Oct 2008 MTB
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yeoyeo
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For what i know, before you put your bb to the caregiver, it is better that you are presence with them in another environment with the caregiver. They have to get used to the caregiver and the place before you slowly disappeared. At least we are with them in a new environment for awhile before leaving them totally.
i made the mistake of leaving my son to my sis in law without letting him get used to the caregiver and environment and therefore he only drink 30 - 40ml each feed. he wants to be carry and whenever my sis in law puts him down, he will start his "cranky" business..
Thank God he adapt to it after 1 week. Now he gets better..
i made the mistake of leaving my son to my sis in law without letting him get used to the caregiver and environment and therefore he only drink 30 - 40ml each feed. he wants to be carry and whenever my sis in law puts him down, he will start his "cranky" business..
Thank God he adapt to it after 1 week. Now he gets better..
yeoyeo
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i think my son will learn to flip quite fast, this is what most people say.. he is quite strong. when he is less than one month, PD already say his neck is quite strong.
changing diapers for him can be a chanellege cos he likes to "kick" himself upwards and after few kicks he is out of the changing mat. he is quite dangerous if leave him on the bed cos i worried he kicks himself out of the bed.. hahaha..
well once our babies know how to flip, we will begin our next sets of worries..
changing diapers for him can be a chanellege cos he likes to "kick" himself upwards and after few kicks he is out of the changing mat. he is quite dangerous if leave him on the bed cos i worried he kicks himself out of the bed.. hahaha..
well once our babies know how to flip, we will begin our next sets of worries..
yeoyeo
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me too. i stopped after i went back to work after 2 months. sometime i do feel guilty for weaning it off.. it is so funny lah.. part of me feel tired that i need to express my milk every 3 hourly and sometimes i will skip cos too busy or preoccupied and it drag to 4 hours and slowly skip one pump to the next pump... part of me i hope i can continue to give as it is good for the baby... haiz.... well anyway stop liao.. "IF" i have a 2nd one, then i will do it all over again, but hopefully with better perservance... :shyxxx:
madalene
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wow, strong leh.
mine only know how to change sleeping position but not flip yet.
a few days back, she start to turn on her right side only. still not yet flip...
but she is turning 4 mths in 1 week time...
madalene
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ya, the doc says its a good exercise for the babies...
Good to lay them on their belly...
i tried giving my girl pacifier too.
but she dun like. she like fingers more, hahaha.
i think to her, fingers more tasty....:tlaugh:
Ya, sometimes I wonder what so good about the pacificer?? How come baby likes to suck pacificer? My boy loves to suck his fingers, suck very "loud" somemore. So got to choose either one - pacificer or fingers. Heard that if suck the thumb too much, it will leave a mark on the fingers.
Yah, CNY is coming. 1st time carrying baby to celebrate new year. Must be very exciting! Can take a break too, there must be alot of relatives who can "volunteer" to carry him, play with him. Then we can have some breaktime. haha.
lonerjas
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Baby like sucking cos it gives them security feelin.. Not all like pacifiers i suppose lol.. i notice my gal loves to squeeze near me when sleeping. if i move away she somehow can come nearer herself lolYa, sometimes I wonder what so good about the pacificer?? How come baby likes to suck pacificer? My boy loves to suck his fingers, suck very "loud" somemore. So got to choose either one - pacificer or fingers. Heard that if suck the thumb too much, it will leave a mark on the fingers.
Yah, CNY is coming. 1st time carrying baby to celebrate new year. Must be very exciting! Can take a break too, there must be alot of relatives who can "volunteer" to carry him, play with him. Then we can have some breaktime. haha.
badtzzz
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oh no, im gg to put my bb to infant care..hope she cn adapt fast...*crossing fingers***For what i know, before you put your bb to the caregiver, it is better that you are presence with them in another environment with the caregiver. They have to get used to the caregiver and the place before you slowly disappeared. At least we are with them in a new environment for awhile before leaving them totally.
i made the mistake of leaving my son to my sis in law without letting him get used to the caregiver and environment and therefore he only drink 30 - 40ml each feed. he wants to be carry and whenever my sis in law puts him down, he will start his "cranky" business..
Thank God he adapt to it after 1 week. Now he gets better..
now she is super fussy in the afternoon, wants to be carried n play..lucky she slps well in the nite...
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badtzzz
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haha..me too...partly the milk also stop flowing liao...
badtzzz
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my girl doesnt suck her fingers, only like to lick fingers n blow bubbles...haha
lonerjas
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ok as long as she likes it and feels comfy..
yeoyeo
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i guess you can talk to the caregiver in the childcare centre and let them know. did you check out the infant care centre that you are going to put your DD? i heard some negative comment on infant care but i guess it is a no choice kind of a thing. normally one caregiver to 4-5 babies so sometimes it is not easy for them to manage.
dun worry too much.. i believe sometimes we dun have much choice on it.
yeoyeo
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my son like to suck pacifier, i guess it is for comfort.. but at the same time he also like to lick his hands and just like your boy, sometimes he suck very loud... seems so delicious.. buay tahan him..Ya, sometimes I wonder what so good about the pacificer?? How come baby likes to suck pacificer? My boy loves to suck his fingers, suck very "loud" somemore. So got to choose either one - pacificer or fingers. Heard that if suck the thumb too much, it will leave a mark on the fingers.
Yah, CNY is coming. 1st time carrying baby to celebrate new year. Must be very exciting! Can take a break too, there must be alot of relatives who can "volunteer" to carry him, play with him. Then we can have some breaktime. haha.
i agree with you.. cny coming and being a 1st time mum, i am excited to go around house visiting with my son. it is a good time to take a break..
yeoyeo
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i believe that with the 1st time experience, we will be able to do better when we have a 2nd one.. we will know how to handle better... jia you..