sjchan
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I’m a full time working mother and my baby is 8 months old now. During weekday, I send her to baby sitter house during day time then fetch her after work. Of course weekend, my husband and I take care of my baby. Sometimes I want my own time then I ask my husband to request MIL come to my house to stay for 1 week and help to look after my baby so that I can have some own time (may be few hours only of 1 or 2 days of the week) to go for facial, shopping or meet up my friend. My MIL is helping my sis in law to guard her maid look after her 2 gals. But she only needs to help my sis in law alternate month (because MIL of sis in law take turn). So actually she has 1 month free time every alternate month. So far I’d requested 2 times but end up she stay for about 3 days then say want to go back Malaysia earlier. In the end I got no chances to have my own time. That 2 times my MIL only inform us she wants to back Malaysia last minutes (inform today, go back tomorrow) without any reason (she just said she want to go back earlier than plan). Some more 2 days out of 3 days stay, she went out whole day to visit her relative or go shopping.
Because of this I got grumble a bit to my husband, end up quarrel with him. He thinks that I may request too much. He offers himself to take care baby while I not at home but actually he not able to handle it alone. He got 1 time take care baby by himself, in less than 1 hour my baby falls down from bed! He also doesn’t know how to prepare food and feed my baby.
How can I have my own time? I only need few hours during my off day (may be every 2 months). Too bad my mother can’t help me because she is busy to take care her business (she owns a shop) in Malaysia. I don’t want to quarrel with my husband on this topic anymore but I really feel want to have some won time to release my stress. :we2arghh:
Because of this I got grumble a bit to my husband, end up quarrel with him. He thinks that I may request too much. He offers himself to take care baby while I not at home but actually he not able to handle it alone. He got 1 time take care baby by himself, in less than 1 hour my baby falls down from bed! He also doesn’t know how to prepare food and feed my baby.
How can I have my own time? I only need few hours during my off day (may be every 2 months). Too bad my mother can’t help me because she is busy to take care her business (she owns a shop) in Malaysia. I don’t want to quarrel with my husband on this topic anymore but I really feel want to have some won time to release my stress. :we2arghh: