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thankyou ladies for your encouragement. i wouldn't have the courage to do it if i didnt get the moral support from you gals. by posting my terrible situation here, i managed to get a gauge of where i stand. i know that its not alright to quietly endure, coz by enduring it will not solve the...

hi ladies, thank you for all ur encouraging words. i finally did it. i wrote her an email and sent it to her. and as expected, she blew her top. i wrote a very neutral tone email asking her to put herself in my shoes coz she's also a mummy so she must be able to understand why i want that...

@momi nice nuetral tone ah? im so pissed off big time every time i hear her call herself mama tat i dont think i can control myself and still speak nuetrally to her.

@diymummy she havent know the gender yet. but can see she really really really hoping for a boy. all her symptoms also same kind like me when i was preggers with my boy. but even her mother thinks her symptoms abit more gua zhang than mine. and ya i agree with you. if she get another girl, then...

like tat wont make her offended meh? i dont want to offend her. coz i dont see a point in offending her. will only make my life miserable in the long run cozz need to avoid seeing her (if i offended her lah). tats why i wish my son is of speaking age now. then can teach him to call her aunty...

ya lor.. i sometimes also fee like i have no control over my son's life. i want full control, but since im working, i have to just pray hard that his 10 hrs with my mil is fulfilling, enriching and safe. hehee. wish i had really put a stop to it when i first heard it. but like i mention she...

@rainbow123 you are so lucky not to have any sister in law. :D and the chocolates was given to my son when he was 6-7 months like tat. and i only found out a few weeks back! dunno how long she's been giving these kind of things to my son. dunno how to take care of baby still have the cheek to...

ive been trying to ignore her all these while. 8 months lioa leh i endure her. but the more i try to push her nonsense away, the more irritating she becomes. like give my baby chocolates and even dare claim that is his favourite!! @$#@%$ angry anot! there i was trying to ensure my baby is...

for me i dont want to end up argueing with her. coz if i argue confirm will not patch up easily one. and if tat happens my husband will confirm headache lor. wife and sister argue, who to side with. sometimes it got so bad that a slight regret would creep in to my thoughts. like regret for...

@lovely0315 actually ya she is kinda hoping for a boy. to the extent of not wanting to look at girls' stuff when at shopping centres. terrible.

@fisherman's friend wah!! a person who is going through what I have to go through. it sucks right to have to endure such a person! @stonston luckily we are not living with her. so whenever i am not working, i ensure very minimal contact between her and my son. i dont mind if my son has more...

you are right ladies. best is to tell her straight when i catch her doing it. @amulet that was one of my plans too. to actually close all eyes, ears, mouth and ren. ren until my son grow up already then teach/drill him that she is gugu and i is mummy! but i have to really tahan lor. i doubt...

@diymummy i did ask him. he said, he's ok with it. i think the thing with men is that these terms are no biggie. because according to my hubby, at the end of the day, he knows that our son knows he is the father and not other ppl. to him it's just a term. but to me, i dont see it that way. to me...

I did that man. I purposely say to my son, "oh you want aunty xx to carry you?" to her face. and because i did that, she never openly address herself as mama. if possible i dont want to tell her face to face about this coz i think she's the kind of person who does not see other people's point...

Hi, I am a new mummy to an 8 month old baby boy. My husband has an older sister and an older brother. When we were discussing what they should address themselves to my son, the elder sister did not say anything to us. Out of the blue, I overheard her babytalk to my son and refers to...