Porukadotzu
Active Member
Morning all, It's raining today, so boss not yet around hehe, use this chance to check out this forum again.. So Loves, basically you and i have the same thinking about teaching teens about moral as the base and the meaning of love and responsibility..right? I know that many many teens wouldn't even listen to parents talking, I was like that once, and I guess we are all during teens were like that too....but somehow, it is not useless for parents to keep reminding their kids and monitoring them as in pay attention on what are the teens doing, I was once found this as annoying (really!) but in the end somehow I felt that my parents really did paying attention for me and my life and whatever I do, this leads me to always re-think of any action i wanna make....It's like, maybe over thousands words of wisdom that pass through my ears but one or two words are really hanging and stays on my head for good.... So this is what I'm trying to say....parents, don't be tired or frustrated to talk with your kids...not by force but by parents love...somehow good words really can plant something in stubborn head, do it over and over again even thou they won't listen now but human will naturally set this as an alarm.....watch over them, but not intimidate them....and give the trust on their shoulder to think the best not just for themselves but for parents feeling, and society feeling towards them.... Ofcoz I agree in safe sex better than unwanted pregnancy worse leads to abortion or child abandon, But I think parents to buy condoms for their kids after teaching them about moral and responsibility is just contradict....sorry if you found it insulting, but it is sounds like parents giving a free ticket to something bad. They are still teens, it's like getting them box of candy and say in case they feel hungry, it's something tempting to try on, teens would think that their parents support them after the long boring talk about no sex (but safe sex ok mah?).....how can parents hope for responsibility from teens if parents equipped the kids with these things? I know that it's depends on the kids personality to accept each teaching and it's up to them to live their life, but it's also parent's responsibility to plant this knowledge and make sure its working well. Sex before or after marriage, is up to individual opinion if they feel close to each religion or maybe want to save the best for last or some other reasons...its human rights, I'm not against it as long as both are adult enough to be responsible on whatever you stands for, but I will against it if Teenagers doing this out of curiosity. And when are they consider adult enough? well after they finish whatever education and can make a living for themselves atleast buy the condom using their own money! ha!... so there I said it....*peace*
ancing_tongue: oh ya..i notice if boy they closer to their mum..if gal, closer to their dad..... ur boy closer to u than to ur HB??