HoneybunnyZ
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My boy joined this church kindy at a later stage.
I was shocked to only find out today while we were talking that his classmates (he named about 5 of them) telling him in his face they don't like him. He mentioned he asked.
What made me said was he brought in the school picture and showed me the people and told me the names.
I did notice these 2 girls one little proud did tell another school boy they don't like him before.
And I asked him why he not say anything earlier and does he still want to go back to the school?
He said yes he enjoy the lessons given by the teachers just that he was sad his classmates said that.
I didn't blame all on him since I do not know the full story. But I told him sharing is a good start and also listening to what others have to say and let other people choose or play the way they want.
He said he did try to play with them then sighed and say never mind.
Then he said "I don't want to think about these not nice things anymore. It's okay. I like the school"
It made me more heart pained when he said that and that he tried think about it more positively.
He is 4 years old.
He does not like cartoons and have an avid interest and knowledge in trains even European trains. I don't mean the Thomas and friends types only. I mean British collectors videos with genuine knowledge of these trains....
I hugged him and told him he is very dear to many people and he has friends outside school whom likes him.
He is not very competitive in nature, more of the like to disturb, joke and make fun type and sometimes very sure of his own opinions and sometimes speak the very thing I had felt.
For eg. I was crying very badly when I had to send my mom off in the van after her wake, I was carrying him and he hugged me for a long time gently asking me not to cry. And when he raised his head he said "I love you mama".
Then one day when I was about to open my house door, I muttered now that my mom is gone, I am not sure how it will be like without her. He ran in and said "Mama, don't worry, you still have me!"
Since next year he be in morning session there will be new friends , I told him maybe it will be better and if anything like this still comes up, do let me know. He said okay.
Is it common for girls and maybe some boys to gang up on one particular person time to time and tell them at 4 year old they don't like him/ her?
I feel so bad I only knew now.
I do recall when I was in kindy I really don't like boys though......
hoping for some parents feedback...I did msg the teacher she said she didn't know about it.
She said she do read stories of good moral values but she feels singaporean culture is like that (she studied in Australia for awhile).
I was shocked to only find out today while we were talking that his classmates (he named about 5 of them) telling him in his face they don't like him. He mentioned he asked.
What made me said was he brought in the school picture and showed me the people and told me the names.
I did notice these 2 girls one little proud did tell another school boy they don't like him before.
And I asked him why he not say anything earlier and does he still want to go back to the school?
He said yes he enjoy the lessons given by the teachers just that he was sad his classmates said that.
I didn't blame all on him since I do not know the full story. But I told him sharing is a good start and also listening to what others have to say and let other people choose or play the way they want.
He said he did try to play with them then sighed and say never mind.
Then he said "I don't want to think about these not nice things anymore. It's okay. I like the school"
It made me more heart pained when he said that and that he tried think about it more positively.
He is 4 years old.
He does not like cartoons and have an avid interest and knowledge in trains even European trains. I don't mean the Thomas and friends types only. I mean British collectors videos with genuine knowledge of these trains....
I hugged him and told him he is very dear to many people and he has friends outside school whom likes him.
He is not very competitive in nature, more of the like to disturb, joke and make fun type and sometimes very sure of his own opinions and sometimes speak the very thing I had felt.
For eg. I was crying very badly when I had to send my mom off in the van after her wake, I was carrying him and he hugged me for a long time gently asking me not to cry. And when he raised his head he said "I love you mama".
Then one day when I was about to open my house door, I muttered now that my mom is gone, I am not sure how it will be like without her. He ran in and said "Mama, don't worry, you still have me!"
Since next year he be in morning session there will be new friends , I told him maybe it will be better and if anything like this still comes up, do let me know. He said okay.
Is it common for girls and maybe some boys to gang up on one particular person time to time and tell them at 4 year old they don't like him/ her?
I feel so bad I only knew now.
I do recall when I was in kindy I really don't like boys though......
hoping for some parents feedback...I did msg the teacher she said she didn't know about it.
She said she do read stories of good moral values but she feels singaporean culture is like that (she studied in Australia for awhile).
