Hubby going in NS , how do you cope ?

[CynCyn]

Hubby going in NS this Decemeber , how do you cope ?

Any young mummies who's Dh also in army ?

 

[baby gurl]

my hubby aso in ns.but goin ord aready!he is goin to army or police?wen ,u hubby 1st go in to camp im pregnant.i'll feel lonely without him.need his companion.but 2 yrs veri fast pass wan!no worries!

 

[wilcris]

My husband is a regular, time is very irregular. but after so many years, i get used to it.. Have to bear with it when it comes to duty.. training for weeks.

 

[baby gurl]

hmmm..but i heard if ur hubby got family can opt office hr job.but 1st 3 months is a muz to stay in onli can book out fri,sat n sun!my hubby now n den aso have to stay in camp fer a wk!

 

[LoVeS]

My hubby is a navy regular, very often at times within a wk i get to see him 1-2days only due to sailing n aso duty. How to cope? Slowly will get used to it although at times will grumble abit BUT frds play a big part to cope n aso my son.

 

[mavis]

my hubby is a air force regular... working hours super irregular lor, even weekends oso lyk tat. Have to call back every nite for working time lor. sometimes have to go overseas for 1-4weeks when needed. But i've already get used to this kinda life liao.....

at least nw we have kids to accompany us mah....:tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh:

 

[tommyBoi]

I am serving my reservist now... until 26 Oct. :001_302:

Cyncyn, a point for u to note.. usually guy will change his mentality after his NS.. can be good or bad for the r/s.

Cheers!!

 

[xiaodaisy]

spend more time wif frens n sister for chit chatting or shoppin loh or else play wif kids more.. aniwae time past fast n take care wor !~!

 

[LoVeS]

I am serving my reservist now... until 26 Oct. :001_302:

Cyncyn, a point for u to note.. usually guy will change his mentality after his NS.. can be good or bad for the r/s.

Cheers!!

Yes i very agree on tis, guys will change b it for better or worse after their NS.

 

[jaynshar]

My dh is a regular..usually nt at hm one..sometimes can one whole week nt coming back..n btw..he is gg to TW for training for 3 weeks...
So wat i usually do is to take this time to clean n tidy my house..cos when dh around..everthing cannot throw away..if he nt around..will take the opportunity to throw things..
Meet friend..organise gathering to family members..etc..ancing_wub:

 

[CynCyn]

my hubby aso in ns.but goin ord aready!he is goin to army or police?wen ,u hubby 1st go in to camp im pregnant.i'll feel lonely without him.need his companion.but 2 yrs veri fast pass wan!no worries!

Hi baby gurl . My Hubby has yet to be enlisted but going in soon on December 14 . If im not wrong after POP then they'll know what's their next posting right ?

I am serving my reservist now... until 26 Oct. :001_302:

Cyncyn, a point for u to note.. usually guy will change his mentality after his NS.. can be good or bad for the r/s.

Cheers!!

Hi Tommyboi .

I've heard too that it can be good or bad for the r/s . That's my biggest worry now .

Btw , how is it good or bad for the r/s . Care to elaborate further ? :001_302:

 

[CynCyn]

Thanks for everyones replies ,

So mummies and daddies . So far has yr relationship turn for good or bad ?

When Dh goes into army , I'll be home alone with my son almost everyday . My in laws are always out working and only comes back at night .
They suggest that I move back to my own home for the time being at least there's someone around to look out for me . But I do not want to move back . My in laws didn't force either so it's ok .

I do not wish to move back home is bcos I'll have everything done by them and I don't like not being to do anything . Be it hsework to my baby . So moving back is the last thing on my mind .

Just that it's going to be tough for me . Feeling lonely and missing my DH not able to talk to anyone at home . Sigh .

 

[LoVeS]

Thanks for everyones replies ,

So mummies and daddies . So far has yr relationship turn for good or bad ?

When Dh goes into army , I'll be home alone with my son almost everyday . My in laws are always out working and only comes back at night .
They suggest that I move back to my own home for the time being at least there's someone around to look out for me . But I do not want to move back . My in laws didn't force either so it's ok .

I do not wish to move back home is bcos I'll have everything done by them and I don't like not being to do anything . Be it hsework to my baby . So moving back is the last thing on my mind .

Just that it's going to be tough for me . Feeling lonely and missing my DH not able to talk to anyone at home . Sigh .

U can ask ur frds to come stay over whenever ur dh not ard ah~ Like tt u wont b alone lor~ :001_302:

 

[baby gurl]

yup!onli after pop den dey'll noe where dey postin!eventualli,r/s will be a bad fer me becoz i feel so lonely.den everywk we'll surely quarrel.sumore my hubby kena NDP.instead of stayin 3 months inside he stayed 5 months.even now my hubby aso have to stay in camp 1 month 1 time but i slowly get used to it.not to worri cyncyn!u've got ur son!u can go out wif ur frens or ask dem over fer mahjong!dat's wat i alwaz do!

 

[tommyBoi]

Hi Tommyboi .

I've heard too that it can be good or bad for the r/s . That's my biggest worry now .

Btw , how is it good or bad for the r/s . Care to elaborate further ? :001_302:

Hmm.. the training in army is tough, esp when he is still a recruit. NS will change him to a more mature adult than b4. His perception of things and thinking will change. Usually a r/s will break off after the guy enlisted NS or after serving NS.
For ur dh, it might be different as he is a father liao....
For ur part, just give him ur support during his NS.
Cheers!!
:001_302:

 

[precious*baby]

my DH is an army regular, he's quite bz with wrk so i'll tend to goes out with my frends or my family.. soon i start to get used..

i'm sure u'll be able to cope well..

 

[xiaodaisy]

ya loh go out wif frens den ask dem to ur hse for mahjong whahaha... lolxxx.. for mi i donno cos wen i know hubby already finished ns n no need go back anymore.. but nayway cheer up lah.. time would pass fast for u ^_^

 

[LoVeS]

Hmm.. the training in army is tough, esp when he is still a recruit. NS will change him to a more mature adult than b4. His perception of things and thinking will change. Usually a r/s will break off after the guy enlisted NS or after serving NS.
For ur dh, it might be different as he is a father liao....
For ur part, just give him ur support during his NS.
Cheers!!
:001_302:

ya n listen to his grumble NS tought life~ It is very gd~