Sorry to say if there is 1st time, there bound to be 2nd, 3rd and 4th time. Same situation as my cousin whose hubby did that to her but after the 3rd affair and all our persuadation, she finally agreed to divorce him for good and get the custody of their 2 kids. Anyway hope your hubby will...
I still maintain my weight, diet and do some exercise whenever i am free. I still dress up well, make up and take care of my appearance. I admire those woman who still can maintain and have a sense of elegance with them even they are age 30+, 40+ or 50+
Thats part and parcel in life unless you decide you are gonna be a full time mum or have a very rich husband who dont need you to work outside. But when you see the baby after he/she is born out, you will feel all your pain and suffering is nothing and worth it.
Luckily for me, my mother look after my kids. I will pay her monthly allowance and on weekends, kids will stay with us. If me and husband need to go oversea, we can leave the kids under my mother's care.
My hubby pay for most of the things and give me allowances for buying household things like food. So i mostly save my salary and spend it on shopping and kids.
Maybe its advertisement but I dont bother about that. About 2 mths back, I went with my best friend to see her and seek her expertise and I would say she is really accurate for both of us.
I ever had similar experience as you. My ex maid is so lazy, make alot of mistakes. I give her chances after chances for 6 months and still no improvment. Thats when I send her back to agency and we decided we do not want to engage a maid anymore.