nope, she didn't show me black face or ask me anything, still the same as before. just that she didn't come in to my room again, cos this few days i tried not to lock the door and monitor what would happen. to my surprise, she didn't come in again =)yea so... even though she is the grandma, you are the mother! you have your rights on how you wanna handle your girl. so verbal warning dosent work then no choice got to take actions. though she might be piss with you locking the door... is she ok these few days? as in.. did she show you black face or ask you bout it?
yes, cos when she opened the door, she won't open lightly, but with some noise and then sometimes my dd would be awake by that noise.hmmm when she enter your room, do you know it?
if so, maybe you just pretend to roll over and hug baby or tell your mother in law in a annoyed tone (cos when ppl sleeping and being woken up they will get annoyed right?) that baby just sleep only, SHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH~
you know, use the "act blur" way?
wow, haha!, quite a good idea, can consider... hehe!I would just lock the door. Then if mother in law gets suspicious or offended I would just say that I'm trying for second baby!! WAHAHAHA! Later she will stop trying to open the door.
mayb u can try opening ur mil's door when she's slping soundly? see if she likes it anot...yes, cos when she opened the door, she won't open lightly, but with some noise and then sometimes my dear daughter would be awake by that noise.
let me list out 1 scenario:Seriously your baby is only close to 6mths old but last feed is at 7pm~ Yes sleep thru is ok but 7pm is last feed and last until 7am it is abit too long interval.
As for the are/s between your mother in law and you, i feel that your thinking too much and it is not good to assume things UNLESS you hear it personally frm them. Misunderstanding always start due to miscommunication so dont just "feel" that they dont like you carry your daughter just bcoz you THINK or FEEL that way coz you will never know things might not be that case~:001_302:
u're not alone.. i read many threads and many mummies 'complain' that their mil dont let them carry their OWN babies...let me list out 1 scenario:
when my father in law and me are free, and my mother in law needs someone to carry dear daughter, she will always ask my father in law and not me! and my father in law is so irritating that he always have a toothpick in his mouth, what if he pokes my dear daughter accidentally? who's going to bear the consequences?
i really hate it lor!!! don't know what's wrong with all these MILs nowadays!!!you're not alone.. i read many threads and many mummies 'complain' that their mother in law dont let them carry their OWN babies...
my mother in law loves to carry dear son too.. but one good thing is we're not staying together and dear son is super heavy so sometimes she bobian LL have to pass dear son back to us.. haha!
haiyo! wat a suggestion lor *faintz*mayb you can try opening your mother in law's door when she's sleeping soundly? see if she likes it anot...
or, make a cup of warm milo, wake up her in the middle of night and force her to drink! then she will know how irritating is that... HAHA!!!
pardon me for my stupid ideas :001_302:
actually ur MIL is consider very nice alrdy as she offer to help u take care of ur daughter even for nite feeds, at least she didnt xpect u to wake up to feed ur daughter but do it by herself~ My MIL is worse than ur MIL so many many times, last time she aso behaved like ur MIL BUT different is tat she xpect ME wake up to feed my son :tlaugh:i really hate it !!! dont't know what's wrong with all these MILs nowadays!!!
yeah i agreed too tat 7pm as last feed to last until 7am is too long alrdy~1. 7pm as last feed for a 6mth old is too early. you can try giving her another bottle at say around 11pm. No need to wake her up, just stick the bottle in, she will auto drink the milk, its call dream feed in Tracy Hogg's method.
2. Baby who do not have a good undisturbed rest will be cranky.
3. If your mother in law wants to carry then let her, you can take this time to do your own things. Perhaps the min your dear daughter starts to fuss and make noise, your mother in law will "throw" her back to you.
4. eewwwwwwwwww~ toothpicks! Germs and bacteria! Let your dear husband tell your father in law that its unhygenic and disgusting. Plus you wun want him to accidentally drip his saliva *oopppss sorry* I mean drops the toothpick and then all his yucky saliva onto your dear daughter.
Actually I dun mind waking up to feed my dd. but whenever dd is being disturbed from her sleep, she will get cranky and make a fuss over it... I will just wait for dd to auto wake up then feed her milk. Now she will wake up at 3am plus and i will just feed her milk even though i'm sleeping soundly. and dd will fall back to sleep in jus a few mins, but whenever MIL feeds her, she will also let dd to play at least 1 hr before letting her to sleep even though dd is already very sleepy, reason being: she wants dd to digest first before sleeping... and logic?actually your mother in law is consider very nice alrdy as she offer to help you take care of your daughter even for nite feeds, at least she didnt xpect you to wake up to feed your daughter but do it by herself~ My mother in law is worse than your mother in law so many many times, last time she aso behaved like your mother in law BUT different is that she xpect ME wake up to feed my son :tlaugh:
i think it is v silly to ask a couple WHY they lock the door. cos the ans is v obvious HAHA!!! :tlaugh:Actually I dont't think you are being too much. My daughter was able to sleep through the night for 12 hours without milk at 3.5 months. She was gaining weight well, and pediatrician even said she might be gaining weight a bit too fast. Babies are not totally helpless, their bodies learn to adjust. If you dont't give her milk in the middle of the night, they will adjust by drinking more milk in the daytime to make up for it.
If I were you, I would also lock the room door. If she ask what we doing inside why must lock the door, then I will tell her, "Couples sleep together will do what one?" Wahahaha...