I agree with Mami Jazz...the jealousy will not come so early. It will only hit when your 2nd bb starts to interact and becomes cuter as the days goes by. Jealousy will also be more obvious when they start to snatch toys and u have to decide how to handle rilvary too. Not easy but is a process...
I keep the toys with them. This is much easier than just commanding them to pick up the toys clean. You do it together and they'll do it more willingly and more fun. If they don't do it with my help, I'll not let them play with the toys for a while and they know I keep my words. Most of the...
Its cause and effect. He throws and u pick it up and he thinks it's fun so he'd do it again. Just ignore or distract him. After few times that he realise u're not responding, he'll find other things to do. It takes some training...
Delivered my 2nd ds in 4 hours without epidural. Painful and screaming towards the end but luckily he came out quick fast. I think if short labour still ok but if long labour better use epidural. Good luck!!