Recent content by Alfredyang

Hi I'm a single dad to 2 girls age 3 & 5. I experienced the same thing as u. The mum abandoned us. But I did not cling on hoping she will come back. What u must do is do your best as both a dad and mum to your kids. That's the best u can give them. Move on with life. I am proud to say I have...

Haha when is the next one? so looking forward..... maybe organize a picnic for the next meet up.......

Don't get too bothered by how people view us. I too attract a lot of stares whenever I bring my girls out with me slinging my 3yr old (her name is Emma) and pushing the pram with my 6mths old in it (her name is Glenna). Sometimes strangers would walk up and try to play with Glenna seeing her so...

Marrying him might give your son a complete home physically but in fact its going to be a mental torture for both u and your child when both parents quarrel or when he is not in a good mood. Who knows he might even vent his anger on your child. Doesn't mean that in future if ever u do marry and...

If there is a need to go to court I will fight with her at all cost. Anyway I got many witness to prove that she abandoned the girls in the first place. I think u have to talk things out with your mum. Let her understand the situation. Let her know that sometimes it might not be a good thing to...

Since his surname is not in the BC it should be easier to deal with. U just have to be determine enough not to agree on any meetings with him or let him see your child. It is not necessary to move overseas. over time I believe he will give up after so many failed attempt. There is no need to...

Hi, u have to ask yourself a few questions first. 1: Do u still have feeling for him? 2: If yes do u think there is a chance for u to get back together with him? 3: Do u think he really loves your child? 4: Can he be a responsible father? In my point of view, if u dun have any feelings for...

Haha really all girls huh? Lucky Jovier. Ya rem jio me too ar.

Hi tried adding on facebook but no result found. anyway, can add me too. my email add is ayzh@hotmail.com or can sms me on 83822901. Hope can know more single parents here.

Haha of cos u lah.... Zhu.....

Hi. Apparently, I found out that she has a man outside already. So no point talking to her. I dun wish for my kids to have an irresponsible mum. Although I may still love her but I can't bring myself to forgive her. My console is that my girls have grown more attached to me than before...

Hi all, thanks alot for your concern......

i am on mc for now as i under went 2 surgeries in oct and nov and now actually recuperating at home. i will look for a babysitter for them once i am fully recovered.

Thanks. I am coping well. only thing my 3yrs old girl now cries easily even when i told her its time to sleep. my guess is that she feels she lost her mum's love. now i dun even scold her for any mistake she done which i did in the past. Only thing i can't cope is my emotion. every now and then...

Hi everyone, I'm a dad of 3 girls age 8yrs, 3yrs and 5mths. the eldest is with my ex wife. the other 2 r produced by my gf and i who just abandoned us last week. I know this is a site for mummy but i hope to find some support group for single parents through here. currently i am taking care of...