-jOanna
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I duno am I over-reacted or wad but I really dun like people carry girl when she not crying, if not she wants to be carried always!
1) When me and my maid was preparing for baby's shower, my MIL walked into my room and carry baby and keep talking to her, and it's the same 2 sentences, "奶奶抱抱" and "妈妈要帮你冲凉了".. I feel damn irritated! She's not crying wad, can't u talk to her while she lies on bed? I tried to tll them in the past dun keep carry if not she likes to be carried next time..
2) After shower, baby kept crying for milk. she'll always cry after being brought out of the water.. so im immuned to it.. den the milk too hot, i placed baby down to make cool the milk, she juz go insde the room, "奶奶抱抱, nehneh 要好了" what's the point? she noes her eyesight not good juz stay out of the way lah. bb cry wan milk den she carry still nid pass to me..
I duno y my hubby n his family so traditional n old fashion! when my mum bought this chair for bb, my MIL insisted the money give to my mum n treat it as she buy for bb instead. y so mafan? both also bb's grandma wad!? and it's nt abt money at all, it's the 心意..
I had so many many unhappiness as long as im at my MIL place! When baby slightly open her eyes to see abit before she falls asleep again, my SIL will juz walk into the room like my room is bb exhibition and talk to her n wake her up.. I really lack of rest!
1 last thing, THEY CLOSE DOORS LIKE THE DOOR OWE THEM MONEY! and these scares bb a lot! i told hubby to tell them ALOT of times but hubby tell me sumthing i very unhappy abt "要让她习惯" wtf? it's supposed that we adults are knowledgeable and muz compromise to baby and not BABY adapt to it! When bb slping, she will be scared de! Can't get this into their bloody stupid BRAIN! ARGH!
1) When me and my maid was preparing for baby's shower, my MIL walked into my room and carry baby and keep talking to her, and it's the same 2 sentences, "奶奶抱抱" and "妈妈要帮你冲凉了".. I feel damn irritated! She's not crying wad, can't u talk to her while she lies on bed? I tried to tll them in the past dun keep carry if not she likes to be carried next time..
2) After shower, baby kept crying for milk. she'll always cry after being brought out of the water.. so im immuned to it.. den the milk too hot, i placed baby down to make cool the milk, she juz go insde the room, "奶奶抱抱, nehneh 要好了" what's the point? she noes her eyesight not good juz stay out of the way lah. bb cry wan milk den she carry still nid pass to me..
I duno y my hubby n his family so traditional n old fashion! when my mum bought this chair for bb, my MIL insisted the money give to my mum n treat it as she buy for bb instead. y so mafan? both also bb's grandma wad!? and it's nt abt money at all, it's the 心意..
I had so many many unhappiness as long as im at my MIL place! When baby slightly open her eyes to see abit before she falls asleep again, my SIL will juz walk into the room like my room is bb exhibition and talk to her n wake her up.. I really lack of rest!
1 last thing, THEY CLOSE DOORS LIKE THE DOOR OWE THEM MONEY! and these scares bb a lot! i told hubby to tell them ALOT of times but hubby tell me sumthing i very unhappy abt "要让她习惯" wtf? it's supposed that we adults are knowledgeable and muz compromise to baby and not BABY adapt to it! When bb slping, she will be scared de! Can't get this into their bloody stupid BRAIN! ARGH!