Ya, true! Cos already coping hard with the 1st one. Not to mention having another one and repeats the cycle again. LOL...not easy to look after 2 kids at same time...... haha better not have 2nd baby yet if you and your hubby are not ready, or at least wait till your 1st child grows up to kindergarten age, then he can require less help for his toileting and eating...... my in laws are looking after my elder son most of the week... becoz they dun wanna look after the younger son... usually an elder child tends to get jealous with little sibling due to all the attention... so must get elder son to learn to "sayang" and love his baby brother... we also try our best to shower care and concern for the elder son... PHEW !!