Pleaseee allow me to vent this out, it's bothering me a little and I hope to hear what u all think.
My Malaysian cousin's gf is studying in Sg at the moment and she lives not too far from me but we're not that close, only went out once dinner..other times are with all relatives. Her bday is next week. My cousin msged me today all of a sudden (he never usually msgs) and asked me if I'm free this weekend. I said sorry I have work to do. He asked what bout Monday..I said I have work. He replied 'just say ur busy la' btw, he's almost 10 years younger than me but he never speaks with respect to me anyway. I was a bit irritated with his reply already. Then he asked if I know his gf's address. I said no. He asks 'how come i don't know'. I said why should i know, not like i mail her things. Then he said 'like that, i send to ur address, u send to her'..i said if he doesn't mind the thing arriving to my place next week (after her bday) then ok i can send to her. he said 'no her bday is monday, u send on monday'. i said i don't know if i'm in time to collect my mails on monday because i usually come home late and office is closed. he said 'in that case, i order a dozen of roses and u send to her'..i said 'u think i'm a florist is it? u send straight to her apartment and ask receptionist to page her down. so weird i pass the flowers to her'..he said 'no u just send to apartment and ask receptionist to pass to her' :elvis: i said 'what's the difference then?' he said he doesn't know her room no. i said the receptionist can page her down. he replied 'so u don't want to help la...ok then' and stop msging.
I am feeling a bit bad now..am I too selfish? :embarrassed: But I really don't appreciate being treated like a postwoman. And I admit I am selfish because I feel that I am a professional business woman (workwear all that), look so horrible carrying a big bunch of flowers to send to a 10 years younger student? Sighhh feel bad now
My Malaysian cousin's gf is studying in Sg at the moment and she lives not too far from me but we're not that close, only went out once dinner..other times are with all relatives. Her bday is next week. My cousin msged me today all of a sudden (he never usually msgs) and asked me if I'm free this weekend. I said sorry I have work to do. He asked what bout Monday..I said I have work. He replied 'just say ur busy la' btw, he's almost 10 years younger than me but he never speaks with respect to me anyway. I was a bit irritated with his reply already. Then he asked if I know his gf's address. I said no. He asks 'how come i don't know'. I said why should i know, not like i mail her things. Then he said 'like that, i send to ur address, u send to her'..i said if he doesn't mind the thing arriving to my place next week (after her bday) then ok i can send to her. he said 'no her bday is monday, u send on monday'. i said i don't know if i'm in time to collect my mails on monday because i usually come home late and office is closed. he said 'in that case, i order a dozen of roses and u send to her'..i said 'u think i'm a florist is it? u send straight to her apartment and ask receptionist to page her down. so weird i pass the flowers to her'..he said 'no u just send to apartment and ask receptionist to pass to her' :elvis: i said 'what's the difference then?' he said he doesn't know her room no. i said the receptionist can page her down. he replied 'so u don't want to help la...ok then' and stop msging.
I am feeling a bit bad now..am I too selfish? :embarrassed: But I really don't appreciate being treated like a postwoman. And I admit I am selfish because I feel that I am a professional business woman (workwear all that), look so horrible carrying a big bunch of flowers to send to a 10 years younger student? Sighhh feel bad now