Hi Kaoru, I'm open to that. Would be good to be able to talk to pple in similar situations. Fortunately or unfortunately, most of my friends have never walked down this path before. Those who did, don't have kids, so things were much simpler for them.
Hi Princekitty, thanks. I'm aware of the HDB loan, but was hoping for a possibility that I can defer repayment of his CPF. With the change in CPF regs, I know that's possible, but just not sure what it takes for the judge to mk such a decision. And approx how much legal $ I would need to incur...
Hi Wanderful, I hope things work out between you and your wife. Communication is key, and don't let misgivings fester.
I found myself in your position (tables turned). After the birth of my son, my hb seemed to become almost "psychotic". He's a family man like you are, but he suddenly went to...
Thanks Mandy. Are you also at the start of proceedings? You sound very confident and prepared. :) For me, I seem very confident on the outside, but inside, a part of me wishes to dig a hole, bury myself in the ground, in the hope that somehow things will work themselves through. Sigh. But that's...
Hi. Happy to see this thread going on. Hope to get some advice from all of you.
I'd consulted a lawyer last wk, and he gave me some instructions on what to start preparing...my grounds for divorce, list of expenses etc. He said that he'll email me about our discussion, but up till now, I...
