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    Husband admit

    Monogamy should not be expected from Sg guy, or from any guy for that matter. A guy after marriage is still a guy, is really a matter of men's or women's perspective. If my statement is accepted, do u still want to be married?
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    a very huge issue

    Just abort, and treat as bad nightmare. Don't need to ponder about baby look alike or not, blood group not consistent, that alone is a giveaway. Hubby gangster type.. u think will ever be reasonable / accommodating / compassionate?
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    how to improve relationship

    As a guy, this is my suggestion. Do not be obsessed with your hubby actions. The more u show your insecurity, the more unattractive u will be to him. Instead, reflect on your life and goals. Focus on beng a chiobu that will be appealing to guys. It's common to see women, once married, take...
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    How to do divorce without lawyer

    https://www.familyjusticecourts.gov.sg/Common/Pages/Divorce.aspx
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    Need Advice for Emotionally Battered Stay Home Mum

    Let's not try to badmouth anyone here. Imagine if your lady friend decides to throw in the towel and both of them decide to patch back. Do u tink u can remain a family friend if nasty things were said in the past? We all might think the guy is bad, My own experience is that some guys are simply...
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    Need Advice for Emotionally Battered Stay Home Mum

    Firstly, marriage takes 2 hands to clap. If one party wants out, it's between the 2 of them. There are many reasons why marriages fail. Outsiders can't force anyone to carry on loving others. so let's not assume that marriages die die must last till the end. In my opinion, whoever files for the...
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    Need help!! Baby has no identity!

    http://www.ica.gov.sg/page.aspx?pageid=151&secid=150
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    Need help!! Baby has no identity!

    Due to divorce around May? He is only separated now? From Filing to Decree Absolute Nesi takes minimum 7 months uncontested. Because u are a PR, the baby will likely follow your citizenship already? U have to face reality that this is going to be a long process to get PR, and eventually SC.
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    my hubby looks like have change after our baby is born

    TS, I think u really need to ponder over the following questions. Do you think you own him? Does he owe you? Is he is accountable to you? Must explain everything to you? Do you treat your frens the same way? If u are treating him worse than u treat your friends, is that being fair to him?
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    my hubby looks like have change after our baby is born

    He's your hubby not your child, AsiaOne Diva News Don't make this mistake.
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    my hubby looks like have change after our baby is born

    Yes.. even though u are a spouse, a mom, u shd still be attractive to guys. Don't be a naggy frustrated aunty who thinks the whole world owes you. Be pretty, confident, and relevant to today's environment. Be happy for yourself, not derive happiness from others.
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    my hubby looks like have change after our baby is born

    Whatever issues exist, my advice is .. do not forget that u are still a woman that needs to have confidence and maintenance.
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    Trust issue and seems like its not working out anymore

    He's your hubby not your child, AsiaOne Diva News U need to understand this topic if u want to salvage your marriage.
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    Relationship Advice

    U have to learn to be independent, and move on with your life, rather than dwell on the past, or hope for something that is unlikely to happen. It is not easy from my own experience. Find a hobby, plan a holiday, do a makeover, to be a desirable woman once again. Go Gym with frens, don't find...
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    Losing faith

    You will have a much happier life if u have zero expectations from your spouse. Try to focus on achieving your own happiness by yourself rather than expect others to match your expectations.
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    Just want to be a father

    I think u need to step back and reflect about this whole issue. Firstly, I believe that all kids should always be with the mom. This is a the natural order of things. She may not provide the BEST environment, she may not even be a good mom, but that does not mean the kid should be separated...
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    Divorcing but legal advice needed

    I am sorry to hear that the marriage has failed. Not all marriages are meant to be. It's best not to assign blame to anyone. Instead, just focus on a new future ahead. The child will be more concerned about his own life and future rather than be engrossed with the parent's past. Don't worry...
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    Divorcing but legal advice needed

    U may not agree that the kid goes out with him and someone else, but that is not deemed by any judge as unreasonable.
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    Relationship problems

    Getting this lady out of the picture, does not necessarily mean he will go back to you. His feelings for her is between him and her, his feeling for you is between him and you. If u cannot accept him for who he is now, then u have to plan out both scenarios, life with a shared him, or a life...
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    Single Mother - But natural father want the child

    TS, just curious.. are u suggesting that upon birth, u do not want anything to do with the child? Perhaps share your thots here?
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