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    Confinement lady NIGHTMARE

    i find all the confinement ladies are 'suckers'. They know they are in demand mah... but I find them over board too. When they come, we don;t even know if they are good or not, straight away they expect us to give them 'ang pao'. And if we have maids, worse still, theymade use of our maids. I...
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    Any bad experience with confinement ladies?

    mirage - how much did u pay for Li Qing. $2.2 k or 2.3k? In Msia ringgit (exch rate 2.38) , her pay can be as good as some managers working in KLCC, Msia. But those need degree/ tertiary educ. (Note : Her pay rate is also base on 28 days and need to plus to/fro ang pow and taxi fare, 3 meals...
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    Need recommendation

    For stay-in CL/nanny, you also need to consider their meals eg. breakfast, dinner, water bill, shampoo/toothpaste (which my cousin provide for his recent case), usage of detergent which they used to wash theirown clothing(cost is on us so somewill not save for you for the water and detergent...
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    Hair Fall after Pregnancy

    I went for hair spa and Yun NAm it helps. For Yun Nam it was very expensive and after u sign the package the the person in charge who suppose to do the services for u, will always be busy and ask someone else to do for u (even though u have made advance bookings). And they like to hard sell, eg...
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    Any bad experience with confinement ladies?

    elaine01- Like I say, it is up to individual. An offer is made and if u accept it, then a deal is clinched. You even sent me a personal email to say u willing to pay $3k or more, then I believe from your perspective that is the fair value service $3k fee. I quote you an eg. that there are people...
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    Any bad experience with confinement ladies?

    Liqing now asking for 2.3k? wow, I am shock. Last year, when I called her, she is asking only $2.1k and on top, she wants to & fro angpow and to &fro taxi fare. Anyway, its demand and supply and offer and acceptance theories. If demand is more than supply and people are willing to pay, then we...
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    how much money do your give your mom/dad?

    I give $1000. She stays with me from Mon to Fri to look after the kids and house. Once i leave for work each morning, the house belongs to her. I wish I can give more but I cannot afford. If I put in infant care, its about $1.6-1.7k....but for my mom, she covers everything...eg. make sure the...
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    Any bad experience with confinement ladies?

    Elaine, yes agree with u. Their rates also keep going up.Furthermore, current exch rate 2.38! There is one lion appetite - Liqing asking for $2200 (and must cover her taxi fare to & fro) I read from one daddy bad experience...I feel so sorry for him. Not sure why people still give reommendation.
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    Any bad experience with confinement ladies?

    There is one known as Ah Lian (dark and short hair ...look like late 50s) . She was recommended by a confinement lady called GuiHua for $1900k per mth. She told me she has >10 yrs experience but performance is damn lousy. MAybe old already. I bf my baby and he poo a few tijme sper day. She did...
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    HELP! SHould I buy a baby monitor??

    Buy! I am currently using the Philips brand and never regret buying.
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    Help! I don't want tube feeding

    Sometime trust your own instinct since u are the parent. I came across doc who give my kid/ aged parent(s) unnecessary instructions. They base on what they see as of now and make the judegment. But we see our kids everyday and hr....we should know best. Of course, there are some doc are so...
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    CONFINEMENT LADY RATEs

    $1.8k -$1.9k is reasonable. Some asked for more than $2k...which I think too expensive. Because if we have never use them before we may not know if they are good or bad and its all depend on words of mouth. I came across some who demand $2k and yet they cannot perform. I wanted to sack her but...
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    My baby going to be 10 months old le BUT cannot really sit by himself or crawl

    Do you mean cannot sit independently without any support? My 1st child was quite chubby, huge and has a big buttock so he couldn't really sit well at 10mth also. I was abit worried but notihing went wrong. After he started to learn how to sit without support, then walked, then run...etc I wish...
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    CONFINEMENT LADY RATEs

    if non- Cny period, it is TOO expensive lah... Sometime I feel the confinement ladies are really too much.. From $1800 in 2007, to $1900-2000 in 2008, then $2.2k then $2.4k... Keep going up.. I don;t mind if they are goof but some only so-so but want premium price. The more we give in, the more...
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    Do u wake ur newborn (2 weeks old) up to feed?

    Yes, I recalled a nurse in Mount A told me that we need to wake them up for milk and not let them oversleep. Its part of brain growth also. So when I reached, I set alarm and fed my baby every 3 hrs (on formula milk). Then when I gave birth to my 2nd child in Mount E, the pd told me it is ok to...
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