yes.. tried to make things work out but failed...
he is back with his affairs again!!
enough of all these craps, decided to call it off and put a stop to my misery!!
yes... it's good to know the truth, no one likes to be betrayed. but, for sure... the truth is superb hurting.
my PI was a good one.. he got me sufficient evidences that my other party cannot deny at all. if u need referral, you may want to pm me.
hi, newlife, how are things? what's your actions?
yes... it really does require lots of courage to take the every 1st step, be it is divorcing or forgiving..
hi,
are you sure you are prepared to know the truth? the truth will surfaced once you engaged a PI, and it's going to be really...
unforgiven, sorry to hear abt u... i believed it's also tough on your side having to adjust and adapt a new life all over again. for your divorce, managed to fight for your rights??
yes, you are right. i just have to moniter him closly for now. in fact, i have become very sensitive lately. i...
hi unforgiven,
yah... it's really a looooooong time since i last posted.
now, things are all on "probation". he keeps asking for forgiveness, trying all ways to be nice, etc.... and my parents keep asking me to give him another chance, so i am really confused. all the things are now put on...
i agree with unforgiven.
no point keep asking questions, and even if he answer u, will u believe?? i think it's best to do something now, no point waiting anymore!!
my advice is:
since u already more or less know and quite certain that ur husband is with that girl.. now, ask urself, are u willing to let go this relationship, this family?? if u are willing, then i think please dun wait anymore, engage a pi fast, get all the evidences and file for divorce...
hi unforgiven,
yes, i do have a very good lawyer but she is not cheap.
my advice is try to talk terms with your husband 1st like your house, your joint accounts, etc... if both of you can agree and come to terms then i think a normal lawyer to do all the paperwork will do. if not, then engage...
Hi unforgiven,
sorry to hear that the marriage cannot be salvaged.
Well, for my case, like I mentioned before, he is Also beyond hope and I hv already given up. Currently in the midst of the divorce proceedings. In conclusion, I feel that man like this don't deserve our love at all...
hey flyaway,
after reading all the above posts, (i dun mean to sound negative) but i really think ur hubby might be hidding something from you. it may not be an affair yet, maybe something something......
u may want to engage PI to check on him, if not, like what u said u are getting from...
what phoebii said is right, maybe given birth, it's ur hormones or some post natal blues/ insecurity.. maybe u can try to talk to ur hubby abt it.
take care!
hey unforgiven,
i was once in such a state like u.. dun know if should forgive and start all over or just leave him..
1st of all, i think u need to ask yourself, should u stay with him, whatever he say and do, do u trust him 100%? if ur answer is NO, then i guess it's no point holding on...
hey,
it's not easy for 2 person to meet, fall in love with each other and eventually start a family...
why because of money then want to give up everything??
what on earth happen to these 2 person??
ya.. i also dun understand by men are like this!!
btw, how's ur case? forgiven ur hubby?
hey, thanks!! :)
i know i must stay strong however, it's really very difficult!! now that i have aldready moved to my mum's place, i still think of him everytime. and whenever i go back to my own...