hmmm....maybe should let her try lorrr....then take the chance to give her bird talkmy boy cries so loudly tonite...
he wanna sleep but he cant sleep...
then just nice i went out of e room,my mother in law came in and tok to my boy..
after that she tok 'bird' words to mi...
say what need mi help you carry him anot,why you wrap him until lik that...
grrr...
i cant even handle him properly,she can meh???
oh dear~~~hab u gotten the nanny oredi??have..me...me...me....but now i too busy cracking my head looking for a nanny to complain. Few weeks back, mother in law overworked herself (her own choice) until her leg become very painful. Out of fustration and anger, she tell me she dont want to take care of my 3 kids anymore thus giving me 1mth notice. Every now and then when she is tired, she will scream at my kids or snap at me...if she have enough rest, she will smile at my kids eat anything i offered her.....
Complaints??? Sure got! A lot!!!no more complaints???????
no leh....still looking....i wan to look for a nanny who love children.oh dear~~~hab you gotten the nanny oredi??
shoot back at her "mind ur own business" !!!!!!!!!!!!My mother in law .. When mybrother in law smokes, she say aiyah, outside also people smoking.. wont die one.
then when i refuse to eat the alcoholic cake, she say eat wont die one.
but when i eat nasi lemak, drink abit of coke, she NAGS and COMPLAINS.
SHE GOT CRAZY OR NOT??
:tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh:Seems like all ILs have such problems eh...My mother in law .. When mybrother in law smokes, she say aiyah, outside also people smoking.. wont die one.
then when i refuse to eat the alcoholic cake, she say eat wont die one.
but when i eat nasi lemak, drink abit of coke, she NAGS and COMPLAINS.
SHE GOT CRAZY OR NOT??
"%%$&#%$&*#*%(^(%#*" to BaObei's MIL......irritatingLast Fri nite, I wanted to let Iggy sleep at 7.30pm then leave and meet you all.. Then mother in law said, why not you let him sleep at 9pm++ so he won't wake up later and play. I was like, "why not you try and put him to sleep around 9pm+ instead coz I meeting friends" Then she replied, "dont't want lahh!! I dont know how to make him sleep~~!" Then I LL. Let her play with Iggy until 9.30pm then make Iggy sleep. By then Iggy was dead tiredz by 10pm+.
Next mOrn, she asked Belle to give me a call, tell me she feed Iggy with Chee Kway? The last time when they stayed over, I already told her not to feed Iggy with outside food!!! She knew it yet do AGAIN!? what's the point of calling me after you have fed him!?
When we reached there, she started her usual routine, "Iggy last nite woke up @ 11pm+ and played until 2am+ then woke up at 6am+! No one disturb him also can wake up!" After asking, then I realised 11pm+ was becoz brother in law came back! They open and close door super loud and also talk! that's why Iggy woke up! zzzz. Then mother in law continue her story, "Just now 12plus slept, 1pm+ woke up , only nap for an hr.. so little~" zzz. She said she tried to make him sleep rock/carry/yaolan but all useless coz dont have my smell so iggy can't sleep??! Fine.
Then when I told her dont't feed Iggy with outside food anymore, she replied, "AIYAH, never mind one lahhh, 1 chee Kuay only! Last time my kids and those I look after also eat, now also grow up!" I told her, but I dont want Iggy to get exposed to so strong flavoured/oily/sweet/salty foods too early. After 2yrs old! Then she again repeat her, "last time I look after this boy, everyday eat roti prata! So also ok." I kept mum. I was boiling oredi..
Dinner time, I was feeding Iggy, she played with him until he doesn't concentrate on eating. In the end, cried wanted to get out of the walker! Then mother in law wanted to snatch Iggy from me twice to pacify him when I was talking firmly to him... I had to pacify him, sing/talk/play toys to feed him until I put him on top of the washing machine. Fed up, then he started to finish his remaining porridge. Fed up oredi rite? mother in law said, "aiyoh, wait fall down jialats!" I was like, "Hello, I'm not gonna kill him by letting him sit there! I'm THERE!" #!$@%
Dinner time for Belle, as usual, asked what Belle wants to eat, before belle could reply, mother in law said she loved RICE. Then my father in law wants to eat hokkien mee, so I said just get hokkien mee for all , easier and buy other foods to mix lorr.. Then Belle ate super slow during dinner coz at 4pm+ she asked BELLE to eat 2 slices of raisins breadz...... WULIAO MAH?! 4pm eat 2 slices?! ......Then mother in law said, "why not give rice, since she like rice.. she eat so slow. Tis afternoon we bought chicken rice for her, she ate so fast!" Ian also alittle hot oredi. Told his mum, "doesn't mean she like rice, she has to eat rice for every meals! She has to try all sorts of foods mahh.. Then the mum aGain nag nag.. In the end, Ian gave her fried rice, but belle also never finish.... Stupid lorr.. grrrrrrrrrr....
Fruits after dinner, she said her family no one likes dragonfruit but since we got eat she bought. Then she kept on saying the fruit is cooling.. I was like, it is good for health lorr.. Iggy also eat.. Duhzz...
By then, I was already super tulanz.. Went down to buy 2 bottles of beer home..
:err:Canned mushroom not high in sodium? So healthy? WahahahahahahCan I complain again??? Can I? Can I?
My SILs are all so hypocritical! They all love to compete to see who eats the HEALTHIEST among them. So every time when they go back to their parents' house during weekend, they will say "It is good that father cooked this soup as it is very healthy. It is not oily. It is not salty." Blah blah blah. There was once father in law steamed some canned sardine & when these women saw that plate, they went "Father! dont cook sardine! It is not healthy! It is canned food! It is full of preservatives! It is not healthy!" Hello! It is only that ONE time that father in law cooked sardine! Must you make such a big fuss???
Again, there was once father in law steamed Muar pearl otah for lunch & these women again went "Father! Next time dont buy otah! It is very unhealthy you know! There is preservatives inside!" So I took a look at the packaging of the uncooked ones inside the freezer. It said "NO PRESERVATIVES". What the hell these women get so alarmed for what?! Look at the packaging first! Dont shoot your mouth!
And every now & then, they will tell me dont cook meat at home, dont eat meat outside as it is not healthy. Then when one of my SILs called us all for a family gathering at her house, guess what??? She cooked meat!!! And it was a canned meat!!! #$$%&*()&*$!!!!
And oh, when the canned food is an item that their daughters LOVE to eat, these women will not make a single sound. Everything becomes ok. My father in law often makes soup with canned mushrooms & my nieces will all snatch them away, sometimes filling up a whole bowl. How come I dont hear their mothers complaining "Father! dont buy canned mushrooms! It is very unhealthy! How many times must I tell you???" And neither do they tell their daughters not to eat so many canned mushrooms!
Healthy eating??? My foot! Unhealthy food automatically becomes healthy food as long as your daughters love to eat them. And you still have the cheek to tell others your idea of healthy eating???!!! WTH!!!