a taste away from a tinge of sweetness.. GET IT??

Erm just wondering if someone who has a foul mouth like you can be in a business.. i wonder how good can it get.. but i guess you are simply another empty shell...

Before you rebuke on the things i have said.. please consider the amount of harm you have done to my friend.. The things you have said to her and the insults you have thrown over to her and her blog.. If you are going to get defensive and rebuke me with reasons and stuff.. please think before you say anything because whatever you are saying reflect on what kind of person you are.. and another plus point.. If you are going to say that i am insulting you or blah blah blah.. let me tell you something... I am NOT insulting.. I am STATING THE FACTS..

I think we better just read Born Free's comment, dun take it to heart thou..specially if we didn't feel that we materialist or sumtin..

this person speaking of his/hers mind, while Loves also have the right to speak her mind and make statements also...

so afterall, just treat it like pro- and cons....

and please go back to the main thread tittle ..hahhaa..:tlaugh::tlaugh:

 

[-SRI-]

Ger do u knw so far wat did he insult me?

Man, what a materialist. Maybe you should have chosen someone who had the means to pay for a grand wedding."

Obviously when you exchanged vows with your husband, you left out the "for better, for worse, for richer for poorer" part.

Once again, the bubbles of love are replaced by bubbles of want and greed.

It seems to me that you're not even mature enough to be an adult, much less a wife and a parent.

You, madame, do not understand the meaning of true love.

it's pretty obvious that you're an extremely self-centered person

I'm surprised you even managed to find someone to form a union with.

Harbouring regret over such petty issues is just plain childish.

All those above in red r wat he insulted me which he dun even feel sorry abt it when my husband didnt comment anything SO why should i get insulted till such extend by him for nothing when he dun even knw me at all? Do i OWED him? Given to anyone for been insulted by him wif those above how to forgive and forget when he is nt even feeling sorry for the insults he said which is WHY i am so pissed off. Ger do u like it if those above sum1 say it to u? U will calm n cool over it? If in the 1st place he didnt insult me on his 1st post on tis thread i would haf cool over this matter BUT he did n continue to do so.

I been in this forum for so long no one will behave the way he is n out of nothing tat is none of his concern yet insulting ppl until like tt. Even my dh is quite pissed off wif wat bornfree insulted me coz there's no need to do so n go insulting ppl watever he like or dislike. We come to forum to share info wif mummies who need help n i am more than willing to help ANYONE of them if it within things i knw BUT not to come forum bashing ppl wif words. So far did u see anyone do tat to others OR bashing me wif words? He is the only 1 n sumore haf joined not long wif less than 10 posts SO does it reflect gd on him?

I noe hw u feel Loves.. I really do.. U noe my cases abit like tt.. gt some more which i dun tell..haiz... Juz felt weird.... nt shiok lei if ppl wrote like tt... I read oso i don feel like its a forum....i worry I'll offend the mummies here in future wit my posting..I first time be in a forum...Was surprised to see tis happen...Nw I think did i ever offend u mummies or nt? If I did pardon me hor.. cz sometimes I luvs to joke ard..juz make fun...but i mean no harm... Some hw I tink he's frm different country..maybe different country hv different way of thinking & forum rules?? hmm.. i oso nt sure... When BornFree mentioned abt Singlish...I ignored it..Tis is Spore forum rite..i tink most of u can understand Singlish rite...:001_302: I only use proper english when i in sch & work..:tlaugh:

Ah....Can we asked admin Edy help to explain to him the rules??? Help to solve tis issue? I tink tt the best... Since he's the one managed it rite? Moderators I nt sure wat their roles...I nt yet explore tis forum...:embarrassed:Lucky u gt mention abt the rules.. hahaha..straightaway i search for it sia......:001_302: if nt i wont noe...

I go to forum juz to share my experience eventhough its nt much..tis my 1st pregnancy ma.. wanna to get to noe more new frens, learnt n gain new knowledge frm u mummies...nt to offend or make foes.... Cheers to everyone here!!!

 

[-SRI-]

Actually Poru..been wanting to ask u tis qns.. hehehe... Hmm... u Indonesia rite? so u Christian? cz u talk abt walking dwn the aisle in church.. i tot u muslim lei.. hahahaha... Ur bb is a gal rite.. so muz name her wit chinese name? or both chinese n christian name?