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    Social welfare report

    Hi, I am currently fighting for the Care and Control of my child with my ex hub. I also does not allow overnight access and overseas access to my child's papa as he is cohabiting with another woman. However, the court ask for a social welfare report to be done. Does any of you here have come...
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    does jobless means can't pay for maintenance?

    Hi, Can I know do you have court order for your ex visitation right? If yes, you can reject him. If no, then he still can bring your children out. But you need to give valid reason of you refuse him to bring your children out. Btw, have you file for your divorce? If you are not happy with his...
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    Any single parents outing?

    Me too. Also interested.
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    Care and control of child

    Hi, hope that someone here could help me or share with me their experience. My ex now want to fight for the care n control of our 2 years old child. He is currently cohabiting with his girlfriend, he has no relatives in Singapore. He is a Sg PR My parents and I have been taking care of...
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    Relationship of your ex-spouse with your child?

    Hi, Very trouble here. Need to here advice from u all. My ex wanted to bring our child out with his gf and I request for supervise access. Then he refuse and going to court to apply for unsupervised access. Our child is only 2. Her daily routine are mostly taken care by me and my helper. My ex...
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    Kid Surname possible to change after divorce?

    Congrats. Can share how do you obtain sole custody? Btw, how long is your whole divorce procedure? I am still waiting for the hearing date for ancillary matters.
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    feeling lonely...

    Youknowsue, I will normally watch drama, read books or newspaper, do my facial mask etc after my child goes to bed. When my girl is awake, I will try to chant prayers with her and she enjoys it. Can you imagine at the age of 2 she want me to chant heart sutra to her everynight before she...
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    feeling lonely...

    Hi, Can share more about your success? Like to be inspire by your successful story. How old is your boy now? Did your ex visit him? How do you manage the visitation issue?
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    feeling lonely...

    You have think too much. Don't think so much. You never know what is ahead of you and your children. There may be many happy things coming up soon. Complete family? Aren't you and your children a complete family? As long as you are confident, your children will be too.
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    feeling lonely...

    My opinion is, why want to know he will regret or not? Why not just live for yourself? If you keep looking at will he regret? Keep recalling or thinking of the good old times. Keep pondering on the lost that your girl cannot have a complete family etc. Then it is difficult for you to move on...
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    feeling lonely...

    Lonely? Girl, you can feel lonely too when you are in a marriage. This shows that you have been relying on this man too much in the past. Like what I mention previously. Live for yourself, don't recall of the olden days. Move on and embrace all things that is coming. Who knows, there may be many...
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    feeling lonely...

    Hi, At the initial stage after my ex left me I feel lost and lonely too. But you have to accept the fact that he has left you. Don't look back and don't recall those times that you are together. That will hurt you more. Just move on and look forward. I should be considered lucky. I have very...
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    what is considered 'reasonable' terms

    Hi, I have a situation here. Please give me some advice. My ex has list down his requirement for Child issue. My ex is a PR, he request to bring our child 3x per year to visit his parents which is residing across the causeway. But my stand is the child is still very young and also...
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    Relationship of your ex-spouse with your child?

    Hi alice47, Thanks for sharing. I am no sure can I be as wise as you. I am thinking if your ex-spouse can be in such a good relationship with you and you still meet up together like a family why don't he come back and really give a complete family to the child. Don't you think he is selfish...
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    Any good & sincere Lawyer to recommend for divorce/separation

    Hmm... Play date at airport is too far for me :) I stay at north. Housing issue: try your best to get the house. You need it for you and your child. I heard that there are cases where the judge will get the husband to transfer his share of the house to the wife. Let your lawyer / judge know...
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    Any good & sincere Lawyer to recommend for divorce/separation

    Hi Homemaker, How was your mediation? I understand how you feel. I intend to takeover my ex-spouse share of the flat. But after taking over, it will be a financial burden to me although I have a stable income. But I intend to ask for more maintenance if possible to cover my future...
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    what is considered 'reasonable' terms

    I find the price is reasonable. Mine is also +- 5 to 6k. All I could say is divorce is both financially and emotionally taxing. Btw, if you are the one that file for D. You can claim part of your lawyer fee from your spouse. Which is what I am doing now.
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    what is considered 'reasonable' terms

    4-5k is for the D only or include ancillary matter? If both should be ok, if D only then I think it's ex.
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    what is considered 'reasonable' terms

    Did u ask for no overnight access and no overseas access? I am asking for my ex to visit our child on Sunday only and no overnight and no overseas access. Not sure will I get my case or not, my D still at the interim stage.
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    Any good & sincere Lawyer to recommend for divorce/separation

    You mentioned that you are going for mediation. So your spouse has proposed something to you? Wether you can stay in the same house after seperation, it all depends on the agreement between you and your spouse. Are you buying over his share of the house or is he transferring his share of the...
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