young malay mums, lets meet over here!! - 28 Feb 2010 and earlier posts ~~
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NuR_iRfAn
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WelCome to both of u.....
To kak rose,byk bersabar kuat kn semangat demi anak2...
Guy like that nt worth simpan.....g humban dia kat sungai...(bleh gitu???)heheheh....
Dia ingat kite ne pompuan takde harga diri ke...
Dia mane nyer besar kat dunia ne??
menyampah nye laki2 mcm ne...
To kak rose,byk bersabar kuat kn semangat demi anak2...
Guy like that nt worth simpan.....g humban dia kat sungai...(bleh gitu???)heheheh....
Dia ingat kite ne pompuan takde harga diri ke...
Dia mane nyer besar kat dunia ne??
menyampah nye laki2 mcm ne...
ross
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hello mama ina & grannyvogue
welcome to this forum..
i also come to this forum during my preggy days and learn lots of new things. bump into this thread by chance and then start menyibuk ngan all my questions blah blah blah. happy to learn from mummies here and maklumlah, i don't hv mum anymore so i get tips etc from mummies here.
i pun dah lama tak stay kat sini, working/staying overseas for 4 yrs and sometimes follow my hubby outstation. came back last year and want to start new career here then realised that i'm pregnant terpaksa jadi full time housewife. A bit stressful but after my princess arrival dah sibuk lagi and now baru dapat time off to come and be wt hb kat jkt whom happen to hv a project here. Dapat relax sikit and look after my hb plak.
superwoman,
good to hear that you're getting stronger now. kalau dah jalan tangan tu dah melampau. i pantang kalau nampak laki2 hit a woman, i will definately hit that man back. you hv done great with bringing up yr kids n now being a grandma. you've made it this far so does not matter with or without a man you can still moved on. you hv your kids and now they're your pride n joy. :001_302:
welcome to this forum..
i also come to this forum during my preggy days and learn lots of new things. bump into this thread by chance and then start menyibuk ngan all my questions blah blah blah. happy to learn from mummies here and maklumlah, i don't hv mum anymore so i get tips etc from mummies here.
i pun dah lama tak stay kat sini, working/staying overseas for 4 yrs and sometimes follow my hubby outstation. came back last year and want to start new career here then realised that i'm pregnant terpaksa jadi full time housewife. A bit stressful but after my princess arrival dah sibuk lagi and now baru dapat time off to come and be wt hb kat jkt whom happen to hv a project here. Dapat relax sikit and look after my hb plak.
superwoman,
good to hear that you're getting stronger now. kalau dah jalan tangan tu dah melampau. i pantang kalau nampak laki2 hit a woman, i will definately hit that man back. you hv done great with bringing up yr kids n now being a grandma. you've made it this far so does not matter with or without a man you can still moved on. you hv your kids and now they're your pride n joy. :001_302:
lis
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welcum Ina... buat mcm umah sendiri k.. klau nk tanye ape2 soalan.. dipersilakan.. ol of us will do our best to chip in our pendapat.. so u tinggal ane..? FTWM ke SAHM..??
wah wah wah, makin banyak kaki-s here. Best lah! Kalau sunyi sepi, tak syok. Welcome to grannyogue and mama ina. Just speak whateva u have in mind...asal kita smua make peace not war sudah. Topic range here macam2 from cooking, kids + bb, preggy, family, work related, r'ship. apa-apa aje lah. Nak membebel pun boleh, coz help to release tension. :001_302: Nak PM PM pun boleh jugak.....
Kak Rose - U kena kuatkan semangat. I think he knows your soft spot and weaknesses to make sure that you think you yang bersalah. He is playing with your mind lah sis! U try to ignore his pleas, begging, sweet nothings to u next time u decide it is about time for him to pack his bags. Discuss with your older kids about this, so they would know how to react should he come to susahkan dorang. Although he is the father to your lil gal but i think u should think for your lil gal's welfare too. As a mum, i am sure u don't want her to grow up in such an abusive environment kan. What happens if she sees all the tension or the physical fights between you both. Apa u nak cakap nanti. Personally, i feel having single parent yang penyayang (that is you) is so much better than having complete parents who are extremely at loggerheads with each other. Come on....you deserve a much calmer life and all your kids deserve to see you happy. Insya-allah u will dapat petunjuk dariNYA.
grannyvogue - i am so inspired, 20 yrs of marriage. Awww! Apa rahsia hah ? Kita smua masih tengah 'belajar'. :001_302: Lagi 5 tahun makan besar anniversary ke ?
ross - apa cerita kat Indon ? Cerita dong! :001_302: Dah balik eh ?
Kak Rose - U kena kuatkan semangat. I think he knows your soft spot and weaknesses to make sure that you think you yang bersalah. He is playing with your mind lah sis! U try to ignore his pleas, begging, sweet nothings to u next time u decide it is about time for him to pack his bags. Discuss with your older kids about this, so they would know how to react should he come to susahkan dorang. Although he is the father to your lil gal but i think u should think for your lil gal's welfare too. As a mum, i am sure u don't want her to grow up in such an abusive environment kan. What happens if she sees all the tension or the physical fights between you both. Apa u nak cakap nanti. Personally, i feel having single parent yang penyayang (that is you) is so much better than having complete parents who are extremely at loggerheads with each other. Come on....you deserve a much calmer life and all your kids deserve to see you happy. Insya-allah u will dapat petunjuk dariNYA.
grannyvogue - i am so inspired, 20 yrs of marriage. Awww! Apa rahsia hah ? Kita smua masih tengah 'belajar'. :001_302: Lagi 5 tahun makan besar anniversary ke ?
ross - apa cerita kat Indon ? Cerita dong! :001_302: Dah balik eh ?
arabjunior
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halo welcome mama ina n grannyvogue.. pat sini nk ckp apa ckp lerr... ada resipi contributions, advices dan sewaktu dgn nye.. hehehe
grannyvogue- u tak tua la u r juz young abit longer so more matured, BEST!.. kirakan ok la.. one day pun we all smpi jgk ur age, insyaallah...
kak rose- u mesti tough.. if bob marley kata no woman no cry.. kita pun bleh no man no cry.. brapa byk mothers yg menang ibu contoh coz they single mother but fuyoo.. super duper power.. d semngat n evrything..
grannyvogue- u tak tua la u r juz young abit longer so more matured, BEST!.. kirakan ok la.. one day pun we all smpi jgk ur age, insyaallah...
kak rose- u mesti tough.. if bob marley kata no woman no cry.. kita pun bleh no man no cry.. brapa byk mothers yg menang ibu contoh coz they single mother but fuyoo.. super duper power.. d semngat n evrything..
hazchaz
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hi all...lamernyer never log in here...very busy lately...hehe.. tolong my hubby's interior designing business..alhamdulillah a couple of projects landing in...so tiring gak kadang2 ikut dia QC jobsites or cover here n there wif appt... hehe.. aniwaes,wats new ladies?? about my amnio test dat sum of u here penah beri i smangat to pull thru,well, alhamdulillah the result is fine!!! hehehe....no more worries.....yahoooo... my baby now da 26 weeks n keeping me awake most nites...hahaha..
imagine the crankiness my mood is every day whenever things dun go in my favour...duhh... and, HAPPY MOTHER"S DAY TO ALL MUMMIES N MUMS-TO-BE!
imagine the crankiness my mood is every day whenever things dun go in my favour...duhh... and, HAPPY MOTHER"S DAY TO ALL MUMMIES N MUMS-TO-BE!
Hi Kak Rose, be strong im sure Allah is always by ur side... Ala lelaki cam tu le gi belah la.. ckp mcm2 at u... as if he's perfect... if he is perfect he nvr said tat kind of stuff to u... abeh bila susah oh pndai cari kita!!!! dorang ingat kita ni ape eh.. ya i do hv fren experience lyk u... kekadang mcm nak kena mintak pijak2 lak lelaki ni...... Berdoa la sentiasa... and im sure Allah will show you the ways u suppose to lead....
Hi grannyvogue, mama ina - welcome.... kat sini ade mcm2 topic... ckp je.. jgn malu jgn segan... hehehehe....
Sempena Hari Ibu ni, ladies tak p mana2 ke? Me smlm, we had small gathering at my aunt hse... Everytym gathering mesti ade BBQ.. Tis tym round lak our BBQ theme 'kampung'' tapi rumah batu... hehehehe... Biasa la fun and happening lagi2 klu da jumpa geng2 sekaki kan... even my dotter jugak da jumpa aunt n uncle dia... she with her own world... her aunt and uncle umur pon tak jauh beza dari die... setahun setahun jarak... hehehehe.... cute kan....
Anyway Happy Mother's Day to all Mummies n Mum-to-Be...
Hi grannyvogue, mama ina - welcome.... kat sini ade mcm2 topic... ckp je.. jgn malu jgn segan... hehehehe....
Sempena Hari Ibu ni, ladies tak p mana2 ke? Me smlm, we had small gathering at my aunt hse... Everytym gathering mesti ade BBQ.. Tis tym round lak our BBQ theme 'kampung'' tapi rumah batu... hehehehe... Biasa la fun and happening lagi2 klu da jumpa geng2 sekaki kan... even my dotter jugak da jumpa aunt n uncle dia... she with her own world... her aunt and uncle umur pon tak jauh beza dari die... setahun setahun jarak... hehehehe.... cute kan....
Anyway Happy Mother's Day to all Mummies n Mum-to-Be...
Selamat Hari Ibu kepada semua mummies and AKAN DATANG mummies.
Sambut apa hari ni ? For me, low-key event. My relatives ada gathering today but i am not going coz i have a project to settle, will end next week and my son pun tengah exam revision. So tonight just our family dinner outside. The real MAKAN will be next week with my mum and MIL. As u can see my mood will be pretty much worried the whole of this coming week.
lis and arabjr.....apa story ? Dah dapat kejutan ke blum ? I hope i got them sent out correctly.
Sambut apa hari ni ? For me, low-key event. My relatives ada gathering today but i am not going coz i have a project to settle, will end next week and my son pun tengah exam revision. So tonight just our family dinner outside. The real MAKAN will be next week with my mum and MIL. As u can see my mood will be pretty much worried the whole of this coming week.
lis and arabjr.....apa story ? Dah dapat kejutan ke blum ? I hope i got them sent out correctly.
arabjunior
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enflor- thanks sooo much.. dh dpt dh surprise dia.. lurvely lagi2 time i tgh cranky last week..
oh ya.. happy mommy day n mommy-2-b day to u, all bee-u-tiful laydees!!!
i tk celebrate sgt smlm. Juz a last minit decision to give my mum a treat at T2 Swensen's.. ok la.. bought her a gift.. pening tau nk tink of a suitable gift.. hehehe...
Juz nak share with u guys something.. i ni tgh lemau.. noe wat?..
Dis morning dh la my son ngigau pagi2 buta.. my hubby lak kejut i ckp it's 6.25am n time for me to get up for werk.. i dh kelam kabut bgn.. maklumla tinggal tamp keje pat outram.. dh kelam kabut siap pas tu solat, i thot nk call my mum fetch my son from her void deck.. i tgk my hp clock kul 6am.. i rubbed my eyes.. ingtkn hp dh sotz so i go dapur.. d clock pat dapur pun kul 6am.. pening pening pening... dh siap pakai tudung semua n aru pukul 6 pagi.. dat means my hubby kejut i kul 5.25am.. oh my precious sleep... later my hubby cal from werk ckp dgn i yg dia smpi siang sgt.. dia trperanjat coz keje start kul 7am tapi kul 5plus dia dh smpi keje.. i marah dia.. ish.. dh la penat layan my son 1 mlm.. ni dia lak salah kejut n bleh gelak lagi.. ish... i rasa nari hari mabuk sibuk i.. mesti blur sotong day punya.. haiz... aper nk jadi pun tk tau...
oh ya.. happy mommy day n mommy-2-b day to u, all bee-u-tiful laydees!!!
i tk celebrate sgt smlm. Juz a last minit decision to give my mum a treat at T2 Swensen's.. ok la.. bought her a gift.. pening tau nk tink of a suitable gift.. hehehe...
Juz nak share with u guys something.. i ni tgh lemau.. noe wat?..
Dis morning dh la my son ngigau pagi2 buta.. my hubby lak kejut i ckp it's 6.25am n time for me to get up for werk.. i dh kelam kabut bgn.. maklumla tinggal tamp keje pat outram.. dh kelam kabut siap pas tu solat, i thot nk call my mum fetch my son from her void deck.. i tgk my hp clock kul 6am.. i rubbed my eyes.. ingtkn hp dh sotz so i go dapur.. d clock pat dapur pun kul 6am.. pening pening pening... dh siap pakai tudung semua n aru pukul 6 pagi.. dat means my hubby kejut i kul 5.25am.. oh my precious sleep... later my hubby cal from werk ckp dgn i yg dia smpi siang sgt.. dia trperanjat coz keje start kul 7am tapi kul 5plus dia dh smpi keje.. i marah dia.. ish.. dh la penat layan my son 1 mlm.. ni dia lak salah kejut n bleh gelak lagi.. ish... i rasa nari hari mabuk sibuk i.. mesti blur sotong day punya.. haiz... aper nk jadi pun tk tau...
dianayousof
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hi mummies...
da lama tak post kat sini but i do follow what's goin on here :001_302:
lis- da bake byk2 jgn lupe post pic kat sini...raye anti senang nak order heheh...
nora- u take good care of yourself and baby...hopefully u gt ur appetite back soon...
pink_laydee / babygerl / EnFlor - hopefully ur kids cepat recover...
ross- nanti bile2 i gi Changi i teropong rumah u eh...
ancing_tongue:arabjnr - jgn la marah2 selalu gara-gara swine flu...
cam rhyme gitu eh...my hubby went to sgh this morning to send MIL for check up and ya he got irritated with the mask! :we2Randy-git:
Thx for ur update sis!:001_302:
kak rose - i've read ur post kak rose,i feel sorry for you and ya i do agree with the girls here he's not worth for you kak!
maybe u feel grateful that he had supported u n anak2 all this while too bad i dun think he's grateful for having u as a wife...:nah:
u should start fresh kak...u deserve a better partner...kalau each time he came back to u with sad stories remember your kids im sure u tak nak ur kids membesar in such environment...
All the best for you kak...will pray for you and family...:001_302:
and to All lovely mummies with the lovely babies inside or already outside the womb and their lovely families...HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY to all of u!
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dianayousof
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hahhaha!! klakar la...very the blur kan da siap kelam kabut skali tgk jam baru kul 6am:1err:
arabjunior
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tu la.. skrg i still feel blur..
btw, i need advise as to how to get a biggest biarch off my back. Salah i dia nmpk tapi if salah dia or her fav dia close one eye.. as if she's d only one who's able to make mistakes and no one can say anything. To tink that she tell people that there's nothing wrong with her handwriting (despite the numbers of people who CANT read or figure out her writing).. She claims to be a high flyer but some minor mistakes done by some people she lyks, she won't notice. How to werk lyk this?!!!
She's supposed to be quarantined but instead she came to werk and lock herself up but be in contact with all of us.(??) I just need her to butt out and get off my back.. hav u guys had any encounters with such biarchs before? I keep telling myself not to be afraid of her.. everytime i have to deal with her, i feel so stress and tight... I feel lyk i wanna get out...
btw, i need advise as to how to get a biggest biarch off my back. Salah i dia nmpk tapi if salah dia or her fav dia close one eye.. as if she's d only one who's able to make mistakes and no one can say anything. To tink that she tell people that there's nothing wrong with her handwriting (despite the numbers of people who CANT read or figure out her writing).. She claims to be a high flyer but some minor mistakes done by some people she lyks, she won't notice. How to werk lyk this?!!!
She's supposed to be quarantined but instead she came to werk and lock herself up but be in contact with all of us.(??) I just need her to butt out and get off my back.. hav u guys had any encounters with such biarchs before? I keep telling myself not to be afraid of her.. everytime i have to deal with her, i feel so stress and tight... I feel lyk i wanna get out...
Arabjr - funny sih your cerita. Bila i baca teringat one of the crite PRamlee dialogues somethin like 'Sebelum subuh saya datang...." (think crite Seniman bujang lapok)
Takpa, pagi2 (buta) boleh hirup kopi panas, makan roti bakar kat ofis. Kata breakfast kan.
Is she your superior ? Kalau superior, your work performance may depend on her kan....so u can go either way but each of the way has its own repercussions. (i) be direct, kalau dia salah tegur regardless dia berpangkat or tak - outcome, she may harbour revenge against u or she may see you as an asset to the dept...alert staff, siapa tak nak kan, indirectly credit goes to her eventually. (ii) u 'suck' up all her nonsense - outcome, u makan hati berulam jantung but bear in mind it is all for the sake of promotion or to be in her good books. Well, that is from my perspective lah. But orang mcam gini kan sumtimes, u kena 'kasi' dia sikit2. So they know, that u can't be stepped all over. Good luck babe!
Takpa, pagi2 (buta) boleh hirup kopi panas, makan roti bakar kat ofis. Kata breakfast kan.
Is she your superior ? Kalau superior, your work performance may depend on her kan....so u can go either way but each of the way has its own repercussions. (i) be direct, kalau dia salah tegur regardless dia berpangkat or tak - outcome, she may harbour revenge against u or she may see you as an asset to the dept...alert staff, siapa tak nak kan, indirectly credit goes to her eventually. (ii) u 'suck' up all her nonsense - outcome, u makan hati berulam jantung but bear in mind it is all for the sake of promotion or to be in her good books. Well, that is from my perspective lah. But orang mcam gini kan sumtimes, u kena 'kasi' dia sikit2. So they know, that u can't be stepped all over. Good luck babe!
Gosh...i am so stressed thinking about this thing which i have tmr and another day this week.So nervous wreck mcm nak tercabut rambut2 kan kepala.
Guess what i've been googling the past hr....ways to beat stress. Can't wait for Friday, sebab by then burden dah selesai. I really need to get a dark choc and go for my morning run bsok pagi, kasi loose tension sikit.
Guess what i've been googling the past hr....ways to beat stress. Can't wait for Friday, sebab by then burden dah selesai. I really need to get a dark choc and go for my morning run bsok pagi, kasi loose tension sikit.
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