Starsapphire
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Hi all,
I have recently gone for an overseas conference and met one of my friends there. Let’s call him Mr Y. We haven’t met for quite some time. I know that he is married to a lady about 10-12 years his junior. I got to know his wife (Mrs Y) recently during a meet up with our other friends. He is currently in his mid 40s and is very well to do because of his profession and living comfortably (3-storey private house, BMW, etc.). During the conference, I couldn’t help noticing that he kept gravitating towards a particular local lady at the conference. Let’s call her Ms N. She was young and attractive, I must say. She could be a few years younger than his wife. She was also mingling around freely with the local men in the conference. Mr Y took many photos with her with both of them posing as if they were close friends. I’ve also seen Mr Y‘s hands around her back, waist, arm and neck at times. During one of the dinners at the hotel’s resort, I saw them chit chatting happily at a corner and then they went away together from the crowd. Being a bit curious, I followed them from a far distance. Both of them went to a dark, secluded area in the resort near the beach. They sat down by a deck chair behind some trees and giggled away. I moved up closer from behind but I dare not really look any closer. At one instant, I was shocked to hear her moaning (quite loudly) when they stopped talking. I couldn’t really hear the conversation clearly but it was clear as to what was happening. Don’t need a genius to figure this out! I was very shocked. I thought Mr Y was of a reputable character given his credentials and profession. Feeling disgusted, I walked back to the dinner crowd. But that was not it! Next morning, I woke up early for my usual morning jog. When I opened my hotel room door, I saw Ms N coming out from Mr Y’s room! She was still wearing the dinner tank tube blouse and skirt she was wearing last night and she just walked quickly back into her room and pretended she didn’t see me. I was speechless. The conference attendees were also given time off to go for a snorkeling trip and a yacht ride to a nearby island. Mr Y and Ms N were not together all the time but some of the time especially when they got into the sea together for snorkeling. They were again posing happily together on the deck and in the water as if they were a couple. She was wearing a bikini this time and many people this time already started their gossip that she is “salivating” over Mr Y and he is happily drinking her “saliva.” Mr and Mrs Y have a 1-yr old baby now and this incident happened about 2-3 months before Mrs Y got pregnant. But I know Mr Y has long been known to be a woman-pleaser/charmer and is popular among ladies. He goes for overseas conferences several times a year. I am sure this was not the 1st or the last time he has been fooling around.
My questions are:
· I feel really disgusted. I’m in a dilemma now. I know Mrs Y and now whenever I see her, I feel that I have betrayed her for not telling her about her husband. Should I tell Mrs Y? I really cannot take this burden anymore because whenever I see Mr Y, I feel really annoyed. When I see Mrs Y I feel so guilty! I hate adulterous people! They ruin family and the lives of their loved ones!
· What would you do? I have some of the photos from the conference which showed Mr Y and Ms N together and I know I am not alone in witnessing their act. I am not sure these photos will convince Mrs Y about her husband’s fling or it may backfire against me. To some, the photos may be “mild” but to me and the rest who have seen their “real act” and those who are a little more conservative, this will be unacceptable.
· How would you feel if your own husband treats another woman like that? If this happens to you, would you want your friend to tell you? Or is ignorance bliss?
I have recently gone for an overseas conference and met one of my friends there. Let’s call him Mr Y. We haven’t met for quite some time. I know that he is married to a lady about 10-12 years his junior. I got to know his wife (Mrs Y) recently during a meet up with our other friends. He is currently in his mid 40s and is very well to do because of his profession and living comfortably (3-storey private house, BMW, etc.). During the conference, I couldn’t help noticing that he kept gravitating towards a particular local lady at the conference. Let’s call her Ms N. She was young and attractive, I must say. She could be a few years younger than his wife. She was also mingling around freely with the local men in the conference. Mr Y took many photos with her with both of them posing as if they were close friends. I’ve also seen Mr Y‘s hands around her back, waist, arm and neck at times. During one of the dinners at the hotel’s resort, I saw them chit chatting happily at a corner and then they went away together from the crowd. Being a bit curious, I followed them from a far distance. Both of them went to a dark, secluded area in the resort near the beach. They sat down by a deck chair behind some trees and giggled away. I moved up closer from behind but I dare not really look any closer. At one instant, I was shocked to hear her moaning (quite loudly) when they stopped talking. I couldn’t really hear the conversation clearly but it was clear as to what was happening. Don’t need a genius to figure this out! I was very shocked. I thought Mr Y was of a reputable character given his credentials and profession. Feeling disgusted, I walked back to the dinner crowd. But that was not it! Next morning, I woke up early for my usual morning jog. When I opened my hotel room door, I saw Ms N coming out from Mr Y’s room! She was still wearing the dinner tank tube blouse and skirt she was wearing last night and she just walked quickly back into her room and pretended she didn’t see me. I was speechless. The conference attendees were also given time off to go for a snorkeling trip and a yacht ride to a nearby island. Mr Y and Ms N were not together all the time but some of the time especially when they got into the sea together for snorkeling. They were again posing happily together on the deck and in the water as if they were a couple. She was wearing a bikini this time and many people this time already started their gossip that she is “salivating” over Mr Y and he is happily drinking her “saliva.” Mr and Mrs Y have a 1-yr old baby now and this incident happened about 2-3 months before Mrs Y got pregnant. But I know Mr Y has long been known to be a woman-pleaser/charmer and is popular among ladies. He goes for overseas conferences several times a year. I am sure this was not the 1st or the last time he has been fooling around.
My questions are:
· I feel really disgusted. I’m in a dilemma now. I know Mrs Y and now whenever I see her, I feel that I have betrayed her for not telling her about her husband. Should I tell Mrs Y? I really cannot take this burden anymore because whenever I see Mr Y, I feel really annoyed. When I see Mrs Y I feel so guilty! I hate adulterous people! They ruin family and the lives of their loved ones!
· What would you do? I have some of the photos from the conference which showed Mr Y and Ms N together and I know I am not alone in witnessing their act. I am not sure these photos will convince Mrs Y about her husband’s fling or it may backfire against me. To some, the photos may be “mild” but to me and the rest who have seen their “real act” and those who are a little more conservative, this will be unacceptable.
· How would you feel if your own husband treats another woman like that? If this happens to you, would you want your friend to tell you? Or is ignorance bliss?
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