jaybaobei
Active Member
now im 6mths pregnant with no 3. sad to say tis bb is nt what we planned & oso unexpected cos we already hv a pair of twins boy & gal aged 2.5yrs old. im a stay at home looking after them so actually dun intend to hv no 3 but accidentally bingo..so unlucky...
i feel vy stressed & breatheless nowaday. i told my hubby many times how i feel but he doesnt giv a damn. when i hv my 1st pregnancy, he was so caring & massage my thighs every nite cos i tend to feel numb & cramp. now having my 2nd pregnancy, same thing happens to my thighs. i did told him many times but he dun care or show concern for me. whenever he reach home fm wk, he will approach the twins but treat me transparent. frankly speaking, i reallu hate the pregnancy stage. its making me vy uncomfortable & oso cant fully focused take care of my twins. so tired!!
what i need is just a word or action of concern fm him but he jus keep mute. now we still on cold war. i oso suspect he hv affair outside. every nite i hv nightmare about him. i dreamt he hv sex with other woman & loan sharks come to my hse & grab all the things. they said my hubby owe them a millon dollars. last wk he lost in gambling about 50k. i was so shocked & told him how our financial is. he is the sole breadwinner. hv to support the twins, maid & me. can he cope? he doesnt listen to my advice at all.
im already stressout during tis pregnancy period & nw face such problems fm him. making me tired & feel like just dump all this aside & leave this house but cant bear my twins.
can advise me how?? i really feel like dying. no one to talk to.
i feel vy stressed & breatheless nowaday. i told my hubby many times how i feel but he doesnt giv a damn. when i hv my 1st pregnancy, he was so caring & massage my thighs every nite cos i tend to feel numb & cramp. now having my 2nd pregnancy, same thing happens to my thighs. i did told him many times but he dun care or show concern for me. whenever he reach home fm wk, he will approach the twins but treat me transparent. frankly speaking, i reallu hate the pregnancy stage. its making me vy uncomfortable & oso cant fully focused take care of my twins. so tired!!
what i need is just a word or action of concern fm him but he jus keep mute. now we still on cold war. i oso suspect he hv affair outside. every nite i hv nightmare about him. i dreamt he hv sex with other woman & loan sharks come to my hse & grab all the things. they said my hubby owe them a millon dollars. last wk he lost in gambling about 50k. i was so shocked & told him how our financial is. he is the sole breadwinner. hv to support the twins, maid & me. can he cope? he doesnt listen to my advice at all.
im already stressout during tis pregnancy period & nw face such problems fm him. making me tired & feel like just dump all this aside & leave this house but cant bear my twins.
can advise me how?? i really feel like dying. no one to talk to.