Recent content by kikotecho

oh ya.. personally i dun really trust counselling... cos i feel they also comment base on their "feel/think". they may be right or wrong.

yes, he was like that when before marriage. and i give in becos that time i start working 1st while he is still studying. like i said, i thot he'll change after marry and be more sensible. but... haix. really getting tired to try to get things better. and its like whatever things i try to do...

Thanks ladies for the valuable comments. Haha. I think I should be the one to go for counselling instead. =)

@ Honeylicious No, no dates. Only occasionally meet for dinner after work. When thot of go out and will spend $ on food, he will start to divide. Simply no mood already. He not foodcourt type. He picky on food. 1 simple meal can cost abt $7 above. Sometimes when I good mood, I will talk to him...

Nearest neighbourhood police post. Say u want to apply for protection order for your mum.

Percentage is a no no. He dun even dare to let me know his income. Don't misunderstand, I don't spend his money. I had also "feedback" to in laws abt him not helping out on taking care kids. Hubby only said by them and he kept quiet but still old self. Now got helper around, it only ease my...

i have 2 kids - 3yrs (girlgirl), 3mths(meimei) its getting on my nerves and consider to leave him in few years time when my kids gets older. dont help to take care children since the 1st kid, he dont't play or carry girlgirl. even meimei he also seldom carry. as my elder wants to sleep with...

A suggestion. Do apply protection order for ur mum to protect her against that fellow if he suddenly ki siao want to abuse or get rough.

Hi. Since you post this, I think u already knew all this are wrong when he start abuse you. I 100% agree with Tannie "not accept a man who lay his hands on me". So no need talk abt 2nd chance or forgiveness anymore. If you have kids, his next targets will be them. And it is bad example for kids...