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Haha! My nephew's na na is banana, his fav fruit.

Kylnn, I'm sorry to say but I think I'm cool if baby's first word is papa. I rather have baby repeatedly say 'papa' than 'grandma'. Right? Then again, I understand your situation. We just cannot stand our MILs. Therefore whatever that comes from her, it's no good. And fact is, it's really no...

OMG! Kylnn, are you my long lost twin?!! Hahah. We are so alike and our MILs are somewhat similiar. Except that she doesn't have keys to our house and I think you MIL is not as sly and behaves like a thief like mine. I think your MiL helps out with baby and some housework at your place? My bitch...

Hi! I'm thinking of going for IPL hair removal. Any good and reasonably priced recommendation? I used to go to Strip for Brazilian waxing until the lady recommended IPL but it's quite pricey though.

Oh ya, and if you are lucky enough not to stay with in-laws, remember not to pass them your house keys! Not even when you are on a holiday and wants someone to watch over the house. Once you pass to them, you can forget about having your keys and privacy back. I'm sure every corner of your house...

Agree, they will never treat you as a family because no matter what, you are not the same surname. Well, my grand in-laws are like this. They draw the line. I told my hubby before, just because I'm not born in the Lim family, so fertility issue is with me. But how about the other way round, if...

Yikes! And she prepared your meal in those black pots?

No, you cannot be out of sight totally. Remember that your presence may also irritated your mil. Haha. And if you disappear for too long, she will have all the opportunity to bad mouth you. I tried not to let my hubby have an alone time with her. I will usually stick very close to him so that...

Remember not to complain everything about your MIL to your hubby. He wouldn't like it and it may affect your relationship. I feel that MILs just deliberately do things to anger us so that we will quarrel with our hubby. Yes, I told my hubby that to. So I've to remain very strong and polite with...

You have to be very very strong and be able to tolerate her nonsense. I used to be very direct blunt with my words. My family is not as trouble maker as them. We are the 'what you see is what you get' sort. But ever since I met his mother, I'm becoming as sly as her and I can wayang very well...

Kamum, I no choice. I'm already married to him and sadly to his family as well. And to think that she was a nice Aunty until I slowly have a taste of her medicine. Luckily I'm not staying with her so I still get to breathe at the right pace until I see her on Sunday for lunch.

Yup he is the one. We were with him for 3 months. Nothing works so we went ivf - ICIS. What's D&C?

Seriously? You so cute la. So did you get the epidural?

She very smart one. Of course she wouldn't say she take the money to gamble mah. She will use all sort of excuses or quote her friend's kids etc. She is aware that she's not welcome at my place. But she's thick-skinned. She kept saying, "this is my son's house, why i cannot go up!" But hubby...

Yup. I'm not the wayang kind. But I does that when I want to avoid his mother. At times, I will even give in doing it his way after all my 'wayang' like headache, cramps etc.... Then i say I'm doing it because she is your mother, so got to show respect. Shows that I'm so gracious and i am...

My hubby also gave the same excuse for his mum that she is not highly educated that's why she always talk like an Aunty. I said but your grandparents (who obviously have no money for proper education in those days) doesn't speak and behaves like her!! And his mother has been a civil servant...

is that your baby photo at the bottom? so cute la!

I did all the check and I am perfectly fine. hubby refuses to do a check until I did IUI then we found out that his swimmers are very weak. he is refusing to quit smoking nor take any supplements, even though he paid for them. I underwent ICIS twice beginning of this year, both fresh...

Some other questions you should think about: How often can you spend time with him, just the both of you? How often can you spend time with him and your parents? Trust me, your MIL will get jealous now that her son is going to call another woman "mother". Do you have to report to her on...