The seller is wrong to mislead you but I would say its also partly your own fault. I wonder how many people in this world actually buy something without checking the product?
Dont you want to be with your husband at all times and isnt it a risk to leave him there alone(long distance relationship)? I feel you should give yourself and also your husband a chance first. Try to go there and experience it and try it first before you make a decision.
Re: Does your hubby let U take control on his finance & how far he letting U Control
He just keep a certain sum for his daily expenses, food and transport. The rest he will tt to my account. If he need extra $, he will let me know and I will tt to him if the reason is valid.