decollette
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As above topic.
Just to share. Have been married for close to 2 yrs now and my first born is few months shy of 1 yr old. My in laws are pretty easy going folks, which i remember thanking my lucky stars for when we were about to be married.
After some time, i sometimes get annoyed with them. We live apart and i am a sahm, btw. Certain things like if they repeatedly ask me when am i going to place my boy in childcare, why isnt he in childcare.. why dont i cook at home more often.. etc. I think last time if i heard this i will not think much of it. But now that they are my in laws.. i somehow feel as is they are judging me and i get affected.
I resent the fact that they call my hubby all the time and asks alot of questions. At family gatherings, they speak in their dialect which i dun understand and so when they asked me alot of questions., i feel very bothersome. Seeing that my hubby treats my family like his own, i actually would like to have a more than cordial relationship with them, but i just cant seem to do it.
Does anyone feel the same way? How has your relationship with your in laws changed after marriage? It will be nice to hear some views..thanks
Just to share. Have been married for close to 2 yrs now and my first born is few months shy of 1 yr old. My in laws are pretty easy going folks, which i remember thanking my lucky stars for when we were about to be married.
After some time, i sometimes get annoyed with them. We live apart and i am a sahm, btw. Certain things like if they repeatedly ask me when am i going to place my boy in childcare, why isnt he in childcare.. why dont i cook at home more often.. etc. I think last time if i heard this i will not think much of it. But now that they are my in laws.. i somehow feel as is they are judging me and i get affected.
I resent the fact that they call my hubby all the time and asks alot of questions. At family gatherings, they speak in their dialect which i dun understand and so when they asked me alot of questions., i feel very bothersome. Seeing that my hubby treats my family like his own, i actually would like to have a more than cordial relationship with them, but i just cant seem to do it.
Does anyone feel the same way? How has your relationship with your in laws changed after marriage? It will be nice to hear some views..thanks