Recent content by summervine

@thefifis. I'm not sure for you, but I feel more assured if I have a plan. Hubby and I have tried to conceive naturally since early 2014 but no success and I felt like we were lost without any direction and the stress trying to "hit the target" every month has taken a toll on me. (And hubby cos...

I never thought I would be saying this but i got my BFP today! I am still in shock as it is my first IVF cycle. I failed 2 IUI cycles last year which was also mentioned in my earlier posts. So girls, do not give up! There is hope. What helps me through this journey is faith and lots of praying...

@NLissa Yes, I have several friends and family members who got married much after me and already have kids. It is very stressful being asked again and again. Today saw on Channelnewsasia that this couple has 2 babies within this SG50 year.. sigh.. and we are here struggling just to have one. I...

Thanks babysparkling. They are 2 different matter right? I don't think it should be a concern. Your doctor should be able to advise?

Hi ladies, it's me again. Today I was officially informed my second IUI was unsuccessful again. I have cried the entire day and am feeling so hopeless. To make things worse, next week is my wedding anniversary and I secretly hoped that this is would a nice surprise, but alas.. I feel that I am...

I totally understand. I actually tendered my resignation 2 month back because I couldn't take the stress from work and also this TTC thingy. Also, I was put on a new project so I had to attend lots of meetings and it is not convenient and unfair to my boss and team members if I kept taking leave...

yup! I truly agree. We can try everything but definitely not when our health is at risk. Thanks very much for the encouragement and advice. I really needed it. I need to think hard if I wanna embark on this ivf journey. Sigh..

Eggscatcher83, you're strong. I must learn to be like you. I am recommended by my doctor to do IVF if this round of SO-IUI fails. I couldn't stop crying because never ever did I foresee we will come to such a stage. Is IVF a scary and painful process? What's FET? I did Fermara with IUI. Had good...

Hi Eggcatcher83, We are so similar! I'm 31 and DH is 34. We also have been trying for 2 years+. I think this past year have been my most depressive period. I have PCOS and I'm now on my TWW from my 2nd SO-IUI. Don't have much hope again as DH sperm count was low.