Monogamy should not be expected from Sg guy, or from any guy for that matter.
A guy after marriage is still a guy, is really a matter of men's or women's perspective.
If my statement is accepted, do u still want to be married?
Just abort, and treat as bad nightmare.
Don't need to ponder about baby look alike or not, blood group not consistent, that alone is a giveaway.
Hubby gangster type.. u think will ever be reasonable / accommodating / compassionate?
As a guy, this is my suggestion.
Do not be obsessed with your hubby actions.
The more u show your insecurity, the more unattractive u will be to him.
Instead, reflect on your life and goals.
Focus on beng a chiobu that will be appealing to guys.
It's common to see women, once married, take...
Let's not try to badmouth anyone here.
Imagine if your lady friend decides to throw in the towel and both of them decide to patch back.
Do u tink u can remain a family friend if nasty things were said in the past?
We all might think the guy is bad, My own experience is that some guys are simply...
Firstly, marriage takes 2 hands to clap. If one party wants out, it's between the 2 of them. There are many reasons why marriages fail. Outsiders can't force anyone to carry on loving others. so let's not assume that marriages die die must last till the end. In my opinion, whoever files for the...
Due to divorce around May? He is only separated now? From Filing to Decree Absolute Nesi takes minimum 7 months uncontested. Because u are a PR, the baby will likely follow your citizenship already? U have to face reality that this is going to be a long process to get PR, and eventually SC.
TS,
I think u really need to ponder over the following questions.
Do you think you own him?
Does he owe you?
Is he is accountable to you? Must explain everything to you?
Do you treat your frens the same way?
If u are treating him worse than u treat your friends, is that being fair to him?
Yes.. even though u are a spouse, a mom, u shd still be attractive to guys.
Don't be a naggy frustrated aunty who thinks the whole world owes you.
Be pretty, confident, and relevant to today's environment.
Be happy for yourself, not derive happiness from others.
U have to learn to be independent, and move on with your life, rather than dwell on the past, or hope for something that is unlikely to happen.
It is not easy from my own experience.
Find a hobby, plan a holiday, do a makeover, to be a desirable woman once again.
Go Gym with frens, don't find...
You will have a much happier life if u have zero expectations from your spouse.
Try to focus on achieving your own happiness by yourself rather than expect others to match your expectations.
I think u need to step back and reflect about this whole issue.
Firstly, I believe that all kids should always be with the mom. This is a the natural order of things.
She may not provide the BEST environment, she may not even be a good mom, but that does not mean the kid should be separated...
I am sorry to hear that the marriage has failed. Not all marriages are meant to be. It's best not to assign blame to anyone. Instead, just focus on a new future ahead.
The child will be more concerned about his own life and future rather than be engrossed with the parent's past. Don't worry...
Getting this lady out of the picture, does not necessarily mean he will go back to you.
His feelings for her is between him and her, his feeling for you is between him and you.
If u cannot accept him for who he is now, then u have to plan out both scenarios, life with a shared him, or a life...