just go family court to file for your wife n child maintenance. Dun think too much. One step at a time. Once ur maintenance is fixed, u can decide to work, divorce. Focus on ur maintenance n child. God bless u
if u hv decided to end marriage, Step 1 maintenance for wife n children. Once maintenance is secured, u will b able to think much clearer as to u want to work or carry on e marriage. It will also b 100% true that u will b able to cope w kids much better when u secure ur maintenance