Just wondering after a few years of marriage, does your husband still bothers to remember your birthday/ does he still seem as caring as before?
Not sure if it is due to the pregnancy hormone. But feeling kind of sensitive/emotional lately. Feels like my hubby does not seem to care much for me. I see that most DH are so loving towards their wife when they are preggie. But i cant feel that from my hubby, e.g. he doesnt take the initiative to hold my hand, when going up the bus he will march on first, he doesnt like to even give me a peck on the cheek etc. I feels that he finds me a burden now.
It is worse when my birthday is around the corner, but it seems like a troublesome event to him. He told me why should we be bothered even celebrating it.
Every year, be it wedding anniversary or birthday. I am usually the one to make arrangements, book the restaurant (pay from joint account) and buy gifts. He just attends, sometimes reluctantly, and he doesnt seem to be bothered to even think of what to get for me, at the very most just pass me some money, ask me to go look around on my own. I am not asking for much, just a simple Happy Birthday wish and small gift (for me to keep as remembrance). I can always use my own money to buy things, but it just makes a difference if it is a gift he picks for me.
That said, he does take time off to go with me to see the gynae and occasionally does ask me if I am feeling fine.
Maybe my hubby is just not so good at expressing himself. But when I drop hints about how to be more caring etc, he will just tell me dont compare with what others do.
Since I am preggie, I try to think positive so as not to affect my baby. But sometimes I really feel so upset.
Not sure if it is due to the pregnancy hormone. But feeling kind of sensitive/emotional lately. Feels like my hubby does not seem to care much for me. I see that most DH are so loving towards their wife when they are preggie. But i cant feel that from my hubby, e.g. he doesnt take the initiative to hold my hand, when going up the bus he will march on first, he doesnt like to even give me a peck on the cheek etc. I feels that he finds me a burden now.
It is worse when my birthday is around the corner, but it seems like a troublesome event to him. He told me why should we be bothered even celebrating it.
Every year, be it wedding anniversary or birthday. I am usually the one to make arrangements, book the restaurant (pay from joint account) and buy gifts. He just attends, sometimes reluctantly, and he doesnt seem to be bothered to even think of what to get for me, at the very most just pass me some money, ask me to go look around on my own. I am not asking for much, just a simple Happy Birthday wish and small gift (for me to keep as remembrance). I can always use my own money to buy things, but it just makes a difference if it is a gift he picks for me.
That said, he does take time off to go with me to see the gynae and occasionally does ask me if I am feeling fine.
Maybe my hubby is just not so good at expressing himself. But when I drop hints about how to be more caring etc, he will just tell me dont compare with what others do.
Since I am preggie, I try to think positive so as not to affect my baby. But sometimes I really feel so upset.