Recent content by Tristie

If you want, i would be glad to have a chat with you over a cup of coffee someday, take care & smile. :) Hi Luveleen, I would be glad to meet you if you want to... I dun mind actually, i guess wat we both need now are friends, perhaps new ones. Is there anyway i can contact you ?

Well.... Its already been 3 yrs and i guess i sort of gotten used to the loneliness. Moving on ?? How to ? Can i still ? Its silly isnt it, to give up over such a stupid reason or excuse if you call it this way... *sigh....

My MIL is taking care in the day while both of us work. If we were to live seperate most probably she will stay at her mom place. If the kids were to continue staying there wont she be seeing them most of the time while i am at the losing end ?? Getting a helper is not really a good choice as we...

I didnt really know abt seperation... We had not been sleeping on the same bed for 3 yrs already, and had not been intimate ever since... Does that count as seperated coz i consulted a lawyer and she says if 3 yrs not had sex you dun need to file for seperation, its immediate divorce... Or are...

Actually we went for counselling before, after afew sessions she told me and the counsellor its pointless and we stopped since.... No matter what mistakes she had done i always forgive and forget... This time its not a very serious thing as if i got caught cheating, i only tried to do smt for...

Dear jiajia, I truely envy your husband, at least he still "gets it" from you... Not me, not anymore... Yes indeed i truely love my wife alot, but this love is juz one sided... I received quite some comments for me to move on but i seriously cant and dunno how to... There are really times when...

I apologise to all... I think i totally lost my cool back there... Sorry.... I think i am badly affected till i dunno wat i am saying anymore...

I wouldnt wanna start a war with all of you here, but sadly its a bit difficult to say how i am feeling now. My love may be strong but do you know how i hv suffered the past 3 yrs ?? Did you know wat she said to me before and wat she wanted ?? She once told me that we are only legally married on...

Actually... I hv pretty much resigned to my fate Even if i wanna move on, its better i find someone new to do so rite ? I do hope i meet someone... Being alone is scary... I already been alone for 3 yrs... 3 yrs is a very long time... I think i will be scolded by some of you... Doesnt know wat...

Thanks all... I know life is short, play hard.... But then i am not the kind of person who does tit for tat stuff, i guess its juz not my nature. Seriously i do wanna go out sometimes, its juz that i cant find someone for company. Moreover i want to bond with my kids, if i were to go out wont i...

Dear all, Thank you for your comments and advices, i really truely appreciate all of them. I am here to make friends, not enemies... Pls do not take my comments too seriously... Many ppl who knew my situation, most of them would tell me to move on... Somehow i feel that it all comes down to...

Hi ness... Erm.... I dun get it when you say why i think so much. I could go out, but then again i will be alone by myself... My friends and colleagues dun go out at nite and another factor to consider is the dough.... I cant afford to spend as my salary is not so high... I am even thinking of...

I would like to ask this qns to those who had gone thru the D before... To what extent or degree would you consider having an affair, an affair ?? Does juz seeing someone else considered an affair ? Does exchanging intimate msg considered an affair ? Or must he/she had done the deed, that would...

Till now, i still cannot figure out why since she so disagrees and disapproved of me opening the shop, then why she still showed support when i asked her to view it ? She even adviced me how to do the interiors, the renovation and stuff... Then after all is done, all payment made and we even...

Well... I gave up the shop before the lease is due and i had totally stopped all activities. Now i am juz concentrating on my job. She said now she only have her career and nite class on her mind and nothing else. No time for love and all those nonsense crap... She even said all this is...